I have this ex-boyfriend that i really want back.But sometimes it seems like he don't even notice me.And yet he sees me every day because we have a child together.
2006-06-26 19:16:52 · 9 answers · asked by carebear0404882005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay...first, why do you want him back? Because he got away, because you have a child together, because you're lonely? These are questions you have to ask yourself before you could ever learn the art of seduction...and no, seduction isn't about the body...it is about the mind.
Some of the best known seductresses of all time were ugly, and I mean ugly. Why is that? It was because they had a brilliant mind...you can't keep a guy by looks...and as Ron White says, you frankly can't fix stupid. Men are not the bumbling stumbling bunch of mokeys that some would like to make them out to be...men like to be enticed by conversation, by wit, and by intelligence.
So, after you do some self-analysis of course, to "win" your boyfriend back engage him in conversation...and don't talk about yourself...make him talk, make him carry the conversation for a while...and do that until he is practically begging for you to say something...anything, but make sure it's intelligent, do hold back your feelings, for now, make him think that you are not "interested" in him, only the lip service he can provide to break up your day...and then go from there.
Actual seduction is hard to learn, and even harder to understand...but once you get it...you have it forever. Good Luck, and don't forget about the asking yourself why...that's very important.
2006-06-26 19:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him see that you have a life and are ahead of him instead of seeming needy. Also it doesnt hurt when he tells you things to act suprised like it was the first day you were born and at least act like your interested in what hes talking about--then say see ya you have some important things to do & some people to meet up with.
2006-06-27 02:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by RacerXXX S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to irresistible to him it's all about the attitude. If you feel the confidence and the sexual desire, let it out in the way you carry yourself. If that doesn't work try telling him subtly but try not to expect him to pick up on it right away. Men can be slow at getting the hint sometimes.
2006-06-27 02:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by rhall128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean to the guys but, act like you do not care. Be elusive. Men always want what they cannot attain.
Dress yourself to the hilt whenever he is around.
The more skin he sees, the more he will miss.
I know this from experience :-)
My ex husband of 12 years is still chasing me :-)
Good luck!
He should have realized what he had.
2006-06-27 02:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so easy. First....look back at WHY you two broke up. Now....and be honest....do you want to go through that AGAIN?
Probably not.
Ok....now: given that you still WANT this guy, here's what you do....and you've been doing it since you were what....13 maybe???? Do the hair and makeup just right.....next: find the right clothes. You know the ones that you put on, look into the mirror and whisper "Dam*, I DO look lethal now"!
From there....work it, baby.....come to me said the lady spider to the unwitting boy flies.......
2006-06-27 02:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry to say , but he's over you, even if you looked like a super model , he'd notice but it wouldn't get you guys back 2gether,have you tried being really nice and talking to him about what went wrong and that u have changed or something like that?
2006-06-27 02:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he sees you, make sure you're naked. That's as irresistable as a person with this kind of mentality gets.
2006-06-27 02:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what........... he only cares about his child.............
he doesn't love you anymore.......
i suggust you stop to love him. if you still have a hope, just break the hope,
try to love someone else, i don't want to he hurt your feeling again.
good luck!!!
2006-06-27 02:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try so hard
2006-06-27 03:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sheik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋