2006-06-26 19:46:20 · 19 answers · asked by Min 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A 20 year old female virgin? What's wrong with that? She's a pretty strong woman from where I'm sitting at in my book.
And it's her choice too: regardless whether or not she's missing out. Gotta respect that, no matter what. I sincerely do.
2006-06-26 19:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing as "normal" to tell you the truth. Normality is a sticky issue because one persons "normal" might not be the same as yours or anyone else's.
But is it "okay" or "fine"...sure, by all means do what YOU think is right, or whomever you're talking about.
There are plenty of people who wait who regret it, there are others that don't wait that regret that...but if you are strong in what you want, then do as you please. I'm not going to say that a virgin that waits is any better than a person that doesn't wait...I didn't wait for marriage, I then met a wonderful man and we're about to celebrate our 5 year anniversary. But I had a friend that waited because that is what she wanted, and she's about to get a divorce to a guy that she was married to for less than a year because he was terrible in bed and didn't satisfy her needs. So it all depends on the person and what they believe is "normal" or "abnormal".
I think you're fine if you want to stay a virgin...but again I stress that only if that is what you want. So I hope you or whomever is happy in their choice of celibacy...that's all anyone can do in this crazy world...is try to be happy with the choices we make.
2006-06-26 20:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as "normal" and "abnormal" or "right" and "wrong" when it comes to sex.
Anyway, just be aware that such a "sacrifice" is not necessarily worth it. Of course you might find a great guy and marry him and be happy with kids and stuff, I wish you so. But sometimes things just don't happen that way. Couples divorce, love fades away.
Moreover, when you get married, most likely your husband will not be a virgin, he probably will have had sex with others. So why would you absolutely have to remain virgin before marriage? Modern society favours a certain level of "equality" between men and women, so the notion that women's virginity has to be saved for marriage is maybe a little outdated and definitely unfair.
2006-06-26 20:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOTALLY NORMAL! My best friend was a virgin until she was 22. Then she just could not wait any longer. Sadly (and this is true) the guy she lost her verginity to, got her pregnant about 4 months after they started having sex, and left her. He also has 2 kids already and was/is still married while they were screwing around! The wife (Carrie) does not know Jamie (the g/f) is pregnant, AND he (Ricky) is a military man! Nice huh!
2006-06-26 19:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by pink_phish22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! i am going throught the same thing! And in my search i have found that a good majority of the girls i have asked ARE waiting until marriage. I didn't expect the numbers to be so high... it was shocking! no matter what you shouldn't consider society's opinion! you do what you think is right for you!!
with all hope GOD and myself can give you!
much love nd luck to you
2006-06-26 19:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the most normal girl there is than, i hope she stays like this
2006-06-26 19:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Beejan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That`s very normal my friend, it proved that those girls are having principles and good in self control. You know, not many of them specially In western ya wanna keep this tings. Usually they just following the sexual intention, in fact the most precious one when we get married and devote it to the one we love (our soul mate).
Believe me, that the best girl can do and I can say she must be beautiful girl not just outside but inside also. Girls who has principles and good in self control are incomparable
2006-06-26 19:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is normal. if thats what she wants to do then i saw good for her. most people these days are sleeping with anyone just so they can say they have done it. most my mates did it when i was younger i was the last one out of my friends to loos it coz i waited till i found someone i was in love with.
2006-06-26 19:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure its normal,a lot of women stay a virgin until they find that someone special that they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
2006-06-26 19:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's normal. Being a virgin or not is definitely not a basis for being normal or abnormal.
2006-06-26 19:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋