My sister cheated on her boyfriend of 8yrs. Well...he finally found out & now they can't seem to get past it. She talks to people(friends,family,etc.)about the situation & almost everyone says that there must have been something lacking in her relationship, or there must have been something she was getting from the other person that her boyfriend wasn't giving to her in order for her to feel the need to go to someone else. Anytime she defends her acts with that reason, her boyfriend just says that is a b.s excuse to f... around on him & treat him like he is her toy. He frequently uses the analogy..it's like having a toy,playing with it when you want, & then putting it back on the shelf when you don't feel like playing with it anymore. I have no idea what to tell her when she asks me what I think about the whole thing. I don't know. My guess is that there had to be something missing there for her to be wanting or needing attention from someone else. What do you think?
2006-06-19
10:45:37
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