She's brand new & i've NEVER SEEN HER!
2006-06-19 10:55:56 · 61 answers · asked by PrincessP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's 16 yrs. old! I dont know what to do!
2006-06-20 04:59:25 · update #1
Go in and embarass him by putting his clean laundry away or something, better yet his underwear.
2006-06-19 10:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by LilLiE 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
How old is your son? If he is a real adult (21 and older) then you need to have a serious talk with him and decide what you are both comfortable with in the house. If he is a teenager then you have to set him straight as to what you expect out of him while he is still staying under your roof. There is no way that I would accept that type of behaviour out of my girls, but if they are mature adults and are working and taking care of themselves etc and just happen to be still living with me, then I would sit them down and let them know the things that I am comfortable with them doing in my house. In the end, it is still your house and he has to respect that. I think if you went to him with the right attitude and not that you are demanding him to do this or that, then he will understand and be able to come to some agreement with you ---- he may not know that you can hear him or that you are not ok with it. Never assume that someone else can just know your feelings.
2006-06-19 11:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by blake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Newsflash: YOUR SON HAS HORMONES! And they are all focused around his...well...you know...you got pregnant somehow.
Make sure you've had the talk with him. Not just the science behind it but the emotional part too. If you are really concerned about him going further then make-out sessions nothing you say is going to stop him and I think you know that already. Just make sure he uses protection and is responsible about it.
Lay down rules for the house too. No make out sessions. No closed doors. No girls over without a parent on the premises. Don't spy on him, but don't let him rule the house with his hormonal little self either.
2006-06-19 10:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not be in his room. What they are doing is very disrespectful to you. It will lead to more if you don't stop them. My two oldest kids always hated that rule, but they at least respect me for it now. I told them the only way they could go in a room in my house with a member of the opposite sex and close the door is if they are married. You can't prevent everything, but at least you don't have to let it go on in your house.
2006-06-19 11:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably a ho and your son is a guy, just make sure that he knows what the consequences are stds, babies, etc. he won't look like he is listening but he will know in the back of his head what the right thing is to do.
2006-06-19 11:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sitting here asking about it, go in there and stop them! Don't just sit there and do nothing. If he's a teenager, you need to set boundries for him. Don't allow him to have girls in his room. If he's over 18 tell them to get a room, your home is not a brothel.
2006-06-19 13:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly9k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah so? how old is ur son anyways? if hes like older than 13 stop worrying lol. but if u really r worried that bad try to talk to him buot it but be careful cuz if u 2 get into a fight about it he might get all defensive and think ur tryna ruin his life even tho u just care bout him.
2006-06-19 11:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you allowing that? If they are under your roof, they have to abide by your rules. I know my parents NEVER let me go into my bedroom with someone of the opposite sex, and I had too much respect for my parents to be making out with anyone in their house.
2006-06-19 11:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know this is happening why are you on here asking for help? Simply politely step in and tell them to stop. After she leaves have it out with your son.
2006-06-19 10:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit them both down and explain that this is your house and it is very disrespectful for them to be making out in your home, (and I would also speak to your son about his actions and what the consequences could be if he doesnt obstain) and that when she comes over they will not be allowed in his room and if this isnt acceptable to them then she will not be welcomed in your home, nor would I allow him to go to her house as you wouldnt be able to monitor them.
2006-06-19 11:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do short of booting her out?
You do not wanna push your son away so...
Trust yourself!
Trust that you have given him all the facts and information he needs to make well informed and smart decisions AND
trust that he will listen to your advice and ask you if he needs advice.
You did raise him to be a good man right?
Of course you did, so whats the problem.
Your a good mom. relax.
2006-06-19 11:02:27 · answer #11 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋