Friends - December 2007

I was talking to a friend on AIM today and she said "Velus vous choucer acer moi?" then she corrected something by typing "avec*" I asked her what it meant and she said nothing, nvm it.

I was told "voulez-vous coucher avec moi" means do you want to sleep with me in french. She did not type that exactly so is that the only thing she could have meant. Also, why would she say that? She said she had to make sure she had it memorized, but I don't understand why she had to type it over our chat. Not sure if this would help but before she said that she asked if I hated her and I told her not at all. Then she said good, as long as we are good friends I am happy. Thanks

2007-12-21 07:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a hippie friend. Her hippie ways have been fine with me I respect most of them. She recently had a baby and he was sick (18 months old) She is completely clueless. Sounds judgemental because it is. Doesn't like the medical establishment. The child started vomitting while I was over there. He has been sick for weeks with a mucous bad cold. No decongestant, no vicks, no humidifier, it has to be 'natural'. Plus all she feeds him is breast milk, with all that mucous. And what is worse is that she is so arrogant that she won't take any help for anyone. I pressured her and we took the baby to the clinic and the doctor said he was fine but I told her to tell him about his bright yellow mucous which he was throwing up. I said that could be a bacterial infection. She said "what does that mean?" Anyway she says he is slowly getting better. I think that is the most selfish thing in the world. Would you try and work on the friendship? I want to tell her to get it together!

2007-12-21 05:00:32 · 4 answers · asked by daisyduck4007 4

how are you? and what can i get you for christmas?

2007-12-21 04:51:57 · 12 answers · asked by Esa Chica 3

I'm 17 and here's my situation: I got truely amazing friends (we're even planning a 6-day ski trip on school days) and i'm involved in two groups, but I never go to parties, cause non of my friends do. It feels like only "popular" kids go to these huge parties and I probably feel even worst now cause I asked a girl I like out today and she said she's going to a party....
Should I feel bad? I never been to these parties and I don't even know how they go...

2007-12-21 04:30:24 · 24 answers · asked by Pro90 1

2007-12-21 04:15:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.k,we just moved to South Carolina from Michigan and so far the only friends I have are a bunch of wierdos who are sooo self centered! I mean,sometimes they can be nice but not that much.Its not like I want to be reall mean to them,but I want to just stay away from them and for them to stay away from me.How do I do that?!?!

2007-12-21 02:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27years old. I earn only $14/hour.

How will I be able to support her. Take an appartment, TV, cell phone, Car, food, Internet. Keep her happy. Give her all she wants.

Do you think, with $ 14, its enough for two people .
She says she does not want to work. I said, fine.. do as you feel happy.

Serious reply only
What do I do.

Tom

2007-12-21 02:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my friends house one night, and I brought two pair of jeans (expensive, they stopped selling them) I left my favorite pair of jeans and left wearing my other jeans. I got home realizing I did not have them in my bag, but I assumed they were around. Yesterday the friend WORE THE JEANS to school. She said they were laying around but they looked so long she had not worn them. I told one of my others friends seceretly but when she came back my friend said : Her name!!! Jeannine thinks you are wearing her jeans!!!!" Really loud. My friend got really mad saying they were really her sisters jeans, and that she would not steal anything from me. tried to explaine but she stormed off!!! She will never give them back and I spilled white out on my jeans many months before and on her jeans was the SAME white out mark!!!! What should I do?? She already hates me over this. Now both my friends hate me!!!!!

2007-12-21 02:20:44 · 10 answers · asked by Searching at dusk 3

When I feel myself getting close to someone, I tend to push them away.. How should I address this issue

2007-12-21 02:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

I just read in the paper that a close friend was fired yesterday . . . a week before Christmas. I know they are a little strapped for money so I am sure this is a stressful time for them. I would like to send money to them but I am concerned with stepping on anyone's toes. I'm younger and I have the upmost respect for them. Can you please help with the a letter saying that I hope this helps with their mortgage and other neccessary expenses. I'm planning to send $5000. Do I send it to the wife and not the husband? Men can be funny about that type of thing. I don't want to hurt his pride, like it hasn't been hurt enough. I just want to say that I think the world of them and I wanted to ease some of the burden during this difficult time. I want them to know that no one else needs to know about this and they never have to worry about repaying me. I feel sick to my stomach that this has happened to such amazing people. Please help with putting this on paper!

2007-12-21 02:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Nezz 2

shes dating two guys at once. "boy number 1" she BEGGED me to get them hooked up. and i used to have the biggest crush on boy number 2. and then she hooked up wiht him while shes still dating boy number one. and boy number one is my boyfriends best friend... what should i do? :/

2007-12-21 01:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by FPLC :) 1

i studied in UK miss the winters and friendly people....any girls out there

2007-12-21 00:49:22 · 3 answers · asked by sajad 1

please help me what should i do ?
im not good with English , so please forgive me


so heres the story

theres a girl i like we talked and we got to be friends , than she starts asking me for stuff cause she know i like her,

than few weeks later she made fun of me ,said i was ugly

than she ignored me for 3 days ..than she starts talking and asking me for more stuff


than she gets a boy friends and keep it a secret ,

3 weeks later her boyfriend brakes up with her ... than she comes to asking for more stuff .. than after 4 moths we got in to a fight ,

she wont admit having a boyfriend
she wont admit using me
she acts like a princess when shes proved wrong


now she keeps on ignoring me ...


what should i do about this girl ??? should i move on

2007-12-21 00:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well it was my birthday yesterday, we had a family party that my mom threw and it was great and everyone had fun! I got some nice stuff and really appreciated all the nice things people gave to me. Eery birthday for my younger cousin I get here something she mentions, or I think she'd really like. She has a summer birthday; ver the summer I bought her this rhinstone olive green hat from this chic boutique called "A Different Twist" ( she mentioned she loved it earlier). I also got her a pound of her fav fudge. Her friends got her some really nice stuff as well and they thanked me. For this birthday my cousin gave me two random books that she already had lying around her room, she said her and her mom just found them and wrapped them (she told me this too). The thing is, for her friends birthdays, her family talks about and always gets them something nice like an arts and crafts thing. But for my birthday, she wraps a book from her room. Is it wrong to be annoyed? Should I let it go?

2007-12-20 23:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 22:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

her name is kirsi rytkonen.lived in munterinkatu,turku.helsinki.around 1986........

2007-12-20 21:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by sajad 1

This friend that I am referring to is my officemate. I love to be with him because he is so simple, kind, always makes me laugh even in a very small thing. He always go with me wherever I go specially when I am alone, he's always by my side talking about anything that we can think of. I love to be with him and to be his friend.

How can I control this feelings not to fall into a deeper one and love him not only as his friend? We're both married, and both have our own happy family. I don't want to lose him because I want him as my friend.

Please help.

2007-12-20 18:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by dainasana 1

2007-12-20 18:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by david p 2

A friend of mine is 17 but she has a boy friend who is 26, i was told that she thinks that he's 23 and i found out he's 26 and i think i should tell her???

2007-12-20 17:10:39 · 29 answers · asked by FUnkjunKie 2

well let me start when all of this happened.ok well when i was in 6th grade i got picked on alot so my mom toke me out of public school and home schooled me. but that was bad. all my friends stopped talking to me, no calls no emails no nothing. well after a half of a year of home schooling my mom put me into private school. now i have friends there and stuff like that. but everyday im there all the girls are always saying i will call you tonight k? or like we should so do that. But not once has any of my friends ever called me,invited me over,nothing at all. and it makes me so sad cause im nice to everyone and no one cant even invite me over!!!!!!! i just dont get it!!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IM DOING WRONG!!!!!! I just want some nice friends. oh and im a girl and 13.

2007-12-20 17:05:19 · 22 answers · asked by Cha Cha! 4

I don't know how to say it but here it goes . My best friend (will call her jane) in the entire world get alone better than my own sisters she's practicaly my twin. Now theres another best friend of hers (will call her mary). It nevered bothered me before untill this year. It feels like she is hording on to my territory. I just want grab jane by the arm and say to mary "shes mine back off"! I know people can have more than one best friend but this is different . Plus mary and jane get to hang out more cuz they have classes together and i barely see jane anymore except when we plan things and in between the halls at school. Then this whole thing with going to different colleges. Mary and jane saying that there going to be roomates and all this stuff. Mary saying that she going to name her frist girl after jane. i think thats going to a lil to far now. Mary also gave jane a necklace that says bff ( so 6th grade by the way) so yeah there it is i feel better now any advice?

2007-12-20 17:02:52 · 6 answers · asked by Jane M 3

Whenever anyone gives me clothes for christmas it just doesn't match my style or the clothes is too big or small. I feel strange, sometimes I wish they didn't have to give me anything. Most of the time, I would just rewrap their presents and give it to somebody else. What do you do?

2007-12-20 15:39:03 · 22 answers · asked by pi n 1

Ok so i am on the basketball team for my school. I am a Pretty good basketball player. I love to play. Well, My team never passes me the ball because im left handed. When they do they YELL at me because im shooting wrong or something. They will yell at me that there open and like yell at me alot. Like one girl will yell at me if i do something wrong once if i make the shot then there like nice shot. I wanna quit the team but i dont think i am going to. Im getting sick and tired of people telling me when i can and cant shoot.. The other problem is that I've told my coach before that i was thinking about quiting but he told me to stay. The only reason why this all started is because im left handed. Please help

2007-12-20 14:42:56 · 2 answers · asked by Leftyyy 2

1.shes IMing all my friends and crap
2. she COPIES me about what I wear&what I listen too.
shes getting a fall out boy cd when she dont even know who PETE WENTZ is or even 2 OF THEIR SONGS! [for christmas]
3. she IMed this guyy. saying she likes him [i know him] & she is in 6TH GRADE! hes in MY GRADE [8th]
SHE EVEN WANTS TO GO HURT HIS GF! she never even MET HIM. she also called him &told him she was my sister :[ she also wants to send a pic of herself to him because she thinks HE LIKES HER.
4. she called my bestfriends hot when his GF his my other best friend!
-am i wrong to think that she is ruining my life? I want her to be HER OWN PERSON. IM ME. SHE IS HER. Im sick of this. and then my brothers gf & her were talking [trying to whisper] but his gf said "make sure you still like him when you go to 7th grade" Im sick of this and about to run away and be more emo with my friend. am i wrong to feel this way?

2007-12-20 14:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by L 1

Well my friend likes to make crazy bets, mainly because no one does them, or when people do, she makes a profit.

This would stretch from next Wednesday at noon to next Friday at 9:00 (2.5 days)

I would get to her house on Wednesday. I would be in my school uniform the whole time. At noon, she would handcuff my hands in front of me so I couldn't take my uniform off. I'd have a key for me, but if I use it, I lose the bet. I would be handcuffed the whole time, except for 30 minutes in the morning where I could change into a new uniform and shower. I'd spend the night at her house on Wed and Thurs night. I'd probably just do some homework and hang out.

But if I give up, I'd have to pay her $50 and I'd win nothing.

So should I do it?

2007-12-20 13:57:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, so about a week ago, there is this girl who i have known for 2 years and who made it sound like she was going to get me something. yesterday, i told her "im gonna get u something too" and she says to me "ooh.. acualy, i didn't get u anything, because i "didn't have any time".. sorry!, i'll get you something after winterbreak".. and i say "oh okay.. w/e"

but the next day, she brings in a HUGE gift for this popular girl named jackie, BUT LATER THAT DAY. i asked jakie if she liked the gift my friend gave her. jakie said "whos SHES?" JAKIE DOESNT EVEN KNOW MY FRIEND AND MY FRIEND GOT HER A GIFT. then my friend tells me "oh sorry sara, i didn't get you anything... i'll get u something after the break" WTF IS THAT??? i have known her for 2 years, and she didn't even get me anything!!! then she gets this girl who DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HER a really big gift!!
that shoes that shes a wanna be, only being nice to popular ppl
im really pissed at her, and im not giving her anything back.

2007-12-20 13:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I usually see girls I don't know but would like to know and talk to in public places. How do I start a conversation with them?

And what if their in a group? I don't wanna come up to a big group of people I don't know.

Also, I may get a job at a movie theater. And there are ALWAYS girls I want to talk to and get to know there. If I do work there, how can I talk to them? What would I say?

Even if I don't decide to work there, how would I talk to them?

2007-12-20 13:17:02 · 3 answers · asked by DaClint 5

2007-12-20 13:06:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last homcoming my best friend left her necklace from her grandmother at my house. Its been a year now, and i just found it all tangled up with one of my earing in the bathroom. Me and my sister untangled it and i remembered that it was a gift from her VERY RICH grandmother. Now me and my best friend are not friends anymore...at all. She was not a good friend, and she ended our friendship on a bad note. I got the necklace aprasied, and its worth $300. My family could really use that money right now, especialy at christmas time. If i sold it, i would give all of the money to my parents as a x-mas gift. But what would be the right thing to do?Should i give it back to her?

2007-12-20 12:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by Willow 2

i cant find pictures of courtney bohn a 12 year old girl that died in texas and i was wantin 2 know if someone will find me some pictures of her somehow and send them 2 me plz

2007-12-20 12:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by ash2008! 1