O.k,we just moved to South Carolina from Michigan and so far the only friends I have are a bunch of wierdos who are sooo self centered! I mean,sometimes they can be nice but not that much.Its not like I want to be reall mean to them,but I want to just stay away from them and for them to stay away from me.How do I do that?!?!
2007-12-21 02:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know, there are plenty of nice people around despite sometimes evidence to the contrary. The best way to find nice people is to try and be nice yourself. Sounds like you need to stop hanging around with your current crowd and look for new folks. But the way to do this is to look at yourself. Do you act like the rest of your crowd? Dress like, talk like, behave like? That's just going to get you more of the same. The way to find nice is to be nice yourself.
2007-12-21 02:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by cataraft_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember all people will not like your style, your opinions or any other aspect of your life, But you will find those who you are compatible with. I moved to SC from Louisiana almost 2 yrs ago. It took a while, but there are people that will be put into your life that will make a difference. Just be patient it will happen and
Remember you dont have to impress anybody, just be yourself, thats all that matters, the rest will come
2007-12-21 10:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by scred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i live in south carolina too.....but trust me people are self centered everywhere. lol. I say just slowly start talking to them less and less. Just kind of distance yourself from them and try to talk to different people a little bit.=]
2007-12-21 10:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call them or answer their calls, say u are busy and then GET busy and fine new.differeent friends that can be called real friends. Why do u attract that type. maybe u need to ch ange your own way of doing or talking, just a suggestion.
2007-12-21 10:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by snowriver 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find new friend's, say hi to different people and make conversation... Ditch the weirdo's!!
2007-12-21 10:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you picked the wrong crowd to hang with, suggest that you drop them like hot rocks....likely the nice crowd is waiting for you to do just that before approaching you.
2007-12-21 10:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe use the silent treatment or be different from them and they might not be your friends anymore.
2007-12-21 10:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends, you are who you hang with. If you stay friends with them then you will also be weird and not nice.
2007-12-21 10:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about not taking a shower for at least a mo., and don`t brush your teeth or hair....
2007-12-21 10:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by curtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them and get friends you like. they clearly don't like you and don't want you as a friend
2007-12-21 10:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋