I am female and I have a male friend who is having a really bad week. In the past I have given him several full body massages when he is stressed or back is sore. I know he loves them and has raved about them!
The IM message I got when I tried to talk to him earlier was curt..."I'm having a bad week and not feeling too sociable. Catch ya later". Unusual to get that message. I just said bye and if he needed to talk, he knows where to find me.
My question is, if you were a guy in a bad mood, how would you feel about a friend at the door with a bottle of massage cream for a "just because" massage? I'm not going with intent to talk, just relax him. Purely platonic too!!!
Gotta understand that this is the way I like things...I like to surprise, I am generous with my friends, I am an awesome listener, definitely a nurturer, very caring.
I want to just show up and not ask. If I ask, I'm sure he will just say
2007-07-19
09:40:03
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angeloncall2000
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