If you are a lady and you are in a relationship, would you mind if your boyfriend chats with other women on his cellphone?
If you were a guy would you mind your girlfriend chatting via sms with other guys?
By the way you've never met the othr person, guy or lady.
Just curious to know what your opinion is.
2007-07-19 05:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my opinion is, I either know her and know what she wants with him or he isn't chatting with her anymore.
I'm generally not jealous but if they chat allot and you don't know the other person (because he won't tell you) that in my opinion is grounds to worry.
I agree with nikkilee it is a matter of respect also.
2007-07-19 05:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Arlene 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing as most guys have friends that are girls in addition to girl friends, and most girls have friends that are boys in addition to boyfriends (myself, most of my friends are boys) it's not that big of a deal. Obviously if he picked you you don't have to worry about it. If it's just like a casual conversation it's no big deal. But if i was in the situation, i'd probably get jealous. I guess it depends. Humans are really jealous and hypocritical...Yeah, i'd be jealous but i'd know it wasn't really bad so i wouldn't start anything with the other person. That'd just show i was jealous.
2007-07-19 12:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by lesley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were a teenager, I would be jealous because that is how you are. If I were older and understood the kind of friendship these people had, I might not be jealous. Circumstances make a big difference.
2007-07-19 12:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, I guess it would depend on how strong our relationship is. It may just be something as simple as a friend of hers from work. If you feel secure in your relationship then don't worry about it, but if there is doubt..talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2007-07-19 12:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. absolutely not. It's a matter of respect.
If you care about me, you would avoid doing things that make me feel like crap.
Which includes talking to other women, exclusive or not.
2007-07-19 12:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by nikkilee911 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
only if that person lets u does it too!! it wouldn't b fair if like the girl was chatting on her cell with another guy when she doesnt let her bf talk on the phone with other girls!!
2007-07-19 12:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would totaly mind my husband chatting with other wemon on phone unless its for bussiness his sister ,mom or something like that, then that would be differant
2007-07-19 12:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by AMBER 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-19 12:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by MiiSHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind him talking to other girls. I trust my boyfriend.
2007-07-19 12:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by lov308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt care because he is my boyfriends and their probally just his friends i mean just because your his girlfriends doesnt mean he cant talk to other girls
2007-07-19 12:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋