I'm always curious what people usually do when they stop by at a friend's house. I know some people have different cultural backgrounds which they rarely follow, so I want to know something about it.
2007-07-19 07:37:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they are obviously doing something (almost unconsciously) try to follow that. For example if they take off their shoes when they come in you should also. If they say a prayer before eating don't start a conversation till they are done with it.
it isn't a matter of copying just of not acting like a jerk on purpose.
2007-07-19 07:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that proper manners are always appreciated. When you enter a house, offer to take off your shoes. Say 'hello, how are you?' talk a bit to your friends parents or relatives. That way they can get to know you and they will see that you are a respectful person. If you are staying for supper, offer to help them set the table or to clean up afterwards. If you are with a certain ethnic group that kisses one another on the cheeks when they greet each other, do the same (if you know about the custom). Also, if you know you are invited for a supper, bring a little something, such as dessert or a salad. Always ask if you could borrow something or watch something on the television (always use please, thank you). When you leave, say thank you and how you appreciate their hospitality. Parents tend to hate their children's friends that aren't well-mannered, and they would hate for their own children to spend time with them. If you know basic manners, you will be good to go. Good luck,
2007-07-19 15:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the friend! I would definately always call first. If it was a friend who I see every day, or felt extremely comfortable with, I might go over, take off my shoes and act like I live there. But if it was a friend from out of town or that I wasn't that close with, I would bring a small gift of appreciation for putting me up in their home, and offer to help cook meals, clean up after meals and anything else that involves me being a part of their household for however long I am staying.
2007-07-19 14:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your friend what the rules and customs there are at his/her house, and try to follow them. Whatever you do, don't fall back on the "I'm a guest and am therefore never wrong" reaction. If you make a mistake, apologize breifly (no excuses), correct it, then ignore it.
2007-07-19 14:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cobalt S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the occassion. if you are invited over for dinner, bring a desert or a side dish. if you are invited to hangout, just bring yourself. if you are invited for a party, bring some refreshments.
2007-07-19 14:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by civil_av8r 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋