One of my friends, "samm" is going out with my other friend, "Bri." She has somethign against my other friend, "Vanni" hanging out with him. I think "Samm" is afraid "Bri." is going to dump her for our other friend "Vanni" I talked to "Bri" and he said that he wouldn't dump her for the world. What should I do? "Vanni" and "Samm" are arguing almost all the time. We used to be amazingly close. Please give me some advice. I don't want our friendship falling apart.
2007-07-19 09:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by iggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honestly it never was that strong to began with. I've seen this classic play of jeaous in friends groups, weather male or female, all the time because aparently those two still have issues with each other. And most likly themselves. See inorder for a group of friends to be really close it should take more then some other person to tear them apart. Since it is another person causing the trouble then I know that at the very least they havn't matured to a level were they see that there friends are more important then some chance sexual encouter, or a possible "boyfriend". But since they can let this guy get inbetween them they got a very shallow friendship. You want to fix it then let me tell you how me and my "bros" handle this. BOYS BEFORE THE BIATCHES! Same for you, "girl" friends frist, if they can't achieve this simple doctrain then I'm sorry hunnie you guys are just like the rest of the world and have confused assocites with friends, good luck with that.... its coming down to samm beable to be confident enough in herself and her relationship with both parties inorder to make this work. Seems she is just plain prideful, not seeing heart in the matter, just whats hers.... yea good friends, lmao!
2007-07-19 10:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋