I am female and I have a male friend who is having a really bad week. In the past I have given him several full body massages when he is stressed or back is sore. I know he loves them and has raved about them!
The IM message I got when I tried to talk to him earlier was curt..."I'm having a bad week and not feeling too sociable. Catch ya later". Unusual to get that message. I just said bye and if he needed to talk, he knows where to find me.
My question is, if you were a guy in a bad mood, how would you feel about a friend at the door with a bottle of massage cream for a "just because" massage? I'm not going with intent to talk, just relax him. Purely platonic too!!!
Gotta understand that this is the way I like things...I like to surprise, I am generous with my friends, I am an awesome listener, definitely a nurturer, very caring.
I want to just show up and not ask. If I ask, I'm sure he will just say
2007-07-19 09:40:03 · 10 answers · asked by angeloncall2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm thinking of just sending him a message...have this time open because I am coming over to give you a massage.
2007-07-19 09:41:16 · update #1
The worse my day, the better a massage feels. You are sending a massage message?
2007-07-19 09:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a female friend of mine was going out of her way to give me full body massages, I would have a hard time believing that her intentions were purely platonic. What is your definition of full body massage, btw?
2007-07-19 09:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Xander Crews 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know your friend better than we all do.
Is he the type that would enjoy a lovely surprise massage?
I know if one of my guy friends show'd up to give me one, I'd be mega excited!
If you think he really needs one and that it would help him out, then yeah, send him a message and get over there to give him a massage. He'll thank you for it.
2007-07-19 09:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just send him a text and offer the massage. Tell him to call you if he is interested. Don't just show up at the door, he may not be as welcoming as you think.
2007-07-19 09:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in simple terms be genuine and organic -- bodily,mentally,etc. Be truthful and candid, and share some doubts and secrets and techniques. No factor faux to be an angel earlier marriage yet a propose entity after that. The worst way for a guy to die is to get coronary heart-assaults after getting to understand the suited truths, the two in mattress or out of it.
2016-10-09 02:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by bolen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really into the massage thing, because the think I wanted rubbed isn't included
2007-07-19 09:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt want to talk or hes not feeling sociable just leave him be.maybe he needs some personal time and needs to straighten things up or whatever. i wouldnt go over because hes obviously not in the mood. Once hes feeling better or he deals with whatever hell talk to you and tell you whats up. just give him some personal time.
2007-07-19 09:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love it if one of my GF's came over randomly and did that for me. Especially if I was having a bad week. =) That would be the coolest thing ever! It would totally make my week better and I would have someone to talk to as well.
2007-07-19 09:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by DL Ðet®oit Welcome back Big Ben! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he TOLD you he was having a bad week & wasn't sociable & he would catch you later. Why would you FORCE yourself on someone who doesnt want your company? Leave him alone.
2007-07-19 09:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really having a bad day...and my back hurts...call me!
2007-07-19 09:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Cerealkiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋