Friends - July 2007

At least, that's how it seems to me.
Lately, she's been feeling sorry for herself a lot because she's sick of being single, and she wants to find a guy.
I mean, that's absolutely normal, I don't have issues with that - I've tried to help her find a guy, but there's no one we know that she's interested in right now.
The only problem is when she's around me and my boyfriend. Like at the end of the school year, my boyfriend came to say good morning to me, and my friend was there. As I was talking to her, he took my hand. I didn't talk to him much because I know she hates when people don't pay attention when she's talking, all I did was hold his hand very casually.
But afterwards, when he left, she told me how I made her really uncomfortable, and she doesn't want to see me holding hands with him and stuff in front of her.
I know she wishes she was in a relationship, but it's like I can't be anywhere near him when she's around, or she gets so mad at me!
What should I do?

2007-07-25 23:32:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend is really attached to me - we've been best friends for years now, and I do love to spend time with her.
The problem is, she hardly has any other friends, and she never hangs out with them.
I'll spend the night at her house and then the next day after I leave she wants to go to a movie or something, like we haven't seen each other in weeks.
She calls me a lot to ask if I want to hang out, but I can't hang out with her every single day. We don't have cars, and my parents don't want to drive me around all the time.
Plus, I've got other really good friends who never see me that want to hang out... and my boyfriend, I want to see him too.
What can I do to tell her she needs to have other friends besides just me?

2007-07-25 23:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 23:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by samb2468 1

do you like restaurants were you get to pick your own live lobster before it gets cook for you???

Have you ever done it? If not woud you like to go to one of this types of restaurants?

2007-07-25 23:14:28 · 4 answers · asked by el mismo 2

I have this friend, we're competing for an essay. And after that contest, we talked about it. I always ask them about what did they write. I'm just excited, to know what their answers are b/c I'm just ensuring that nobody has a resemblance to my essay. And he told me that why am I asking, maybe I'm really desperate and really wanna win. He's not that guy who becomes jealous...he's just funny. How can I convince him that I am not desperate....I just wanna make sure that nobody has the same essay and I just wanna make sure that I have a good essay.

2007-07-25 22:47:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 22:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean that in a mean way, I just don't want his feelings hurt when he fails (which he will)

2007-07-25 22:02:20 · 21 answers · asked by carla here 1

my best friends little girl is like 1 now and whenever i go over to his house, she just runs over to me and she wont leave me alone, lol, i dont know what it is about me, but i either have to be holding her, reading to her, or she will go around the house and find random objects to bring to me. I am fine with all that, she is a cutie, but the problem is that she calls me daddy. and i am clearly not, they all laugh about it but i dont want to cause problems, why would she think i am daddy? Is there something i should start doing or stop doing?

2007-07-25 21:43:32 · 4 answers · asked by Jesse N 2

Ok my bestest friend in like the whole wide world like totally wants me to go b-i-t-c-h-ing around town with her and some of the other b-i-t-c-h-es.But I'm totally like freaked out because I'm like totally being a b-i-t-c-h and my b-i-t-c-h a-s-s is scared because last week when my friend and some of the other b-i-t-c-h-es went b-i-t-c-h-ing around town one of my friends got a black eye and another one is on crutches due to a broke leg and another is wearing a b-i-t-c-h a-s-s neck brace which is totally sucky but anyways like what should I do take the risk and go b-i-t-c-h-ing around town?After all it's totally cool or just keep my b-i-t-c-h a-s-s home and like miss out on some b-i-t-c-h-ing?

2007-07-25 19:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I often watch my husband and others our age make friends effortlessly, but I can't seem to make any friends. No one makes the effort to call me up to see how I'm doing but I see my husband's friends call him all the time just to say hi, to go out, or whatever. Sure we have friends that he calls "our" friends, but they never bother calling me, only him.
I admit I'm a bit jealous, but I don't know what to do. I sit here watching him talk on the phone, email, and run out the door to meet friends, and I just sit here staring at my phone hoping someone would call.
I've even made a serious effort to call others and visit them, but the moment I decide not to be the one doing all the contacting, the "friendship" is over. They never call back, they never email me, they never visit me.
I've had this problem since I was in college, now I'm 32 and still having the same problem. I'm really at a loss and am terribly lonely watching my hubby walk out the door to hang with his friends.

2007-07-25 19:33:31 · 8 answers · asked by Amy V 3

So me and my best friend are at our other friends house, were 16. We decide to go get on the computer, when we walk in the room our friends dad comes chargin in the room OUT!!!! OUT!!!!! lol.. so were like um ok so we leave the room and walk to the living room wondering wut just happened. Before we knew it OUT!!! OUT!!!!! EVERYONE OUT!!!! so me and my friend are tryin to get down the staris to leave...but hes chasing us down and were tripping down the steps trying to get our shoes on. Finally we make it out of the mad house.....can anyone explain this or atleast give it a shot?

2007-07-25 19:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do. i cant be anything but honest. i was just wondering how many others are out there doing the same.

2007-07-25 18:59:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 18:46:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 18:25:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will.

You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.

You'll fight with your best friend.

You'll blame a new love for things an old one did.

You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

"Don't be afraid that your life will end,

Be afraid that it will never begin."

2007-07-25 17:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by Sangy . 4

ok so. i have a guy friend and we talk on the phone sometimes, but i have to call him. hes always an ***. but recently he tells me now that he misses me an he loves me. i dont know if i should take it as he loves me in a friendly way or i dont know. but ive called him lately and he doesnt answer most of the time. so i havent called since (2 or 3 days) so should i call him????

2007-07-25 17:14:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

thanks!!

2007-07-25 17:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were very close friends for like ten years, recently she forgot my birthday because she only cares about the drama she created for herself by getting pregnant from her "stay at home" (not working since three yrs ago, not looking for a job either) boyfriend of ten years who is still married to a woman he left with a child.
She always complains about not having enough money to live the life (above her means) that she and her boyfriend like. She tells pretty much all her friends and family the same sad tale and them clearly expresses her expectations of people giving her money for her trips, vacations or credit card bills.
I feel that by cashing the check I give her permission to bug me even more with her sad stories, expecting me to shed money at her smallest "HINT"

2007-07-25 17:04:55 · 3 answers · asked by 5324 2

I live in Boston and my friends and I have nothing to do at night because we dont want to spend a lot of money on stuff. We normally just end up sitting around in the town center. It's SUMMER! we need some things to do!! We are all 16. Even if you dont live in Boston and you have some good suggestions it would be helpful. thanks!

2007-07-25 16:01:59 · 15 answers · asked by Unh Noane 1

well,i have a teacher and she was like my best mate,and my other mate told my teacher that i was obsessed with her still and well now i have no idea what to do and i need to get her back before school because my teacher was the only one one listened to me. i love her guys ,well not like i want to take her to bed or i want to marry her or as a gf i mean i love her like she were my best mate. i just need you guys to tell me how to get my mate back

2007-07-25 15:33:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know if I should tell my friends that I like a guy. Last time I told someone 10 people found out. Should I tell my friends?

2007-07-25 14:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a close friend who just lost her Dad a few weeks ago. Her Mom is in pretty bad shape and may not last long. A bunch of us girls wanted to take our friend to dinner and do something special for her - just to perk her up. She is always doing things for everyone else and we know that she is worn out. Does anyone have any good ideas?

2007-07-25 12:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by Trixie98 1

I'm trying to work out if its his dog, best mate or his partner.

2007-07-25 12:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It just happened. I was working in a bar, and in my free time, reading a book by Carlos Castaneda, "The Power of Silence", where Don Juan kept hitting Carlos in his "Assemblage Point", in the book, but it was not clear on where exactly that assemblage point is. So, anyway, this musician on one lateSaturday night was fighting with another Musician on the stage, and I had to stop it, so I walked up and hit him right where his head and neck joined.
He went down right away, and I actually thought for a moment I might have killed him. By the time he got back up, I had already fled to the kitchen and hid behind the sink and the knives.
He came in and looked right at me, then turned around and got a beer from the fridge. Days later he calls and asked why he had bruises on his neck. Then he finally comes back on Thursday and looks me in the eye and tells me, "Somebody hit me in the BACK of the head!" (Uh oh)
I tried to look very sorry, but later I couldn't stop laughing... I still can't.

2007-07-25 11:25:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just told me last minute today that she is having a pool party tomorrow. And when she called she was like "I was just wondering if you have a one piece bathing suit" and I was like "No, why?" and she was like "Oh, well I just thought it might be better." That really bothered me, because I wear bikinis, but not tiny string bikinis, and she's seen them. And when we went swimming at a lake with our class, she was complaining about all the girls' bikinis when they weren't even that bad. Her parents and her are very strict about that kind of stuff, and I don't even own a one piece because I don't like them. I feel weird going over there in a bikini, and I'm kind of hurt by what she said. What should I do? (They are mormans, so I think that's why they are so strict.)

2007-07-25 10:19:33 · 33 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3

2007-07-25 09:41:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I usually do, but for some reason my daughter & I quit saying it to eachother? Can't really remember when or why? I told her just because we don't say it anymore I still love her the same. It's hard to describe, but even having that conversation w/ her was kinda wierd/hard, but I'm glad I did! I didn't realize how hard it is once you stop saying it, to start again. Does that make sense? I feel bad, cuz I still say it to my son even though I am close to both of them.

2007-07-25 08:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

me and my best friend will be startin highschool soon and i'm moving far out i will still be going to the same school but the house is further out my mom was considering letting him move in with us during the school year like coming to our house on sunday night then going back to his house on friday night he hasnt asked his parents yet what do you think me and him should do please help ????? oh yeah it just me and my mom and we live in a 3 bed 2 1/2 bath so theres plenty of room

2007-07-25 08:00:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

d me that if her date cancels, could I go? I asked her what time the reception was because I have to get up very early on Sun. am to help my boyfriend @work. She told me it started @ 6 so I told her I would go only if we could stay for 2 hrs. She said that was fine. Then she called me like a week after that & tells me everything is starting @ 3 so she will pick me up @ 2. I reminded her that I have a prior engagement on the other side of town,& I can't rush through it.Then she says the reception is still @ 6, I reminded her that she invited me to the reception not the wedding.Now she tells me that her car brokedown & she wants me to catch the bus to her house & catch a ride w/ her family. I told her I was sorry I couldn't go w/ her to the reception & now she is mad. She wanted me to cancel my whole day & night for a wedding of some1 I don't even know. My noon apointment is very important & I can't cancel it she doesn't understand that. Or my devotion to helping my boy friend @ work.

2007-07-25 07:55:55 · 9 answers · asked by Miss 6 7

i love one of my classmates she's a girl?! but not what you think. i mean what should i do to say her that i love her but not as a lover like boys and girls. yoi know i have my own boy friend?!
what do you think i can do to tell her that i love her?

2007-07-25 07:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous