Friends - February 2007

my friend is cheating on his gf with my best friend. His gf and him are together for just over 2yrs and she's away on hollidays for 2months. I work with them both. My best friend kissed him but then after said that she was really guilty and sorry and i asked her never to do it again bcoz it puts me in the middle. After that they slept together again and at my house after i fell asleep on the sofa. i feel reallly mad and upset with my best friend for disrespecting me and doing the one thing i asked her not to (in my hse) and also at him bcoz i asked him not to aswell. My best friend has also only jus gotten out of a 11yr relationship bcoz her ex cheated. What should i do? if i tell her it will be akward at work and i might lose my friendship with everyone plus i know him longer than his girlfriend. i still haven't told them how mad i am right now i feel like i don't really wanna see them for a long time. should i say something??

2007-02-26 12:15:05 · 4 answers · asked by fleur 1

2007-02-26 12:08:38 · 34 answers · asked by uradellc 2

My friend cut. I told the councler after a while with my other friend. We had her promise she wouldnt tell the parents, but maybe other people. My friends parent are abusive, emotionaly and phisicaly. Now a week later the councler had the friend confes the cutting and now the councler is caling the parents. Its a "Window or Opurtunity" I wasnt supposed to tell anyone, but i told the counlser in secret. Now the friends parents got called. My friend hasnt come home yet, she said she wouldnt go home. I tried teling her not to, and now i feel guilty. -Clarification

-Should i tell her that i the one who told?
-Shes not home im rly woried, should i call? (question from them?)
-My friend is really upset now, i cant get her hapy again
-I havent seen her since the bus(we IM daily)
-Me and my friend are the only ppl who told, shes mad at whoever told, and she thinks its not me because id be the last one to tell even tho im the one who DID tell.
-those who do no i told hate me..GUILT!
:(

2007-02-26 12:07:36 · 10 answers · asked by Suirenai 3

My friend always seems flirty, but i'm not sure if it's just being flirty or friendly in her own way, I'll let you decide. Well everytime we stand in a little group and talk, she's always looking at me even though i'm not talking, and she'll be facing me the whole time and sometimes staring me down. Sometimes she'll get very close to me to where her hair touches my arm. If i don't do something that satisfies her, she'll make a little pouty face, then laugh about it. One time i layed my head down on her side of the table just to annoy her, but she lay her head down on top of my back. Why does she act like this? I'M A GIRL. But she completely ignores me around her friends.

2007-02-26 11:59:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is constantly snubbing me and I can tell just by the way she acts around me that she thinks she is too good to talk to me. I've tried not to let this bother me but I can't figure out what it is about me that she doesn't like. She has acted this way towards me since day one but to my co-workers she acts so sweet and friendly. My other friends at work don't notice that she is so stuck up, so I am starting to feel isolated on this. I've tried my hardest to talk with her and get to know her but she acts bored around me and and talks to me in a very rude tone. She only seems to want to associate herself with the "right" kind of people at work and apparently I'm not one of them. I would love to just ignore her but we work in small office so that is difficult. She has made a couple of snide comments about me before and it's getting to the point where I want to confront her but I'm afraid this will make the situation worse-almost give her a reason to hate me.
What should I do?

2007-02-26 11:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by Lena K 1

You see we have been friends for some time now...she is turning 13 and i want to get her something that is meaningful but i my family is a little low on cash...so it has to be cheap or something really cool that i can make my self...i had a couple ideas but they dont seem good enough...intests:
her cat BoB
volly ball
humor
polkadots
dolphins
loves colors
Great friend

2007-02-26 11:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

last year i was best friends with this group of gurls that were really mean to everybody outside of their circle. to everybody else, it was the coolest clique to belong to, but it really took alot to stay, everybody played a role in talking about people and that drama. when i tried to be friend with some new people the turned on me, they talked about me, made rumors, tried to fight me, threatened me, everything. it lasted for like 2 or 3 months. this year it hasn't happened but everybody is still holding grudges and they take every chance they can get to talk about me or something i believe in karma and think i should leave it alone. because in a few months i wont have to deal with it as much, if any, but i still feel bad, i lost a lot of "good" friends from it and i dont know what to do.

2007-02-26 11:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard through the grapevine that my step daughter had a baby shower last month.
With her first child my mom gave her a shower and invited both sides of her family (her mom and dads)
She did invite her brothers wives, but she has left them out before and I think they said something to her.

2007-02-26 11:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by kel_sew 1

i'm friends with alot of guys i always thought that gave me an adventage but know that one of my guy friends likes me and never stopps flirting with me its kinnda awkward i tryed talking to my other friends for advice and all but nothing seems to work.

2007-02-26 11:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 11:47:33 · 2 answers · asked by Share Bear 1

I used to have great friends, until a new student came to school and everything started to change for the worst. They all became cronic liars and drug-users.

2007-02-26 11:34:13 · 7 answers · asked by SpaceMonkey! 2

he says my hair is bushy which i don't think it is hes the 1st person to say that but anywhoo he calls me snowflake also and i don't have dandruff he is like obsessed with my hair or something he pulled a piece of it out.what should i say to him.he is really like being a verbal bully.he is not my friend at all just under the category this thing put it under

2007-02-26 11:26:23 · 7 answers · asked by Florida Gator #1 Fan 1

if we arent around anybody she always says that i am her best friend but if we are in front of somebody she puts me down for them and i dont know why i need help with this one. i would find somebody else to be my best friend but nobody else likes me

2007-02-26 11:25:07 · 3 answers · asked by unintedwestand 1

should i forgive mi friend who told ppl one of my darkest secrets it was a big deal and i dont think she knows how bad this hurts me when she does things like this. plus we have already started to drift away and i dont really no what to do shoould i forgive her again and try to work things out or do u think if i do forgive my heart will be smashed again. i really need help

2007-02-26 11:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by S t r a w b e r r y 1

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now, and I met all of his friends already and his friends and I got along great. But one of his friends (the 1st friend I met) doesn't like me anymore and thinks that i'm annoying. And this friend is my bf's best friend. So please help me and give me some tips on becoming good friends with this friend that doesn't like me anymore. I really don't want his friends to hate me. So please give me a few tips! Thank you so much!

2007-02-26 10:56:57 · 1 answers · asked by dancer_dancin 1

my best friend has an abusive father. He often talks to me about how his father is abusive and I have been at the house when it happens. I feel really stupid because i dont know what to say to him. I have no idea what to say or do to him to make him better. Does anyone have some advice??

2007-02-26 10:56:28 · 10 answers · asked by sh3lbii_2401 1

If a boy really likes u and u just dont know it. What is some signs that will show that he likes u other than staring at u alot.

2007-02-26 10:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this friend and her friend which is kinda my friend too hurt my feelings,nothing big but still.she has been kind of rude lately.i called her and she said do you need something.i said no then i said i just call to talk to you,i never need anything.she said well i dont feel like talking i have a headache so i said bye and she hung up.she has medication for something i think maybe relating to being moody or something but should i confront her she should be nicer sometimes.

2007-02-26 10:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by Florida Gator #1 Fan 1

2007-02-26 10:48:43 · 7 answers · asked by john 2

He's nasty to people, he's unloyal, rasist, disrupts everybody. At school he does stupid things, he's not a very nice person (He's like "I KNOW i'm a good person) just arrogance. I don't like him, he's stubborn, he's a "prettyboy" just wants to get sex from cheap slutty girls. He succeeds. I dislike him VERY much. He's a stupid idiot, he bullies people and makes people look silly, even makes me look silly. I only use him for popularity. hes more popular, and makes me more popular. He talks about me and him living togteher (as friends) i don't want to, i hate him i never want to see the site of him again when i leave school. He holds me back, it's his dam fault I'm failing!

2007-02-26 10:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by john c 1

My bestest friend and I got into a fight this weekend.Seriously it was so stupid. I already was having a bad day so when I go to her house for girl night, i just left it all behind. Well she is like 20 pounds soak and wet and a lot tiner than me, im not big, im just bigger than her. She is always jumping on people and thats what she did to me that night. It started off as playing but then she like pulled my hair so I punched her like 10 times and we were both fighting for real. It was crazy. After the fight she claimed I was wrong bc she is smaller so I shouldnt hit her, but then she like started to scream all this stuff IU trusted her with. She knows my life is not the best and she told everyone who was there what I been through. Then she had the nerve to call my mother and yell at her for being the person she is and how wrong she is. I dont know where half of this came from but I have been the bestest friend to her and trust her more than anyhting. Everyone already knows what happend

2007-02-26 10:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by quoia 2

Underwood

2007-02-26 10:35:58 · 17 answers · asked by Jenny Mae 1

My mom is leaving out of town. She told me to stay with my brother while she's away. I told her NO. She said, if I'm not staying in my brother's house than she's not going anywhere.

I'm 18 years old, she is still treating me like baby. I know she is worried about our next door neighbor breaking into my apartment. Because our next door neighbor are people who drink, get high and party in their apartment like it's some type of club.

Another thing my mom is worried about is Me having anxiety at night time. I used to have anxiety at night time last year but NOT anymore.

How can I convice her, nothing is going to happen to me ????

2007-02-26 10:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by Pretty 1

be my new friend please

2007-02-26 10:30:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. i like this kid and he thinks im "cute". my friend who i met him through is setting us up on a date kinda thing. everybody thinks its gonna work out perfectly. but theres this other guy who me and the guy i like are friends with and he likes me wayyy too much and he doesnt know about me and the guy i like yet. (im not trying to be conceeted or anything.) but i dont like him like that at all. am i being a bad friend by wanting to go out with one of his friends? someone help me please! i really like this guy and i want to go out with him. im so confused. should i make my friend happy or should i make myself?

2007-02-26 10:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by Summer 2

my friend & I were talking about this, she HATES if any
other lady does this to her husband, other than his relative

w/ me it depends who the lady is & how well we know her

How do you feel about this & WHY ? THANKS

2007-02-26 10:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6

2007-02-26 10:22:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you ever been jealous of someone
and then found a picture of them as a really BIG kid
and wanted to show it to the people that think shes sooo great...??

my close friend is skinnier and maybe a little prettier
and then i just found a picture of her really chubby
as a kid we had a bunch of pictures together
(i guess not while she was big)
but as a kid i was never over weight and she was
and now i'm a little bigger than her
(but it don't matter now cuz we're older)
and i wanna show all my friends and guys that have crushes on her
Because lately she has been being rude and snotty and she and her sis spent the week with me and all she did was use my laptop(cuz she don't have a computer) and then she went home and told everybody that we didn't do anything and she had a crapy time which was soooo untrue cuz she was the one who didn't wanna do anything
and she is all MY friends ever talk about and one guy has a crush on her...
Please Help
Do you Have stories like this

2007-02-26 10:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the info:
I don't like to go up to people and say hi or whatever, i'm really shy and afraid how people will react when I say that. And, how do I get noticed?

2007-02-26 10:07:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have u ever let a friend pierce ur ear, Just by pushing it in?

2007-02-26 10:06:26 · 9 answers · asked by rach 2