Friends - January 2007

I have recently found out that my maid of honor has been lying to my fiance and I on some serious issues. She has also been trash talking me to mutual friends,other bridesmaids, and even aquaintences. She is also taking credit for some of the helpful things my fiance and I did for a mutual friend. (We paid for the friends entire wedding and kept it between us, her, and the friends gettin hitched.) I have no "proof" but the person that sat me down and told me.(EXTREMELY RELIABLE!!!) This person does not want me to tell the maid of honor it was her who tattled for fear of retaliation. (Understandable when the MOH has a rep for doing such) How do I approach this? Do I let it slide? She has never treated me like this (to my knowledge) before but in the past 5 yrs.I've seen it happen to others. I guess I should've known it would happen to me sooner or later but I looked the other way. I'm payin now. I don't want a blowout fight before the wedding but how do I stomach havin' her in it? HELP

2007-01-21 15:01:48 · 6 answers · asked by Debbie S 3

i got in a fight with a friend and i was soo mad my best best best best friend tried to comfort me and i lashed out on her. now she hates my guts what do i do?

2007-01-21 14:55:56 · 3 answers · asked by Person 1

What is the best way to ask a guy out? Please take note that I am waaaaaay shy and....well yea respond ASAP plz.

2007-01-21 14:54:14 · 5 answers · asked by gmnastcsrocks 2

but how do i know

2007-01-21 14:53:08 · 11 answers · asked by teresa 1

About a year ago, I had to stay in a hospital overnight for stomach pains. I got up in the middle of the night, and while I was in the hallway, my gown snagged on a laundry cart and ripped clean off me, while the orderly didn't notice!

In a panic, I had to run BUCK NAKED straight down the hall to my room, and a nurse noticed this, and came to my room and offered to get me a new gown with a smile on her face while I hit under my bed covers.

If YOU had been that nurse, what could you have said to make me blush about that one?

2007-01-21 14:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Edward 1

I have this friend that acts differently in front of diff people. Once in awhile if a cute boy comes around or is nearby she totaly ditches me to go flirt with them. I'm guessing shes not a true friend, no?

2007-01-21 14:49:34 · 3 answers · asked by Chimmy C 2

2007-01-21 14:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like a lot of people, one of my (so far unrealized) 'major dreams' in life is to find my 'special someone'.

On the way, I've found many people come and go, while at any given time, there are maybe 3 or 4 people who are 'real friends'... although, even that group of people seems to change as time goes on.

Now, upon reflection, I think I can confidently say that I would really like a partner, someone with whom I can share my life and who I can take care of and fuss over.. and simply, love.

As I haven't found her yet (after decades of searching *and* just seeing what happens)... and I only(?) have a few (relatively) 'constant' friends (most of whom are physically remote from me), I wonder if that situation will be "enough" to sustain me emotionally? It's a struggle even now... but I wonder how I'll manage further down the track.

For your thoughts, please.

2007-01-21 14:45:17 · 16 answers · asked by Skeeve 2

2007-01-21 14:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by lazygirlz 1

so i never come out of my house until the peaple next door are gone or asleep.they hit me every time i get the mail,or somethig,help plz

2007-01-21 14:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 14:38:47 · 17 answers · asked by Emily W 1

Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fonder because it makes sense to me:
This guy and I used to be pretty close. We were best friends and hung out almost every day, but then I liked this guy, who wasn't a very good guy, but I didn't know that at the time. My best friend started liking a slutty girl so I tried to talk to him about it and warn him. However, he didn't warn me or say anything about the "bad" guy that I was going out with, he didn't really care I guess. Now we don't talk at all anymore, which is kind of sad because we were so close. Do you think it is for the best that were not friends anymore? I guess we both kind of drifted apart without realizing it and I miss him now.

By the way, he was interested in the girl after I had broken up with the guy and when I tried to talk to him about it he said I didn't have much room to talk (because of the "bad guy") and we haven't said more than 5 words to each other since. (That was 3 years ago)

What shall I do?

2007-01-21 14:37:58 · 2 answers · asked by Ana Erikson 3

well i had a quinceanera last year in december. i invite my friends cuz i wanted to see them there. also cuz they said they wanted to come. only 3 friends came. aughhhhhh!!!!!!!!!! i was very disappointed. i live in south central L.A. one of my friends came all away from culver city to the party, my other friend came from koreatown to the party too. my other friend lives nearly by and she came also. i invite like 20 ppl to the party and they live faraway from the party. my friends that came live far away and did everything to come here. what friends that i have and it was my special day! at school, they forgot, it hurts me that only 3 came and the rest didn't want to. they were make some lame excuse. im very disappointed in them. are they friends or foes!

2007-01-21 14:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY XV IS IN 4 MONTHS AND I DONT KNOW WHAT SONGS TO USE OR WHAT COLOR DRESS I SHOULD WEAR I ONLY HAVE ONE SONG AND ITS THE VALS FASCINACION BUT I NEED TWO MORE SONGS AND A SONG TO DANCE WITH MY FATHER AND I WANT TO KNOW IF ANYBODY KNOWS WERE I COULD GET DECORATIONS FOR MY XV IN CHICAGO

2007-01-21 14:33:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 14:29:42 · 29 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3

friend has become total flake.. he makes plans and doesn't follow through..but for some reason he keeps making plans with me and not following through and calling me or pulling a total no show.. and when I ask him about it he gives me lame excuses.. should I drop the loser.. or just see him when i see him?

2007-01-21 14:18:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you think you have a friend but she never tells you anything hardly anymore plus she talks about you on yahoo about different things that make you look dumb THANKS!!!!!!!

2007-01-21 14:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by Jereca G 1

im 13 and started high school at 12, still a freshmen, my life seems great, popularity, kind of rich,rich school, get good grades, have an understanding bf, people loves me but im still despondent, i mostly put on a gloomy face everyday except when im sleeping, can anyone tell me why im like this? school conselors sucks

2007-01-21 14:05:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

know it's a good thing, but why do people gravitate towards some people, what I mean, is people will find themselves comfortable around me, and talk to me, strike up a conversation,I mean I love it but I notice that everyone don't encounter that as often.Some people complain how it is hard to meet people and so on..Anyone have an explanation why some people gravitate some people rather than others?

2007-01-21 14:05:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my best friend a partial lie. She's smokeing and she's pregnant, I love her and the baby. I saw Dr.Phil say on a show "we need to get her to stop smokeing she's torchering that baby". When I herd that I really wanted my friend to be aware of what the effect's of her smokeing was to the baby. So the next time I talked to her I started telling her what Dr.Phil said, and I started rambling on about other things I had seen on TV, about what it does to the baby, and basically the part of me seeing the rest on tv was a lie the facts were true I just had red them online. So two day's later I felt guilty because I don't ussually lie and never to her. I told her that I lied I appoligized. She did'nt bring it up agian for 3 weeks, I also asked her not to tell anyone like her fionsay, she's getting married in two months and I was sappose to be her maid of honor. I thought, if you can forgive me then don't tell anyone. So now she's mad and cant forgive me. We have'nt talked in 4 day's.

2007-01-21 14:00:38 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

no it's not like someone died, or my boyfriend just broke up with me. i feel like i have no friends, even though i do. and no, i'm not suicidal or depressed.

2007-01-21 13:47:25 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

the best question ive ever seen is, "should i drink a little alcohol just before talking/going on dates with women so i can be more of myself and relaxed? Not too much just a little"

2007-01-21 13:46:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The wife and i became best friends and she talked me into trying the lifestyle. We never swapped with them just with another couple. My husband and i decided we were not liking it and stopped. she told me that us getting out of the lifestyle would'nt change our friendship. Then for no reason she stopped calling and wanting to hang out. I asked her why and she said nothing was wrong she had just been busy. One night she got drunk and admitted out loud to this other girl that she and this new chic who is in the lifestyle that they were best friends and always hung out . Do i have a right to be mad? This is all weird because her husband is my husbands manager at work.

2007-01-21 13:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by just me 1

i have a friend at school. on my midterm, in science i got an A and she got an A-. when i showed her, she started to jump up and down saying, " i got a better grade than you!" i just look at her crazy. she would do this to me every time she gets " a better grade".what i'm trying to ask is if she is jealous of me or something. last tuesday, i won the spelling bee, and she just rolled her eyes at me for trying to congradulate her on doing a good job. is she a good a good friend for me?

2007-01-21 13:11:37 · 14 answers · asked by cutipie_m10 4

She said she did'nt have time to talk or hang out because she is too busy with kids etc. I said that was understandable but then i found out that she is always hanging out with this other chic. My husband thinks i have been dumped as a friend and need to forget her. I asked her if she was mad she said no. I dont know what i ever did. Does it sound like she just decided to dump me for the heck of it? We were best friends. talked everyday and hung out once a week a least. This seemed to have happened over night.

2007-01-21 13:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by just me 1

Well i been kinda lazy lately & not pulling my weight because i know if i dont do it she will.

Shes now started moaning a bit.

I want to do something nice for her to get in her good books again but i dont have all the time in the wolrd.

2007-01-21 13:04:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 13:00:00 · 16 answers · asked by Gerbil boy 1

2007-01-21 12:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by bella151 1

We used to be best friends from 4th to about 10th grade, and now we barely talk. I want to invite her to the wedding but i do not necessarily want her to be in it. I mean i still like her as a person but my brides maids are going to be people i am really close to. Me and her have just become acquaintances.

2007-01-21 12:56:52 · 4 answers · asked by xtragiclovex 2

I elementery school, i was best friends with a girl since kindergarten. buit in the 4th grade, i moved away and we lost contact. now, eight years later, i was surfing the net when i came across her, her cousin, and my old cruch. the later two remember me, but the girl who used to be my best friend doesnt. what should i do?

2007-01-21 12:51:54 · 2 answers · asked by taxas_cowgurl 3