no it's not like someone died, or my boyfriend just broke up with me. i feel like i have no friends, even though i do. and no, i'm not suicidal or depressed.
2007-01-21 13:47:25 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm outgoing.
2007-01-21 16:01:26 · update #1
and i'm 13.
2007-01-21 16:06:09 · update #2
I get like that too sometimes, especially at night. Just cuddle up in bed with a good book. Sometimes just the feeling of having the blankets hug your body and reading something that takes you away from reality is just the thing you need to make you feel better.
2007-01-21 13:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm thirteen too. I feel the same way every now and then.I get major mood swings and then I get kicked off the phone and everything else. Minus the computer! I am secluded in a small town of less than 500 people, so I get pretty lonely too. Here is some advice... Talk to your mom. Or there is other friends of yours that are willing to lend an ear. I am very close to my cousin, so she is my crisis buddy. You could also find a buddy. Just start praying everyday if you don't already and SMILE, JESUS LOVES YOU!!!!!
2007-01-28 10:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Penguiin♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would kinda help to know how old you are but lets say your young, I know you might have heard this from someone else and thought wow,no way, what about dance lessons, my sister is in her 40's and has always dance her whole life, she will go with another girlfriend and those 2 have a riot laughing, she also will go alone, she has met so many other friends, then she will go with a new friend to another class. It's a vicious circle I can't even keep up with the names of people she has met. She has also gone on dates. My sister also likes country music and that is a blast. I have gone with her many of times but I can't keep up with her and my husband is not much of a dancer either, bummer. Would you just try it. Think about it and let lose.
2007-01-21 14:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweepit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're a woman, but try reading a book on how to pick up women. I had a friend who was really lonely for a long, long time and just couldn't get out of the funk. One night I invited her over for dinner and we ended up looking through my book collection. She picked up "The Game: Penetrating the Secret World of Pickup Artists" by Neil Strauss. She spent the night in my living room and read the entire book in 5 hours. It really gave her a charge and she got a whole new perspective on men AND women and she looked at her interaction with people very differently. She read that book a year ago and she has met a ton of new people and really changed her outlook and approach to nearly everything she does.
Try a book on Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), too.
Good luck! Feel better!
XOXO
2007-01-21 14:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am too but hopefully you can do something about it. Meet new people by doing something you like to do like bowling or dancing.
Take up a class at the community college. If you can't go out.
Call up some of those friends and tell them that is what friends are for. Get a pet like a cat, they make great friends and they always stick by you. I hope you feel better cause it can be a horrible feeling.
2007-01-29 13:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn about who You are and what makes YOU happy.
Pick one the thing you want to change in your life and work toward that.
No one is perfect, but you deserve to have a good life.
Take time for yourself.
Find the things you enjoy.
Sometimes people are so concerned with others, they forget to take care of themselves.
Soak your feet in a foot spa, give yourself a facial, massage your feet, or if you can afford it - go to a spa and let them treat you well.
Either way, treat yourself the way You want to be treated.
Take good care of yourself by eating healthy, exercising and making plans with good people in your life.
This keeps you "balanced" emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
If this doesn't seem to fit your situation or you have a lot of free time, consider volunteering your time to something you feel strongly about. Help others who are in need.
Everyone feels a little down, sometimes.
That is what helps us appreciate the "good times" even more!
Having a pet is great too, but only if you have the time and resources. They give unconditional love, but they have needs too : )
2007-01-21 13:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by kaydee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you like to read books, read Blink by Ted Dekker. One of the best books I have ever read.
Yes it is long but No it is not hard. It is the type of book that truly pulls you back. There's a reward at the end, too. You'll see what I mean.
2007-01-21 13:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl how u doing i hope your doing better i know the way u feel because i feel the same way sometimes too and trust me it feels ugly try to do new things listen to music that helps me a lot just do things u enjoy!! Hope u feel better
2007-01-21 14:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just occupy yourself with other things, like hobbies you enjoy. Maybe you can go out and meet people with similar interests in clubs or something. You can also use this time to spend more time getting closer to your family. I went through this point too. Hope this helps!
2007-01-21 13:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more social
Maybe you feel left out
get closer to your friends
maybe you arent comfortable with your friends now
Find true friends whove got your back
i feel this way sometimes too
its not unusual
it will go away soon
trust me
just find true friends
2007-01-21 13:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋