Well i been kinda lazy lately & not pulling my weight because i know if i dont do it she will.
Shes now started moaning a bit.
I want to do something nice for her to get in her good books again but i dont have all the time in the wolrd.
2007-01-21 13:04:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When i say lazy i meant around the house i work 7 days a week. thats why i asked something that isnt too much effort. ie too much time to plan as i dont have it.
I know ive been lazy.......you know when your feeling down and just cant pull yourself together.
Thats why id like to do something nice for her. (a) for some peace (b) because i really do want to make her happy
2007-01-21 13:15:24 · update #1
iain8071.........If youve nothing positive/productive to say why bother.
I presume your not man enough to argue with real men down your local so you compensate by hiding behind your computer trying to argue with people.
Get a life.
A BIG THANKYOU TO EVERYONE ELSE
2007-01-21 13:18:56 · update #2
Give her cunnilingus
2007-01-21 16:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Stu pid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If “dinner and a movie” is such a cliché for you, take her to a game and to a bar, consider bowling, go-karts, ice skating, walking on a beach (depending on the season and city you live in).
It does not have to be an expensive event. I have had dates that have included long walks along
the river, pleasant and interesting conversations, and a cup of coffee, that were better than
dinners in high-class restaurants and going out in a popular club. It’s not about the money, or the
place, it’s all about the person and the feelings.
After that, you might try some good cunnilingus. After the dinner, movie, or whatever you did on your date, when you get into bed, don't just jump straight to the clit with your tongue pointed out like a sexual deviant who has no idea what to do. You can learn a lot from course on cunnilingus by Jennifer S. Dobrowitz.
The next day you should let her know that you had had a great time the night before and you are looking forward to making some time to do it again.
2014-03-03 17:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your gf more than the chocolate more than the one off trip to Paris or flowers I would appreciate so much more a decision from you to pull your weight. The one off acts just treat the symptoms but do not actually solve the problem. Change your work schedule to make the time if you can.
Friend you are going to have to make the effort if you truly believe your gf is worth it.
2007-01-22 11:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is getting irritated with you for being lazy in the first place, don't skimp and be lazy on doing something nice for her, the lack of effort will show through. What are you spending all of your time doing? Nothing much to important is seems by your question. Put some effort into it. You get out what you put in.
2007-01-21 21:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe try cooking her a nice dinner (not like hotdogs and macaroni) and light some candles throw some flowers in a vase and there you have it. Oh one more thing if she goes somewhere and you don't go clean the house for her she will be very thankful!
2007-01-21 22:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by mother of 3 angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the effort and reap the rewards. It's worth it. Come on, you'll miss her if she leaves you.
A nice dinner with some proper flowers from a florist.
No chocolate though, that always leads to trouble. "Do you want me to get fat? Am I not fat enough?"
2007-01-22 08:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Doodle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce her to someone decent you lazy prat. I can't understand why all these daft girls are trying to give you advice for. Your too lazy to do anything for anyone but yourself. You a poor excuse for a man. Get off your fat ****.
2007-01-21 21:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some peppermint foot lotion
from the body shop
it is a wonderful hands on experience
and having ur feet massaged is really relaxing.
she might remember it for years!!!!
might be worth a go??
i used to like doing it.
2007-01-21 21:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what I would like, take her out for a meal ( not the chippy ) and buy her a bunch of roses and if your budget will stretch a box of chocolates.
2007-01-21 21:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to make time for an important person... it pays off dude..... what about a massage before bed time! cmon... sip some red bull and get the energy to spoil her a bit!
2007-01-21 21:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by kweenses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you'll know me but if you want to do something nice for your girlfriend, just tell her how much she means to you. and tell her that you love her.
at least thats what I would enjoy. k bye.
*Me*
2007-01-21 21:11:48 · answer #11 · answered by cHeLsEy m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋