She said she did'nt have time to talk or hang out because she is too busy with kids etc. I said that was understandable but then i found out that she is always hanging out with this other chic. My husband thinks i have been dumped as a friend and need to forget her. I asked her if she was mad she said no. I dont know what i ever did. Does it sound like she just decided to dump me for the heck of it? We were best friends. talked everyday and hung out once a week a least. This seemed to have happened over night.
2007-01-21 13:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes friendships just end. It sounds as if you've tried to find out if there's a problem and she says there isn't.
Perhaps her life is going in a different direction than yours. Please do your best to let her friendship go. I'm sure there are many other people who will come into your life and want to be your friend.
2007-01-21 13:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have said or done something that turned her off of you. The three biggies are sex, politics, & religion.
Another thing is -- and I don't mean to hurt you here -- maybe it was something your husband did to her. Anything from a rude remark to a casual flirtation can send a friend flying. Him telling you to forget about her makes him suspicious in my experience. She might be too embarrassed to face you.
I would suggest a go-between. A mutual friend who can get the truth and pass it on to you.
2007-01-21 13:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Matt P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that if she doesnt tell you the truth then shes gonna lose you as a friend and if she acts like she doesnt care then dont have anything to do with her until she apologizes as in if she calls you dont answer it if she asks you to go somewhere blow her off for something else and listen to your husband cause he might have the right idea. If she does care then she'll clean up her act.
2007-01-21 13:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe leave it for a couple of weeks then give her a call saying how she is doing make general conversation then maybe ask if she wants to catch up for lunch. if she says no then.there a a few possibilities , she might think that you are boring compared to this other girl, just ask her to be straight forward and if she still is being a ***** then tell her to get stuffed and that you will not waste your time with her any more and in time she will regret it.
2007-01-21 13:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by joey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is hangin out with her kids. have u seen her hangin with this other chic. even if she is -is that the only friend that u have? maybe she does hang out with her but how long do u think that will really last? d what u need to do for yourself and she will come to her senses
2007-01-21 13:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if you have been ditched by seeing if your friend is talking and laughing with the other friend and is having a great time. You will be able to know if she ditched you.
2007-01-21 13:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea it seems like she has found sum nbew friend ..... BUT !!! mayb she just got tired of hanging out wit u if u guys r best friends den i dont din kdat it owuld b dat hard to get rid ov eachother it could get boring to be seeing da same friend over and over again u should tlk to her bout dat ! like if she got tired of hanging out wit u n stuff cuz dis has happened to me b4 and it was cuz we just got tired ov seeing eachother and hanging out
2007-01-21 13:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by ~J3N~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋