Friends - January 2007

2007-01-03 19:42:47 · 17 answers · asked by @beer 1

2007-01-03 19:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by jupiter_ooi 2

me and my best friend r vry close to each other.but now she has a boyfrnd and i dnt like when she spends most of her time with her and avoids me or hardly have any time for me...recently i asked to leave our friendship and she easily agreed...its hurting me al hell lot. .

2007-01-03 19:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will admit that I complain, mostly about personality flaws. But I don’t say anything behind there back, which I would not say to them personally. Thus entering my question. I enjoy watching others argue, and in my personal discoveries I have learned that people complain about politics, family/friends, and their JOBS. We all think we have it SO hard. What I have to say is to look at your job, and to every one other than yourself. Teachers for example(not all) complain endlessly, that they have it so difficult, agreeing that holding the attention of kids from 5-18 year olds is not an easy task, and yes because it was from beginning a "woman’s job" it is underpaid right from the start. But enjoy your 6-HOUR office days, and your two and a half month break. But after a few years you will have a lesson plan and it gets easier. Back breakers you work hard, but your not fileing and paying back Harvard. And office work, your not busting your *** (physically). (short version)

2007-01-03 19:13:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got into a heated argument with a male (figures) co-worker today over this. He said that the tape should be made public because people can learn a valuable lesson about interacting with dangerous creatures and see exactly what happened to Steve and see what mistakes he may or may not have made. He said the tape can be educational for those in the same field as Steve was. I say that tape should never be shown to the public. Who wants to see a man die? And what if his kids ever see it? Think how that would affect them? I just want to put this question out there to see what other people think? Would you want to see it? I know i don't!

2007-01-03 19:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl I know at work (I consider her more of an aquitance, then a friend, she has stuck up for me one time when someone was giving me grief) but she always seems to be sarcastic with me and I really don't appreciate it. I'm not sure how to word it nicely without her getting offended. For example she'll make serious faces at work and I'll do it back or I'll be talking to someone and she butts into my convo or didn't know what I said and asks. Then one time which I found really rude she writes me a note saying she likes the color blue (meaning my underwear) but told me to pull my pants up I mean to me its' rude. Then she sends me a message over myspace saying to delete her and our friend Tara's pic off my myspace because I didn't ask them, its like they're my pics I'll put them up if I want to. Just that type of crap I don't appreciate and I don't want to fight I'd just like her to be less sarcastic with me and more nice. I complimented her a few times and she doesn't say thank you

2007-01-03 19:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by mccamel1666 3

I have two friends who are girls and one o fthem has been a good friend to me for a long time and I love her and the other is a newer friend but i know she likes me , and she has asked if I like her. so what would be the best way to tell her that I like the other girl without entirely ruining our relationship.??

2007-01-03 18:47:14 · 1 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3

But somehow brings you down? Are you just being too caring? Well no because when the tables turn....You should know how the story goes.. Bottom line, why are some of us givers, and others ALWAYS takers???

2007-01-03 18:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

i have a friend who says she has a highschool boyfriend. yet no one believes her cuz she's not exactly "little miss perfect", she has bad B.O., is a spoiled stuck up brat who disrespects her mother and her mother's b/f, and is a know-it-all *****. plus no one has ever seen much less heard of the boy that she claims is her b/f. it's actually kinda sad cuz she'll write his name on her hand and the kids in p.e. who really dont like her will start making fun of her for making up people, then she makes this really funny turtle face and starts to cry about it. how can i tell if she really is telling the truth about this "boyfriend" of her's. and dont just say "ask her if you can meet him" cuz i dont like going outta my house and i dont like people comming to my house. any ideas?

2007-01-03 18:06:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 18:05:49 · 7 answers · asked by shil 2

1.) Whats the most important thing in a relationship?
2.) Do you believe that quizzes and love meters tell everything about a relationship and how much the couples are in love?
3.) How do you know your in love and how do you know that you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?
4.) Would you take the risk to get hurt by loving someone??
5.)If you had something you cherised forevr and really love like a pet or something and ur bf or husband told u to get rid of it wut would you do?
6.) Do you think that if there's love there's trust?
7.) You have a husband who you've known since forever and he has an accident jus when ur mother does who do you run to first to save their life??
8.) If you kids and your husband were introuble then who would you save??

2007-01-03 18:05:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a very nice, by my standards, house. It's 3500 sqft, hardwood floors on 12 acres that backs up to a million wooded acres. I have a 150 foot concrete driveway, a guest house and a completely separate garage/office as I work from home as a computer programmer.

But we keep a sloppy house. It's not like something you'd see in better homes and gardens. Nope, this place is a freaking wreck. I have four kids, 3 of them young boys, and they are rowdy as hell, so our furniture os pretty much trashed, seriously.

I built the house myself and am not quite done and quite frankly, I haven't even tried to finish the trim work because the damn project has taken me five years to get to this point. I'm tired and just don't care anymore. BUT, I will finish it as I got some new tools this Christmas.

Anyway, the question is, if you visited a really nice place and then walked in and it was messy and unfinished, what would you think of the people?

2007-01-03 18:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother, Ted, and my best friend, Fred, are becoming close friends. I think that Ted is just trying to show that he can be a better friend to Fred than I can but I am not sure. Fred has been acting a little meaner and being nice to me out of pitty, I think. Should I be mad at anyone? Should I try to become friends with them? What should I do? Any other suggestions are welcomed. Thanks!

2007-01-03 17:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in college and used to have a great group of friends -- that was freshman and sophomore year. Now I'm a junior, and two of my best friends transferred to different schools, a few went to study abroad etc. and basically it seems like all the friends I used to have are gone, leaving me alone.

To make matters even worse I moved off campus and don't see people around nearly as much as I used to.

I've tried making new friends but its hard to move past being more than just casual friends. They basically already have their best friends and cliques and while they're pretty nice to me, I feel stupid always being the one to call them and trying to hang out with them.
They will never call me usually...

What should I do? I find myself a lot of Friday nights these days having nobody to really go out with...

Is me trying to be friends with these people making me seem desperate? Ahhh...but what am I supposed to do if nobody ever invites me to do anything with them?

2007-01-03 17:25:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

>LOOK HERE BEFORE ANSWERING THE QUESTION<

Mean Girls... You all hate them right? Ever want 2 get back at them? Well i do now and i need help.

She said: i love 2oo7! cuz then when were 7nth graders we can be ugly and mean like the seventh graders now! yippe! just like hannah! jk jk kacie said tat.no but really hannah is ugly and mean and im not jking actually i dont want her 2 b mad so i guess i will say jk. ok pEACE OUTY AND Kacie wrote that! hehehehehe

****She also called my BFF a dweeb and ugly

I'm Hannah--------------------

I want to write up this little note that im gonna send her. Not to mean but definitly NOT nice.... I'm not usually not mean like this but this makes me mad she dissed me AND my best friend

2007-01-03 17:11:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, my *sweet* 16 is coming up in a few months, but this planning thing is kinda hard, esp if it's my own and I want it to be an unforgettable one..

any ideas? anyone...

I have heaps of close friends to invite and it can't be too expensive.... and all my ideas, like beach party, restaurant dinner... my friends have done it all... and it gets boring after awhile, same kinda party, venue...

I want a great party, dancing, singing... a *~P@rTy~*!!- that will juz blast off...!!

I've thought of going sky-diving, zorbing and all that, (to the Xtreme) but it's juz too expensive to bring all my friends along... doesn't seem possible at this point... at all... (but I luv 2 dream)

maybe a beach house, rent one and we can crash overnite & continue the 24 hr party cuz my b'day is on a friday..

any ideas?? I'd really appreciate it... *puppy dog eyes* << doesn't work, does it??... hehe... what abt.. plzzzzz...??

THANK *YOU*!! (0^,^)

~*hugz n kissez*~ (
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xoxo

2007-01-03 17:09:05 · 5 answers · asked by Serenity C 3

2007-01-03 17:07:49 · 13 answers · asked by Sameer . 2

My husband and my best friend's husband recently started working together (they are working away from home for a week, being gone a week at a time). I knew beforehand that her husband has always had a tendancy to lie but I didn't know until recently just how much of a liar he really is. He lies to her about EVERYTHING! She loves him so much and is pretty much a gullable person. He has lied to her about money, about where he is going and what he is doing while he is off working, and all kinds of other things, even what he has eaten that day! How do I tell her he is a compulsive liar in a NICE way? Or is there even a nice way? Should I just stay out of her business and let her learn on her own? She is my best friend and is a great wife to him and a mother to their children. I hate to see her get hurt. Please HELP! It is tearing me up inside watching him crap on her like this!

2007-01-03 16:47:56 · 25 answers · asked by mother_of_a_princess 2

This is word for word what she sent me:
Opinion. Okay so the other day I went through my bf's phone and found all these texts to this girl. The texts were like "dirty talk" talking about hanging out and basically "hooking up" with her. I looked through his phone without his permission and stuff and then I asked to see his phone just to see if he would give it to me and he wouldn't. then I lied to him oh why I wanted to see it but anyways things got out at what I found. I said I found the texts and stuff and he tried to make the excuse that he was trying to get back at the girl for his friend at work bc his co-worker liked her but she didn't like him and just wanted a "**** buddy". What do you think?

OK I just want to thank you all beforehand for your help. She is like a sister to me, and I hate seeing her go through this.

2007-01-03 16:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jon M 4

he isnt built or hot or anything, he has an average body with lots of freckles on his arms and a good amount on his face, i need peoples opinions so i know where i stand on this, is it normal to like another guys looks without being gay, or does this mean im gay?

2007-01-03 16:43:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 16:18:11 · 4 answers · asked by shanu 1

the majority of my friends are male and my boy gets jealous when i hang out with them cos he says they just want me for one thing. I know they don't because they all have gorgeous girlfriends and treat me like one of the boys.

2007-01-03 16:13:04 · 12 answers · asked by catsup 4

if a friend of mine insults physically by assulting or by character assasination in front of other friends, how is it that i can retialiate? or fight back ? is there any strong response i can give him ?

2007-01-03 15:56:45 · 20 answers · asked by yamaha 2

my guy and i had a best friend, and he was insecure, never had a girl, and then he finds one. all they did was fight, and bc they lived 3 hours away at school, we never really knew her. after all of the crap he said about her treatment of him, we find out after 3 months of even just knowing each other, her and her parents talked him into engagement. we dont support it but have let him live his life and backed off, but she was always there not letting him talk to us and even talked him into telling us we were all no longer friends. now she took our numbers (my guy's and mine) and since the new year keeps calling and harassing via text message being a total wench. ignoring has not worked, but it's gotten obsessive, and we sent a message back saying if they didnt stop we'd get the authorities involved. now they started star-67ing so we cant see their number, but we ignore it. it's gotten to almost stalking, what do we do?

2007-01-03 15:45:10 · 19 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3

We used to be real good friends for a long time. recently though he has been kind of a jerk. It all started after he started having sex with his ex. He began acting lude and he'd talk about it a lot. I moved to another school, and I made friends with a lot of girls, average-looking and attractive. when he met them he started acting normal again... but then started thinking I would hook him up. The last straw was when he took advantage of one my closest friends, who ran from her abusive mom. I let her stay with me because my house was vacant. He knew she had problems so he weaseled his way into her room and messed her up... I was pissed off with him. He started to reconcile a little and stopped womanizing. I have tried to reconnect but I feel it's over.

2007-01-03 15:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-01-03 15:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4

I'm kind of debating whether I should tell her that a particular person thinks she is rude. The person said this isn't really a friend to her, but more of an acquaintance (think erm...boss and employee relationship).

I really don't want my friend to be upset by telling her this news, but then wouldn't real friends tell their friends if someone was talking behind their backs?

2007-01-03 15:21:58 · 10 answers · asked by EGGO 2

there is always the clown at work and this woman is ours. she does things like this all the time but my wife didnt appriciate the joke.

2007-01-03 15:20:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 15:14:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He drove more than 800 miles to give it to me in time for christmas. Its a beautiful bird, very friendly, but there is one problem...
It swears at my parents when they come to visit me. Nobody else, just my parents.
Do you think my friend really knew the bird swore? And how do I get it to stop?
I really dont wanna return this bird in the car (16 hours) listening to him swear at me.

p.s. what should i get my bestfriend for his birthday that is in 3 weeks?

2007-01-03 15:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by T K 2