if a friend of mine insults physically by assulting or by character assasination in front of other friends, how is it that i can retialiate? or fight back ? is there any strong response i can give him ?
2007-01-03 15:56:45 · 20 answers · asked by yamaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's not a friend. Walk away. Not worth the trouble.
2007-01-03 15:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this is not a friend. I would suggest that you ignore what this person said and ignore the person. Fighting back, retaliating or any other form of lowering yourself to his/her level will only cause grief. Hold your head up high and have the confidence in yourself to be bigger and better than the so called "friend".
As for physical abuse by this person, do your other friends just stand by and do nothing? I don't know your age but perhaps you need to speak with a respected adult about this situation. As far as I know, bullying is against the law in the U.S.
2007-01-03 16:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you vaule his friendship ?? If so hold your tounge and take it...If you want revenge then maybe you should give him space for awhile man..Or you can call him out and tell him to stop it. Though he might ssay some other stuff. Or my favorite tell him to F-CK OFF
I know what your going through as I was called a name by my friend Just like 30 mins ago.. It's like he can do whatever and he knows I won't stand up from myself. And I'm quite sick of it.
2007-01-03 16:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally had a very difficoult situation with my best friend now. Remember the good times that you both have had. Is it really worth it to take revenge. Think of the consequences that you might have to face with othr friends that you both have in common. Try to safe that friendship, speak with him before you do something you will regret.
2007-01-03 16:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by QP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you plan to take revenge, you are no better than your friend. Whats the point of retaliating or fighting back? It makes you lower that your friend. But if u forgive and forget, it makes u a better person than him or her.
2007-01-03 16:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is behavior that is childish - I am currently trying to address this with my THREE YEAR OLD. Being a part of this relationship is hurtful to your spirit. While you should love that person and show them kindness, you should not become a victim of their ignorance. Do not engage in retaliation, and tell them how you feel. If they continue to do this, walk away and wish them luck. This person is going to be depressed and alone and clearly has deeper issues than meet the eye.
2007-01-03 16:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by jane 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge ought to be an exciting concept for you genuine now, yet on your case i could only punch her interior the face. Like heavily, who does she think of she is? strengthen a pair and sock her one.
2016-11-26 02:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your friend, you don't need to attack him back. His behavior makes him look bad. By you not saying anything makes you look cool and in control. He's going to make himself to be the bad guy, just let him trip himself up.
2007-01-03 16:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don take insult likely...I will give them a punch in the face, a kick in the butt depends on the insult.!!!!
Dont play play!!!
2007-01-03 15:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee whiz, don't let him do it again and again. Shrug your shoulders and walk away. Then ditch him. Everybody gets the point.
Make new friends. Simple.
2007-01-03 16:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Denise T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋