he isnt built or hot or anything, he has an average body with lots of freckles on his arms and a good amount on his face, i need peoples opinions so i know where i stand on this, is it normal to like another guys looks without being gay, or does this mean im gay?
2007-01-03 16:43:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It certainly doesn't mean your gay. It's definitely normal to notice the same sex and much research has been done on the subject. It's common among children and teens to develop feelings for the same sex but ultimately not choose a homosexual lifestyle (not that there's anything wrong with being gay). "Some adolescents explore homosexual activities but ultimately do not continue to be interested in same-sex relationships" [http://www.merck.com/mmhe/ag/print/sec23/ch270/ch270e.html] This link may be helpful to you and so will others. Try searching online to learn more about your feelings towards this boy and perahps others. And remember, you are who you are, and being gay is not something to be ashamed or afraid of.
2007-01-03 17:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are either gay, straight or perverted, IMHO! If you are gay, that is just fine...but you need to know. If you keep switching off between males and females, someday it will come back to bite you. Either getting caught by someone you have become fond of or even a disease you may transmit from one to the other. If I were you, I would have a relationship with someone (a male) you trust and see if the bells go off in your head. You may find that you were not that into girls anyway.
2016-05-23 01:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think you just like freckles. Women notice other womens looks all the time and it doesn't make us all gay. Like if you notice a kid has cute freckles it doesn't make you a child molester, right? Even if you're attracted to Mr. Freckles but you're normally attracted to women, it just makes you like a lot of straight people who have a bit of gayness, but they just never admit it.
2007-01-03 18:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... um. do you get an rection around him? there are qualities other guys like in their friends like the muscles they have or hwo they ace tests or have a way of talking or charming the girls and women like women in their clothes or how they wear their makeup or dress this is all ok but freckles.. um.. this is not something to envy or want for most guys perhaps you wish you were as good looking?lets hope so otherwise you best think twice being around him.. how are you with girls? you date? you find any thing about them or one you admire???are you an only boy in the family or only child?
2007-01-03 16:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be gay. I'm not saying you are, but if you think you might be, my advise would be to thoroughly explore yourself and do some serious thinking about your sexual orientation. You will lead a happier life if you know exactly who you are without any doubt. Good Luck!
2007-01-03 17:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Carson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IT DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU ARE GAY...
ITS NORMAL...
YOU JUST THINK THAT THEY ARE CUTE...
YOU CAN EASILY FIND A GIRL WITH CUTE FRECKLES...
UNLESS YOU LOOK AT HIM AS MORE THAN A FRIEND AND LOOK AT OTHER GUYS CONSTANTLY BUT ITS SOMETIMES ALSO IN A HUMANS NATURE TO LOOK AT PEOPLE OF THE SAME SEX...
2007-01-03 16:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to admire his looks but once you start fantasizing about having sex with him, your gay.
2007-01-03 16:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude face the truth i think U R gay... sryyyyyy
2007-01-03 17:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
no worries mate, you arent gay. Its normal.
unless you start to fantasize about him naked and having wet dreams about him together.
2007-01-03 16:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by gs04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no i mean have you told hom and if you have a guilty conscience then maybe you need to experiment
2007-01-03 17:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mandi U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋