This girl I know at work (I consider her more of an aquitance, then a friend, she has stuck up for me one time when someone was giving me grief) but she always seems to be sarcastic with me and I really don't appreciate it. I'm not sure how to word it nicely without her getting offended. For example she'll make serious faces at work and I'll do it back or I'll be talking to someone and she butts into my convo or didn't know what I said and asks. Then one time which I found really rude she writes me a note saying she likes the color blue (meaning my underwear) but told me to pull my pants up I mean to me its' rude. Then she sends me a message over myspace saying to delete her and our friend Tara's pic off my myspace because I didn't ask them, its like they're my pics I'll put them up if I want to. Just that type of crap I don't appreciate and I don't want to fight I'd just like her to be less sarcastic with me and more nice. I complimented her a few times and she doesn't say thank you
2007-01-03 19:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by mccamel1666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then if I liked a shirt she wore I'd ask her were she bought it and she says none of your business or I don't know and just doesn't answer in my opninon "normally". I'm just not sure how to say it without making her mad. She treats other people "regularly" Like if someone asks her a question she'll answer it sincerely.
2007-01-03 19:06:22 · update #1
I just really don't like sarcasimic people. I tend to take things very personally and its hard to tell if they're being serious or just f*ing with you? I HATE that!
2007-01-03 19:07:23 · update #2
no way i'm reading all that
2007-01-03 19:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She sounds like a "strong personality". But, cutting to the bottom of your question re the pictures on MySpace, it IS very bad etiquette to put anybody's pictures online without having their permission. Apologize (I know that this will be hard). She'll appreciate it and it might actually warm her up a little toward you. More about photos: we had a blue collar crime cop come to one of our workplace briefings and tell us that pedophiles will scan the web for nice little kiddie pictures, and sometimes they will re-compose them and then issue them as porn.... sometimes they just masturbate with them as they are. That really turned me around re putting children's pictures on-line.
2007-01-04 03:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, take the pictures off your myspace. You should get their permission first before posting pics of other people.
With her, either she is just a b*tch or she is jealous of you a little. She has no respect for you. I would just be polite to her and not worry about her anymore.
when she butts into your conversation next time, just say "excuse me, this is a private conversation" and just wait for her to leave. Or get the people talking to move away.
2007-01-04 04:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she wants your friendship so my advice is to put some distance between you and quit trying so hard to be liked. Some people don't appreciate it. She'll never respect boundaries. Instead of saying "your underwear is showing" she says "I like blue" That's indirect, passive-agressive and immature. Look for another friend, hopefully one you don't work with.
2007-01-04 03:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Californiamama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her when she talks to you and be civil but cool. It sounds as if none of you are that busy at work to even have the time to have all these problems. Work harder and who knows, you might get a promotion.
2007-01-04 03:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and her have your wires crossed. you need to tell her how you feel in an educated way. say something like i like you and i don't want to start grief but some of the things you do bother me or make me feel uncomfortable. if you keep downplaying she won't know that she is aggravating you and continue to act the way she does. put an end to it before it snowballs on you.
2007-01-04 03:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by mcdanight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay
lots of issues here
I would just set your boundaries with her.
first off- delete the pictures- it is rude to put up a photo on a common space without permission from all parties. That is common courtesy.
2007-01-04 03:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL, she sounds really rude.
I know people like that and it sucks b/c you never know if they are for real or playing around, and I am ultra-sensitive so of course my feelings get hurt in the process! :)
2007-01-04 03:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats people for you,and i know your thinking its unfair to be so "mean" to you but thats just them.some people are mean and some people are nice and you cant change that about them,or if you wanna try to turn the situation around maybe you should get to taking with her or maybe go to lunch with her or something,see how this works.hope i helped.
2007-01-04 03:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, I don't know if I am to sensitive or if you have been to rough with me but I don't feel comfortable talking to you lately, and I don't want to feel this way.
2007-01-04 03:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Just say to her *Fu*k you upside down 1000 time* and i confirme she will be quiet and if she reply anyting to you, Try to delete her pic or try seeing her panties and tell her wat she has told you and thats wat she deserve. Be Happy c'mon! :) Trust Me... I'm Not making Fun of you. I like to trust peoples to be honest
2007-01-04 03:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by Juxeski 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋