But somehow brings you down? Are you just being too caring? Well no because when the tables turn....You should know how the story goes.. Bottom line, why are some of us givers, and others ALWAYS takers???
2007-01-03 18:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Confront them head-on and tell them to stop bringing you down. There are times it will ahppen, but you can't be a taker all the time. Tell them (or help them) to get their lives on track so they're not doing that.
2007-01-04 17:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's strange how that works. The people who bring others down obviously have something that they need help with. What the people can do who are happy is try to help them and be caring, but continue to lead their lives happily and strongly.
2007-01-04 02:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your talking about. My friend just won't let happy come Into her life. No matter what she finds drama In each and every situation. I try to see things on the positive side for her as much as I can. Usally these type of people have something going on In their lives they haven't let go of. Most likely they are depressed and don't know It. I've told my friend plenty of times that she needs someone professional to talk to that can help her work her problems out. You can't just shut these people out of your life, It may make them worse. Just try to stay friends and keep positive!
2007-01-04 02:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone always has a friend like that (i do) their always jealous of anything and everything and u always feel bad (like me) when in reality if they were happily then u they wouldnt care how u felt u proably have a soft heart and u want everyone to be as happy as u r but when u find that their not then ur heart takes control and u just feel bad but u know sometimes u just have to let them feel bad and enjoy urself regardless if its just u
2007-01-04 03:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by debbie o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's just the odds. I've got a friend who is a taker, IT'S SO ANNOYING!
2007-01-04 02:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. There is always one in the group.
2007-01-04 02:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by waltinaw74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people like being self involved.sometimes you have to cut people loose.
2007-01-04 10:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
murphys law
2007-01-04 02:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's friendship.
I work harder to make them happier.
2007-01-04 02:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋