Family - February 2007

Ok well I have a really close friend and her step-dad abuses her phsically and sexually. SHe told me this and I didn't believe her becase she tells me jokes all of the time. I spent the night over there one time and regret it. Nothing happened to me but he threw her up against the wall bangged her head on the counter top and put her in the ice cold tub. I felt so sorry and offered for her to live with me. When I pulled her out of the tub she wasn't bleeding , but I could see all of the scars that she told me about. There was one were she said that he had pucshed her into so kiddy sissors and bribed her not to say anything I told her that i was gonna call the police becasue her mom was knocked out on the bathroom floor. Ok well her step-dad went bakc upstairs and her younger brother came downstaris and cried. We locked the bedroom door and never said anyhting else about it. Our teachers ask questions and she says excses b/c he has threatened her so much. And I saw him sex. abuse too!

2007-02-27 14:14:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother turns 18 in a couple months...I have no clue what to get him. HELP!!!

2007-02-27 14:00:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was invited to a dance, on friday but my mom won't let me go because she will be going to dinner at the same time of my dance. The thing is that she is letting my sister go to a party at the same time of her dinner. Is that really fair?

2007-02-27 13:40:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 10.5 yrs old and my parents use spanking as punishment. I dont think its fair cuz I think I am gettin too old for it. Today I got into a fight with a teacher at skool she was bein mean to me so i swore at her and they cld my parents to come pick me up cuz I got suspended for a day. My dad said to go to my room and I knew a spankin was coming so I said no and tried to run out of the house, but he caught me. He spanked me with a belt, for the first time, only 4 whips over my jeans but it hurt and he said next time i swear at a teacher or diliberatly disobey that itll be worse. How can I convince my parents to ground me or somethin instead, I dont want to be spanked any more. I know they love me and all but its embarassing! I tried to talk to my best friend but he said hes spanked too so he cant help :(

2007-02-27 13:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 13:24:03 · 2 answers · asked by sally 1

she has very expensive taste!!

2007-02-27 13:17:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to listen to music. not loud. my sister seems to have great hearing because she can hear it ALL the way from her room saying im blasting it. so she thinks I should never play music. because she's literally, ALWAYS DOING HOMEWORK... do you think this is fair?

2007-02-27 13:06:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 12:30:47 · 3 answers · asked by DanUK 2

say before city takes ur garbage, a person comes every week and takes ur garbage from ur backyard and move it to the front of ur house so it can be ready for garbage removal the next day?
and if you do, how much will u willing to pay him a month?

2007-02-27 12:04:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother has always been mean to me and the family. I tried to ignore this since she rejected my offers for help or discussion and started seeing a phsycologist. The condition only became worse and now - 20 years later - it's still changing for the worse, day by day. I won't ever try listing every awful thing she's done to me, I just want her to stop making my life miserable (I suffer from depression...for years...and one of the reasons is her spiteful behavior) When I try to have a proper relationship, she secretly calls the man (no idea where she gets the phone) telling him not to meet me again or she'll call the police. When I try to get a job, she lies to the potential employer and as a result I can't get one. I have no money to move out so I can be free of her horrible repression and it's driving me crazy. I've even attempted suicide since my dreadful life is too miserable. What could I possibly do?

2007-02-27 12:02:01 · 12 answers · asked by Kim 2

hes 14, and is soooooooooo annoying when hes gone i finaly get to relax but not for long, hey i got to go hes coming up the stairs!!!!

2007-02-27 12:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

its hard to explain but im 16 my boyfriend is 18 and hes my grandmas cousins daughters son is it wrong to have sex with him and i know i love him and it going to be our first time and he does not live in the same country as i do but i go and visit in the summer or christmas should i do it we have been on and off for 3 yrs now

2007-02-27 11:53:21 · 1 answers · asked by lopez_oneyda 1

Our son is dating a girl who treats him badly. She picks fights with him constantly. She is very insecure and gets jealous when we go out for family dinners (she'll call every five minutes). She got upset with our son when we bought him a car (why this upset her none of us is sure). She gets upset with him constantly. She and her mother spend tons of money on him and they can't even fix the broken toilet in their home. She is in major debt and hasn't even graduated college (using student loan money to vacations), and is generally a bad influence for our son. She is his first serious girlfriend and is already talking about marrying her. Yikes! What can we say to him to convince him he is making a poor choice in partners?

2007-02-27 11:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by Bean Counter 2

Our son is dating a girl who treats him badly. She picks fights with him constantly. She is very insecure and gets jealous when we go out for family dinners (she'll call every five minutes). She got upset with our son when we bought him a car (why this upset her none of us is sure). She gets upset with him constantly. She and her mother spend tons of money on him and they can't even fix the broken toilet in their home. She is in major debt and hasn't even graduated college (using student loan money to vacations), and is generally a bad influence for our son. She is his first serious girlfriend and is already talking about marrying her. Yikes! What can we say to him to convince him he is making a poor choice in partners?

2007-02-27 11:51:18 · 5 answers · asked by Bean Counter 2

2007-02-27 11:49:50 · 2 answers · asked by pecinta wanita... 1

2007-02-27 11:48:46 · 2 answers · asked by pecinta wanita... 1

2007-02-27 11:36:05 · 9 answers · asked by Jay O 2

fathers seem to make them move faster when it comes to making them do things like house work ,yard work ,home work. women cry or ask or plead a man tells and gets things done.

2007-02-27 11:34:58 · 6 answers · asked by sehoy 3

i just need to know

2007-02-27 11:16:12 · 18 answers · asked by lopez_oneyda 1

I am 15 and I have what my sisters would call an obsession with manga. I have started to expand my horizons and am trying out many different mangas. The only problem is that my mom doesn't even know I like manga. She and my father are not really fanatics, but they do have strong beliefs about things, my dad more so. I don't want to break my mom's heart. She's had three other children break her heart and I don't want to be next, but I feel like I'm suffocating. I want so badly to tell her so I won't have to hide it, but I can't because I'm afraid that she'll be hurt or will blame my siblings for being such an influence on me. I hate it when she compares me to them, saying I'll turn out "just like them" if I don't shape up and let God take control. Each day the pressure gets worse. I want my mom to have one good kid, but I'm not sure I can do it. I want to make known my love for things "ungodly" but am afraid of hurting my mom. What should I do? Every day it hurts more and more. :(

2007-02-27 11:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 11:06:31 · 4 answers · asked by bbcranks 4

wat should i do if me and parents dont really get along but yet they spoil me with gifts but somethimes i feel like running away... wat should i do?

2007-02-27 11:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by Karonhiano:ron 1

To sum it all up in a nutshell...
My mother will not allow my sister who is 13 yrs. old to spend the night with me and my family or go places with us. This frustrates me, and this is the last issue that exploded in to this war between her and I. She constantly snaps at people whenever she wants, hangs up on them if she doesn't want to answer their questions or doesn't like what they're saying.(incl. me) She says whatever she wants to people and doesn't care, and then places the blame on the other party.(incl. me) I have a now 5 year old daughter, who she never wants to do anything with, and asking her to watch her overnight or anytime is like pulling teeth. Most grandmothers take their grandchildren places, have them spend the night or the weekend, they would love to watch their grandchildren.. Well, not my mother.. Anythime I would start a job, she would agree to watch my daughter and them back out a few weeks after I started. She has called me names (her own daughter)...etc..

2007-02-27 10:48:54 · 35 answers · asked by What is wrong w/ppl these days! 1

I am moving back home in 10 days because I need to get my life together and improve my physical, mental and emotional health. I am very close with my parents and have been on my own for 3 years. I have been very depressed without having my family around (I'm an only child) and my health has suffered drastically. I am always stressed about money and I can never get ahead. I am very happy to be moving home but I am so heartbroken. I've had my cat ever since she was a kitten I rescued her she was abused. My cat is now 3 and means everything to me. I love her so much I was going to and trying to rent an apartment on my own in order to keep her and the only reason I cannot do that is simply I cannot afford it. I have a lot of debt I need to pay off and I need to turn my life around for the positive. I can't give her away I feel like I am dying inside. She is not declawed or spayed and my parents have such a nice house I know they are afraid she's going to ruin it. PLEASE HELP I can't stop crying I don't want to loose my baby (my cat) she is my shadow and brings me soooo much happiness Please help me. I am 21 Ill be 22 in July.

2007-02-27 10:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went in to my sons room and he was masterbarteing what should i do about i know it is ok to do it im kind afried to ask him about what should i do

2007-02-27 10:40:14 · 3 answers · asked by tammy l 1

my father in-laws widow is begging people to donate money so she can get his cremains because her daughter &son in-law don't have the funds to pay the funeral home director in full before she can have them.if his widow doesn't come up with the full amount in a reasonable mount of time does the funeral home director have the right to dispose of the cremains.

2007-02-27 10:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 14 years old and i will admit i have a anger problem.
but its not my fault that noone understand why
and when i try and talk about it i cry.
to start my family EEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS my boyfriend with a passion. and i HATTTTTTEEEEEEEEEEEE my family with a passion. my sister is always talking crap about him and i pulled a kinfe on her today and we statred like fist fighing. im not crazy i am just very sentisitve about what people say.
i have a briuse on my chest from the fight and i cant stop shaking my mom threatied 2 call the cops. idk what to do HELP

2007-02-27 10:17:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Older sisters is really mean and i have to do all her chores and then she tells my mom that she does everything i do!!

2007-02-27 10:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by MiiGU3LO 1

i think that because all my friends in school have phone, i also wanna have a phone of my own.But my parents said i was gonna run the bills up and i am trying to tell them everything i can say that i won't run the bills.

2007-02-27 10:13:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently been snooping on my childs emails and text messages on her phone because she has shut me out... I pay for the phone, but yet I feel guilt.... I still have the protective Mother Bear nature in me, but do I have the right to invade her privacy?

2007-02-27 10:07:52 · 35 answers · asked by Stephanie O 1