Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

My husband was in bed (not yet asleep) with covers over him, so I pulled covers up to his neck tightly and then pinned him down.

I grabbed his stinky slippers that he refuses to replace with new ones (they smell really bad from getting wet all the time), and placed the slippers up against his nose for a full minute while he squirmed.

The thing behind this is that - everytime he takes his slippers off and we are cuddling on the couch and they are within 6 feet of me, I smell this horrible stench ... so I'm simply trying to prove a point.

2007-03-24 07:06:50 · 15 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 07:06:47 · 12 answers · asked by greeneyed_angel362002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well.. the problem is my boy lives FAR from me .. all the way to another country ...
I wanna be with him and stuff but, we need a house and i m 16 going to the university in one year and he is two years older...
We need a house and we need stuff to be together .. but i dont know what should we do to get them ... if we do get jobs .. is not like we gonna be paid enough to buy a house and I have to finish the university .. which i havent even started yet ..

2007-03-24 07:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Person 1 in Singles & Dating

I was once a silly girl, but I realized at least that I was being silly when I worried myself over a guy liking me. What do I do? What do I say? Those where questions that where answered with --- What do I care? If a guy likes you he will ask you out. If he doesn't he is a coward and doesn't care enough to overcome his timidity(shy). So you move on. Some guy will come along one day that you will go weak at the knees and say the stupidest things and He will still love you for it. STOP stressing. It only makes you look like the little girls you are... trying to play a adult games

Why do this to yourselves??? Do you want gray hair and wrinkles? That is what you get when you get older. Relish in the fact that you don't need to pay bills, be the woman you are and live without worry about what someone is saying behind your back. YOU DON'T NEED THEM. MOVE ONE

WHY OH WHY DO THIS???

2007-03-24 07:06:23 · 2 answers · asked by marymouse26 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex was a nerd who liked video games, cars, appearances, drinking and pressuring me to do things I didn't want to do. Thus, I broke up with him, but I can not let everything go. I was involved for almost a year and a half and my whole world revolved around being in this facade that I called "love". Now I have insomina, am lost and angry all the time. I just want to move on, yet, we go to the same school. I am always putting him down, and whining to my friends, I am actually pushing people away from me unintentionally because of it. I need to let it go, but it is just so hard. Also factor in that I lost my grandfather and my "love" all at the same time. I am drowning in grief and my little heart can only take so much. I am a happy person, I am strong, I am a moral person, but I need help to get over these things and rebuild.

2007-03-24 07:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Singles & Dating

last night we went to see a movie and she told me that she could pay for her share, but I didnt want her to do that so I payed for both tickets without any problem. Now tonight we are going out to eat, and once again she offered to pay for her share of it. So I told her that I will pay for it. I just wanted to know if later in the future when we go on lots of dates, would it be the right thing to allow her to pay? or should I pay until I'm in debt up to my eyeballs? we both have jobs.

2007-03-24 07:06:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he cheated on me with two girls and then when i boke up wit him he told me he was turning gay

2007-03-24 07:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how does it work?

2007-03-24 07:05:28 · 23 answers · asked by mel 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to die. This is not a threat or something I am joking about. I feel like I can't go on anymore. I know it sounds silly, but I lost my ex and I feel like something I did will make him hate me. I can't stand the thought of him hating me. I will just say what I did. I know that he still loves me, but I couldn't help but go see him. I know that this might make me seem psychotic, but I am really now. I am a good person. I really am. I am just at my wits endds. Ok waht I did was I had a guy that I barely knew take me to his house. I know this makes me out to be some sort of stalker but I just wanted to seehim. I have never done this for anyone. Gosh I feel horrible for telling everyone this. Why would I do this because of someone? I don't know. I feel like he is my soulmate, actually I know he is. WE just had so many problems. We were long distance among other things. anyhow I had this guy take me out to see him. I was so scared to actually get the nerve to walk up to his house

2007-03-24 07:05:22 · 12 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 and i want to go to my sisters birthday to see the person who i love but i doubt if she wants me there but i know alot of people and would stay out of her hair what do you think?

2007-03-24 07:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if so, feel free to instant message by going under my profile. i am on here to help others. do not worry about being judged. i am not that way. if i do not have an answer or an not sure about something i will let you know. i know how tough it is to find helpful answers sometimes and to get some people to take you seriously on some of the more sensitive topics. feel free to stop by if you think i might be able to help you. have a good day.

2007-03-24 07:05:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

married and in love with another man, we want to kiss and hug like normal couples do, but i am married and in the middle of a divorce, so would it be considered cheating if my new love and i kissed, or should we wait?

2007-03-24 07:04:26 · 16 answers · asked by crazy m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I might go into religion. I have given up on finding a girl because I am too goofy looking. I could never get a girl. I have never asked a girl out, as I would get rejected anyway. Not that I was ever really interested in getting a girl anyway. I always knew it would be a lost cause, and that love is too soft for me anyway, and I can never show any emotions, never mind love. I would get embarassed saying I had a girlfriend, or that I was in love. I have always tried to avoid romance. So I don't know why people tell me to never give up. I am always a quitter. And I am definitely not gay. I have just given up on love.

2007-03-24 07:04:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 07:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by ♪Sarah♪ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have 2 best frnds of all time. one of them is the greatest friend ever and she always helps me with everything and lately she has been VERY depressed and i want to help her out a lot because she has helped me through the hardest of times through my life. she closed all means of contact and i can't reach her at all. and she keeps sayin i'm dying cuz of some thins and that is a suicidal thought.

my other friend is great but she has more than one best friend which i dont' mind but she always puts me second and she is always first on my list. she always tells me that she is here for me whenever i need her to be but then when i do need her she kind of ignores me. when i am happy ( and i am a generally funny person) she talks to me and it seems she uses me to solve her own problems and use my humor to help herself. she talks with her other friends about me and she always makes it seem i am a weird person. also i don't really beleive she thinks of me as a frnd even though she says i am.

2007-03-24 07:03:38 · 12 answers · asked by Lila 1 in Friends

2007-03-24 07:03:04 · 10 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 07:02:57 · 9 answers · asked by copenhagen_angel_lc 1 in Singles & Dating

hello,

I am in love with someone who is seprated from his wife since 4 years now...he does not love her any more (according to him !) but he is still always hurt and in the SAME time: Still keep in touch!!!! with her and help her if needed.

they keep in touch only at a minimum level...BUt they should not I think...

what do you think guys?

..................

2007-03-24 07:02:26 · 11 answers · asked by jaja 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend and i are close. he likes me and i like him...a lot each. but he won't get the guts to ask me out. it tends to get on my nerves. he talks to me all sweet over the computer but when school comes around he avoids me. if i talk to him he walks away. i really do want to go out with him but we're all here in this town are like family...it'll be weird. it can't be that he'll be embarressed to talk to me because i am the "HOTTY" of the class and everyone likes me. i don't know what to do. can anyone give me any suggestions?
Thanks

2007-03-24 07:01:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my girl and i have been dating for about 4 to 5 months now. we have fooled around, but not TOO much. our schedules slighty clash, but the other day, she calls me up saying that her friends have been talking about me and what WE have or havent done yet. she basically WANTS to take the plunge so to say (reading between the lines here) the next time i see her. my big thing is that even though i REALLY like her... i dont love her & vice versa, and i dont want to take that (virgin title) away from her. my friends say to explain how i feel, and if she is still willing to DO IT, then why not? someone else will... down the road if i dont. mind you, if she wasnt a virgin, yes i would have slept with her already. so what do you think?

2007-03-24 07:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he acted like he liked me for about 3 months then he told my best friend he wasnt gonna ask me out he was gonna ask out another girla dn i nko just found out wut should i do?

2007-03-24 07:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who wants to stay away from sex until married and why or is it an excuse for not having anyone to do it with.

2007-03-24 07:00:39 · 23 answers · asked by KingK354 4 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? please help.

2007-03-24 06:59:55 · 7 answers · asked by DeepNight 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 06:59:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 06:59:35 · 1 answers · asked by laura 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not gay, but i have had sex with one of my galfriends as an experiment, has anyone else tried it?

2007-03-24 06:59:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do, please help.

2007-03-24 06:59:23 · 11 answers · asked by DeepNight 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 06:58:29 · 23 answers · asked by sexyren21 1 in Singles & Dating

This may sound petty, but anyway. My husband always digs his fork into my dessert. Literally he eats half of my cake without asking for it. The same thing keeps happening: we get tea, I aks him if he wants his cake - he says "no", then he eats half of mine. Call me greedy, but I want my cake for myself at least sometimes. :) Normally I share my food with him, but what gets me is "why does he keep doing something that he knows will upset/annoy me"? I know that this is just the top of the iceberg of issues we have in our marriage. The thing is that when I explain calmly how it makes me feel - he withdraws, makes a sour face and refuses to talk to me. Help!

2007-03-24 06:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

don't curse

2007-03-24 06:58:15 · 23 answers · asked by kentecia fatdaddy 1 in Singles & Dating