Who wants to stay away from sex until married and why or is it an excuse for not having anyone to do it with.
2007-03-24 07:00:39 · 23 answers · asked by KingK354 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had my first sexual experience with a boy when we were both 15. We were in Italy at the time.
2007-03-24 07:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by tinee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I plan on waiting until marriage - and so does the woman I'm with. It's not an excuse, but rather it's a sign of character and dignity. It shows that the person values a strong, committed connection to someone and having sex for the first time with that person is a sign of it. It shows that you're not willing to sleep around or treat relationships and people as things that can be thrown away.
2007-03-24 07:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think that it's the way "it should be". I applaud anyone who was able to manage it, however it annoys the hell out of me to hear "it's the only right time".
Sex should be something that you are ready for, whether you are married or not. It is not just a form of breeding or showing a man how much you love him, it's pleasurable.
Everyone has their own views on it and you should respect someone who says they want to wait. If you do not want to wait then you should simply move on and find someone else, allowing the person who is waiting to find someone with a like mind.
2007-03-24 07:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you are with the right person sex is going to be special regardless of when you do it. if you are waiting until marriage for a religious or personal reason that's respectable. if it is an excuse for not having anyone to do it with then i guess the person saying it would be the only one to know how true it is.
2007-03-24 07:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by macgrl80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just the state of mind of people...some think its not okay to do it before u r bonded thru the sacred bond of marriage....however there are some who goes for one night stands and the casual sex....some are eager and some are not!! it depends on how one wants to and to whom lose their virginity...if u have the trust in the right person and u know it wouldn't harm any of u ...i dont c nything wrong in doing it b4 marriage either!!! but its my point of view ...evryone has their own!
2007-03-24 07:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should stay a virgin til marriage kaus ur mate might take pics and vids of u and then if u dump her than she can either blackmail u or show the world.
2007-03-24 07:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by audreywila95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always said i would but then i found a girl i want to spend the rest of my life with and we both took each others "v cards" i would say that there are soem who are extremely religious and i respect that but most are just waiting for someone special
2007-03-24 07:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by biggsclimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are stong enough to resist the desires of having sex, more power to you. But, myself, I am weak. As for not having anyone to do it with, that sounds like a different problem.
2007-03-24 07:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Berg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends whether you believe the Bible or not. In the Bible it says to remain a virgin until you are married. I plan to and I believe the Bible.
2007-03-24 07:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by lsutiger4god 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well,if you look in the bible,it tells you thats the way its suppose to be,but its pretty slim,that you find people doing that.iam guilty of having sex,and iam still not married,but iam 58 and i dont know,its just not the most important thing in life to me anymore,not like it was in my earlier years.
2007-03-24 07:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋