uhmm... like what should I do ..?

Question

Well.. the problem is my boy lives FAR from me .. all the way to another country ...
I wanna be with him and stuff but, we need a house and i m 16 going to the university in one year and he is two years older...
We need a house and we need stuff to be together .. but i dont know what should we do to get them ... if we do get jobs .. is not like we gonna be paid enough to buy a house and I have to finish the university .. which i havent even started yet ..

Answer 1

I don't understand why you feel you need a house right away. Universities have dorms and nearby apartments. If you are still serious about this when you go off to college, pick one near him. You might not be able to live with him right away but you'll be close enough to visit and if it works out, you could be living with him in a few years. Then live in the cheapest place you can stand for a while and save your money for a house.

I won't tell you you're too young because I remember what it was like to be your age and if you're not mature enough to handle it you'll probably break up before college anyway. Besides, it could be an great experience to study in another country even if things don't work out with him.

Answer 2

Whoa there honey... You are 16 and moving really fast. It will be good for you and your bf to be far from each other for a while because this will test your commitment to each other. You are young and this may not be the last relationship you ever get in. You should slow it down and enjoy your youth and college. The research shows that couple that cohabitate (live together before marriage) are more likely to cheat on each other, and thier marriage (if there is one) tends to be unstable. Oh I could go on forever about the problems of this situation...

Answer 3

Move on, enjoy university, and find a guy closer to you. As much as you might think that he's the one, there are billions of men in the world and there will be others. Long distance relationships don't work out well, especially when you are young, so the sooner you move on, the better.

Answer 4

personally, i think you should wait to see what happens. i know that when i was 16 all of my wants and dreams couldnt even come close to what i want in my life now(10 years later).
give yourself some time to grow and if it is meant to be it will. also, remember that with him being in another country, you cant know him as well as you think you do. its small things, like picking up your own dirty clothes or washing dishes when its your turn, that for some people can make or break a relationship. make sure your ready for all of the things that come with living with someone, and by all means dont give up school, i learned the hard way.

Answer 5

perhaps you must develop the f*ck up huh? sorry im in most cases quite exceptional to the teenager mothers on right here that experience questions considering i'm one. But that youngster that YOU made isn't an uncongenial factor. you're for calling YOUR baby that. And should you did not desire to move via this being pregnant and getting "fats" and move via all this "stoopid stuuff' you don't have unfold your d*mn legs. your mom and dad must get you a d*mn Chasity belt.

Answer 6

woah. you're moving way too fast there dear child. you need to relax and concentrate on being a teenager and your school. you two don't need to be living together, especially not at this young age.

Answer 7

moving to fast,don't you think,if you want to see each other and be closer,he needs to come here rent a room and get a job and go from there,take it slowly day by day if you want it to happen you can make it work,but it takes time.

Answer 8

You don't sound nearly old enough for a responsibility of a live-in relationship.

Answer 9

think about your future first and finish your university then every thing will be good after

Answer 10

so how old r u? 12, 13?