Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

Im falling for this one guy were both (20).......but when im alone with him he acts like he dosent want anything to do with me.......he acts like hes two cool or somthing.......and he kind of treats me like one of his guy freinds.........but yet he told his mom that he liked me .............WHATS THE DEAL......

2007-03-24 08:47:44 · 3 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.

2007-03-24 08:47:07 · 11 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

I live in New York City, and the combination of a heavy rotation of houseguests and a tiny Manhattan apartment has made an inflatable mattress an invaluable investment.
Recently, a few friends stayed over me house cuz it was too late to go home and they were a bit drunk. I let the couple sleep in my bed, and me and my friend crashed in the living room. I on the couch and she on the air mattress. Anyway when the couple woke up, they asked me to borrow the air mattress cuz they'd have a couple of guests in town. A week later, when I went over their house for dinner, I noticed the mattress deflated in the living, and I asked them why they hadn't use it. They sheepishly admitted that it was broken.
Here's the dilemma. They said that they tried to inflate it when they got home, but there was a leak somewhere, so the guests just crashed on the couch and floor. I'm fairly certain that it wasn't broken when I gave it to them, after all I just used it! Could it have broken in transit?

2007-03-24 08:47:04 · 3 answers · asked by Barbara M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 08:46:44 · 5 answers · asked by kelseykiddo1 3 in Friends

Well there's this 15 year old girl, (I'm 17), whose been interested in me for 2 years - we went to highschool togeher, now I'm in college - we're more like friends with benefit and I really don't want to go out with her and she seems ok with that - but do you reckon I should have sex with her? - She's not someone I want to be with in a relationship, dont know why...just don't feel that way about her - i guess the attraction on my part is purely physical - do you think it might complicate things If I had sex with her?

2007-03-24 08:46:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex girl friend and I broke up last month after a 6yrs relationship. She said she needs some time to figure out what she wants and therefore dumped me in the process. I still like her a lot but she says she does not have any feeling for me and sees me as her best friend. Last week we were spending some time together and one thing to another we started kissing. She mentioned if this wrong but we both agreed that it didnt feel wrong. We eventually ended up having sex that night. I am just confused what going on through her head. Just want to know from all you ladies about this issue, just so that I understand the situation better.

2007-03-24 08:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by jellymarrow13 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 08:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by khadεsia. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Listen please. thanks a lot....

So.. there is this guy i like... he is 18. Im 16.
the age... is it wrong?? i mean i'll be 17 in a week...

i use to work with him and he use to flirt with me a lot...
so i thought he liked me.

then about a week ago, he calls me, we were talking and he asked if i wanted to sleep with him.... i fliped out..

and then he said he was joking... like what the hell???

should i go out with him?? and see if it works? because he is a good guy.. he has like 2 jobs. very hardworking.
we talk a lot.

what should i do?

thanks...

2007-03-24 08:44:57 · 23 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3 in Singles & Dating

I gave my drivers ed teacher a BJ yesterday.... I kept thinking of him while I was having s*x with my BF last night. what should I do I wanna have S*x with my driver ed teacher.... but not break up with my bf! only helpful answers please...

2007-03-24 08:44:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a boy at my school likes me and i like him...seriously do...he is shorter than me and won't talk about how he feels about me to me....he has been ignorin' me....he asks my friends about me and how i feel about him....but won't say anything to my face...this has happened twice...then there is this girl....his ex- for the 4th time who won't get clue that he don't like her anymore...and i don't kno wat 2 do...do i 4get bout' or tri 2 work through it wit him....i really do like him seriously...itry talkin but he just blows me off...he even asked me if i liked him and i said not as much as i used 2...he offered to help fix dat...but hasn't said anything yet about it since...he is so 2faced he likes me one day then doesn't act like he cares...but he is so fine..

2007-03-24 08:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 08:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by rondosroost 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is my colleague at work. i am afraid he might be emotionally engaged and this might put me into an embarassing situation and cause sensitivity after that between us at work.
I wish to tell him and know if he feels as me or not.. i am confused and dont know how he feels and how to get to know that.

2007-03-24 08:43:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy that conned his way into being friends with my girl and now they're together. In my view, usually people like that have nothing but bad intentions, how long does it usually last? I want to win her back.....

2007-03-24 08:43:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Good Credit ( or at least better than mine)
7 digit income or assets
Spiritually grounded
College educated
Chivalrous
Concept of Monogamy (a good degree of belief in it)
Anti-crazy/anti deranged
Anti possessive

Anything else ladies...comments/suggestions? Let me know what recipe has worked for you. Fellas any comments?....

2007-03-24 08:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by DJA30 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 08:42:12 · 5 answers · asked by bdb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dad just asked about my girlfriend, your not going to marry her are you?? i was like how should i know, im 16 for crying out loud. 16 is way to young to be married, (i think one should wait at least untill 25--if your in love) yes, i am thinking about marriage in the future, but not now. its just the girl he was asking about i am pretty serious about, but i dont want to be thinking about marriage untill i am at least of legal age. how should i react when someone says that??

2007-03-24 08:41:52 · 17 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 08:41:07 · 2 answers · asked by krazyassgyrl 1 in Family

Hey Guys. My name is Jack, and im 15 years old. I am quite worried, and i do not know if i should intervene. My cousin, Jordan who is 14, hangs around with my younger gril cousin, Becky. These two are inseperable, and they absoluteley love each other to pieces. However, i think they may love each other too much, because i caught them kissing on the lips. I asked Jordan on his own what he was doing, and he told me that him and her were on mucking around. I caught them doing this again. Should i intervene, and tell them not to do it? Also, my cousin Jordan, i dont know what to think of him. I feel bad for saying this, but is he classified as a perv for kissing romantically a girl on the lips with 6 years diffrence. please only serious questions, as a younger cousin i have to look out for them. Many Thanks

2007-03-24 08:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy friend of mine has always been like an older brother to me(though only a 1 year age difference).We've been good friends, & he annoys me, just how it goes. About a week & a half ago he started acting odd, writing notes that said I<3U & trying to put his arm around me, etc. It seemed to just be a matter of time though because he does this to just about every girl he knows at some point. What I hadn't realized, was that he had done things that were kind of rude to other girls. Just to let you know, I'm in 7th grade & the guy is in 8th. Well, he had done things like try to look down girls shirts. I haven't spoken to Aharon since Thursday because of something I feel crossed the line by a long shot. He had said to another guy that he had rented a room at the holiday inn w/ an xtra large bed for me & him! I was infuriated with the vulgar, embarrassing, disrespectful comment. What do you think I should do, for I don't feel the silent treatment is enough. Also what r ur opinions on this?

2007-03-24 08:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Laureneliz 3 in Singles & Dating

What was the STUPIDEST thing youve ever done...............iv'e done my fair share of them..........one that comes to my mind is the time when i was in church, and me and my mom were siting in the top balcony. I was dangling my shoe in the creves of the balcony holes, wene my shoe fell hitting an old lady in the head...............as my heart sank to my stomach........i slowly peeked over the ledge and the whole congregation was looking up at me!!!!!!...................can anyone top that!!

2007-03-24 08:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

would he want to go to an arcade with me (his sorta friend, that's a girl)? The arcade is Gameworks and I like this guy alot so this would be sorta like a date as an alternative to going to the movies.

2007-03-24 08:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I get my bedouin husband to stop blowing his nose in the sink and leaving all his bogies to dry around the bowl?

2007-03-24 08:38:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 08:38:27 · 23 answers · asked by laura reade 1 in Singles & Dating

It's my EX and I still like him but know he's dating a knew girl what should I do to get him back I broke up with him because of a misunderstanding and he doesn't get it so what should I do please help me!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 08:38:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 08:37:33 · 14 answers · asked by laura reade 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 08:37:24 · 5 answers · asked by MARIA 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i got this girlfriend (just a fiend!) which i really like! but she seems to be so confused! her bf was my bfriend and we kinda started going out, she tells me she misses me and she loves talkin to me, and all that cool stuff, do you guys think she likes me!? i told her i like her and she didnt believe me at 1st and now she knows i have a crush on her, but i still havent gotten my answer, i dont wanna ask her again because she will think that i only want to go out with heR! what do you guys think!? what should i do!? does she like me!? we go out! she calls me on her breaks from work and tells me to go visit her all the time!, she wakes me up just to tell me "i miss you alot!" and i like all thaT! but when will she tell me!? please i want honest answers guys.

2007-03-24 08:37:06 · 9 answers · asked by Eric M 1 in Singles & Dating

Alrite, Im only 15 & he's 24. He's kind of in an on & off relationship with another girl & i think he loves her. He says he likes me & I like him alot too. I don't wanna lecture about the age either, his girlfriend right now is only 15 too so it doesn't really matter about the age. I don't know if i should get in the way of their relationship, but i dont wanna stop talking to him either.

What to do?
NO LECTURES.

2007-03-24 08:36:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is that wrong? Hes in 7th grade. Shes in 10th grade. He that wrong? Or nasty? Or what? I need advice!!!! What do you think?? Thnx!

2007-03-24 08:36:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so last night we had this dance and i guy ive liked for some time now was there.
before the dance he would always talk to me and hug me and flirt with me a lot.
my friends kept pushing me to dance with him and this ***** told him i liked him.
we danced for a couple songs and then a slow song came on and my friends pushed me into him.
we danced for a little bit then my friends strated talking to me [he DIDNT hear what they said] and the guy i like said "no" and walked away.

WHAT DID HE SAY NO TO?

later i was sitting down with my friends cuz i was really sad because i thought he had rejected me.
he came and sat down with us and kept asking what was wrong. i just kept being sad.
he sat there until the end of the dance.

also during the whole dance, before i dance with him he kept on hugging me and saying "shes mine"...but im not sure if it was a joke or not, hes been doing it for some time now.

so DOES HE LIKE ME? or should i just give up?
please please hlep and dont be nasty/mean.

2007-03-24 08:36:02 · 16 answers · asked by lexalicious 1 in Singles & Dating