A guy friend of mine has always been like an older brother to me(though only a 1 year age difference).We've been good friends, & he annoys me, just how it goes. About a week & a half ago he started acting odd, writing notes that said I<3U & trying to put his arm around me, etc. It seemed to just be a matter of time though because he does this to just about every girl he knows at some point. What I hadn't realized, was that he had done things that were kind of rude to other girls. Just to let you know, I'm in 7th grade & the guy is in 8th. Well, he had done things like try to look down girls shirts. I haven't spoken to Aharon since Thursday because of something I feel crossed the line by a long shot. He had said to another guy that he had rented a room at the holiday inn w/ an xtra large bed for me & him! I was infuriated with the vulgar, embarrassing, disrespectful comment. What do you think I should do, for I don't feel the silent treatment is enough. Also what r ur opinions on this?
2007-03-24 08:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Laureneliz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This was at a school competition and those who didn't know what he said he got to turn against me. I wouldn't lend him my phone for his "emergency" and others were saying that was so mean, excpet for those who knew what he said. I simply wouldn't talk to him. Though at one point he said he didn't know why I was being so mean, and I yelled at him about what he had said. He even got my crush against me since no one told my crush what the guy said!
2007-03-24 08:42:35 · update #1
He got people against me because I refused to answer him or loan him my phone, and the others thought it was randomly for no reason. My other friends are great. Those that don't know, are hopefully going to find out soon. This guy was a great friend, but this crap just sort of dropped out of nowhere.
2007-03-24 08:50:45 · update #2
One of the guys who knew about it said the same comment to him about his mom.
2007-03-24 09:01:40 · update #3
You guys have good replies, it'll be hard to pick a best answer
2007-03-24 09:35:58 · update #4
OK boys like this are something that i enjoy calling "attention wh0res" i have come across my fair share of them over the years. They're all over girls all the time and get all "offended" if your like whoa man back off. Basically, they cant live without girls. and all the stupid girls are all omg i love you and they're like hellz ya...im getting attention.You should stay away from them...and him
SO BASICALLY
what I think you should do is FIRST ignore him...and then when he comes crawling back to you i want you to tell him that you cant be his friend anymore beacuse he's an attention wh0re and you cant deal with his lifestyle. Everyone will be all like dude i love that guy why do you hate him. You tell them all the retarded things he's said to you and how basically, he's an attention whore. and you just dont really like him. They'll be like thats cool. And then next year he'll be in high school and you'll be in 8th grade and by the time you're a freshman he'll be like scamming on the juniors or whatever and you guys will just forget about each other and it will all be COOL
hope it helped!!
2007-03-24 08:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by encantame. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell this boy that his comment and his behavior upsets you.
I, would also recommend you taking a good look at you friendship with this boy. If he was your friend how could he turn others against you? This is not the behavior of a friend. I personally think it is time for you to move on and find some new friends.
2007-03-24 15:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by willowlafaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww!! i'm in the 10th grade so I know what u mean!! Guys in 8th grade tend to be huge FREAKS!!!! it's natural because their either entering or in the middle of those "hormonal changes" !! I'm an black girl with a big butt so u can imagine the comments i got! but what i used to do is go up to the guy and say "WHAT WOULD DO IF SOME GUY SAID THAT TO YOUR LITTLE SISTER? U WOULD BE MAD AS HELL! SO IF YOU'RE REALLY A FRIEND OF MINE YOU OWULD RESPECT ME ENOUGH TO NOT TALK TO ME LIKE THAT BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE IT AT ALL!! AND IF YOU CAN'T RESPECT ME THEN WE CAN'T BE FRIENDS!"(and get all up in his face like a black girl:)!) then say "THAT WAS REALLY A ***** MOVE TRYING TO GET EVERYONE TO TURN AGAINST ME WHEN YOU'RE THE PERV MESSIN WITH YOUNG GIRLS! SO GET EITH IT OR GET GONE!!!"
2007-03-24 15:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need him out of your life.
He is a scumbag
2007-03-24 15:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋