Well there's this 15 year old girl, (I'm 17), whose been interested in me for 2 years - we went to highschool togeher, now I'm in college - we're more like friends with benefit and I really don't want to go out with her and she seems ok with that - but do you reckon I should have sex with her? - She's not someone I want to be with in a relationship, dont know why...just don't feel that way about her - i guess the attraction on my part is purely physical - do you think it might complicate things If I had sex with her?
2007-03-24 08:46:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So far, we've just been messing about - oral sex, dry humping, taking showers together.
2007-03-24 08:54:45 · update #1
You want to know how I know that you are FAR TOO YOUNG TO BE SHAGGING ANYONE?? Because, (fwb) friends with benefits is two people who are friends, NOT in a relationship, BUT ARE having sex!! However, you're asking if things will get complicated if you have sex with her??? Sweetheart, get off the net and put your 17 year old head in a book and school yourself. that's not what the internet was designed for - come back after you learn even a little about life - by the way, keep your ***** in your pants until you know what acronyms are and WHAT THEY MEAN! Sorry love, but someone needs to give you a little kick in the butt.
2007-03-24 08:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex always complicates things. Don't do it. She is really too young and you don't really care for her that way. Besides, sex is more emotional for a girl. She will expect more than you are willing to give. I know it is only two years difference in age, but your situation right now makes those very important two years.
2007-03-24 15:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by kk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to do what you want 2 adults but female act on emotion and no matter how much you say sex only the emotion comes out i think you need to look into your heart and decide that you both deserve more .....remember if you are truly friends keep it that way and start a relationship with someone you really care about the sex really will be better.
best to your future
2007-03-24 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by S C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! how would it not complicate things!? Maybe, if u have confidence that she won't slap u then u could ask her, but make sure she knows u don't want to be in a relationship with her so she won't get hurt. If I were her then I would punch u really hard than change my phone#, but that's just me.
2007-03-24 15:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH. That would complicate EVERYTHING. If you have sex with her, she'll think you're going out and then you'll have to break her heart and say no I just had sex with you 'cause I felt bad. Only have sex with her if you guys are GOING OUT or at least have matched feelings for each other.
2007-03-24 15:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥αηηα♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT sleep with her , if she is into you she will do whatever it takes to get pregnant and hook you dont know why but teenagers today think if they want a guy bad enough get prego by him and he will marry you and settle down trust me i know what im talking about dont do her.
2007-03-24 15:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should...i would wait till you get married but do what you think is right and if you both are ready then yeah go ahead but think about it this way...if your not ready the pressure will get to you.
2007-03-24 15:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Eli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the matter with you? You can't find anyone your own age? That's illegal. Go find some college girl.
2007-03-24 15:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by qtpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt complicate things your only 17 i would definitely wear a rubber, and yeah i'd hit it.
2007-03-24 15:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, IT'S ILLEGAL! even if it wasn't, i still would think it would complicate things...... just fool around, but not sex...... if u want her, u can wait.
2007-03-24 15:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by KATE M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋