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Hey Guys. My name is Jack, and im 15 years old. I am quite worried, and i do not know if i should intervene. My cousin, Jordan who is 14, hangs around with my younger gril cousin, Becky. These two are inseperable, and they absoluteley love each other to pieces. However, i think they may love each other too much, because i caught them kissing on the lips. I asked Jordan on his own what he was doing, and he told me that him and her were on mucking around. I caught them doing this again. Should i intervene, and tell them not to do it? Also, my cousin Jordan, i dont know what to think of him. I feel bad for saying this, but is he classified as a perv for kissing romantically a girl on the lips with 6 years diffrence. please only serious questions, as a younger cousin i have to look out for them. Many Thanks

Answer 1

okay first b4 u really say anything dig deeper and if they really love each other only as cousins then leave it alone but if they are taking it to the next level as a couple then its time to intervene cousin if anything u don't want them having sex and then accidentially having a baby and then having a deformed baby which would be bad.......anyways if u can't seperate those too then u gotta get ur theit parents which i think would be aunts and uncle's

Answer 2

That is definitely a problem in more ways than one. Kissing your cousin is not a good thing to be doing, and could possibly lead to worse things happening. Also, your are right in the regard of a boy liking a girl that is 8 years younger as being a problem as well. It is not a good situation. I would speak to both of the parents involved and let them know what is going on, they need to intervene on this. But don't put it on yourself to solve this - it really needs to be handled by an adult

Answer 3

You should intervene,what they are doing right now is absolutely not right.You should tell them the facts of the situation and the consequences in the end.They might have misinterpreted the attentions they gave with each other with something romantic.Also, becky is just too young to be exposed for such kind of things.As the older cousin it is your responsibility to make sure that they do the right thing.You should always put in mind that no one stays just friends for a period of time if they keep on seeing each other exclusively.So as early as now correct them... good luck

Answer 4

Wait a minute, let me get this straight. Your guy cousin is 14 and there's a 6 yr difference. That means your girl cousin is 8yrs old??? What the hell is wrong with him. You need to whup his *** for kissing her on the lips like that. This will only lead to other sexual stuff. That's wrong and his definately a perv....

Answer 5

Intervene or get an adult to do it for you!

Jordan = 14
Becky = 8

Someone needs to talk with Becky to see what else has been going on.

Answer 6

well yea interven and tell their parents so they can have a talk because that is not right family should love each other but not like a relationship though so tell the parents all the way

Answer 7

Talk to the parents of both children involved separately, you are too young yet to deal with this and they need to know what is going on.

Answer 8

I would tell them that they both need some help, and then just tell them to leave the state and go get married somewhere legall. and if they dont leave just say that you are scared of both of them!! then move to china!

GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 9

you need to tell an adult so that they can talk to the both of them and find out what else has been going on and put a stop to it.....

Answer 10

Yes! Time to tell some adult to put a stop to this...Her age over rules over anything he might tell you that is innocent!!!!!