Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I am married to a man I love more than anything. We were childhood friends and married almost 1 year ago. He is a sweet guy, but his #1 passion in life is his band. It is getting so bad that he refuses to even get a full time job to help me pay the bills because it would interfere with his band. He has even asked me to change our flights for our HONEYMOON because of his band. I stupidly bend to accomodate him all the time, but I do this because I love him so much. I do feel, however, that he takes me for granted and doesn't ever make me a priority. I am very depressed and I have tried talking to him. Nothing ever changes. I knew going in that his band was important to him, I just never imagined that it would take priority over me. I don't know what to do. I feel like my life is at a standstill, however pathetic that may sound, because I bear 99% of the financial responsibility. I know its my own fault... How much are you supposed to take from someone you love?

2007-03-19 11:44:01 · 18 answers · asked by gloriakdelgado 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most realistic answer that works wins

2007-03-19 11:43:49 · 22 answers · asked by mochalatteyy33 1 in Singles & Dating

You see girls on Girls Gone Wild and girls who make out with each other in the clubs or parties where guys dare them to do it. And I hear it all the time how the girls are doing it to get attention from boys!? Oh my GOD, how weak is that!

Are girls so weak that they will jump off the bridge if a guy dare them to do it or to get attention??? Are girls that weak?? Or are girls really lesbians deep down that they're using excuses to have sex with other girls?

2007-03-19 11:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 11:43:22 · 15 answers · asked by tONY g 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out that the guy you like, likes you and is going to ask you out the next day but doesnt, and then asks you out 4 months later would you say yes or no???

2007-03-19 11:42:34 · 25 answers · asked by Red Baron 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I kiss my girlfriend who has never been kissed before I want to make it a memorable one (not just a peck!)
Also what should the process leading up to the kiss be like? What should I do?

2007-03-19 11:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so on mtv and stuff on those dating shows people ask how many bf/gf have you had so do they mean forever like those little ones in like 7th grade because there answer is usually like 5-10 and im in high school and ive probably had about 15 not serios ones though

2007-03-19 11:41:30 · 21 answers · asked by Preppy Prep Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 11:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by TT 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not have any boyfriend....all of my friends do...how can i find one..is there any easy way/place...to look for guys...? Please advice...

2007-03-19 11:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you let him speak to the children, if it is the children that you are going to court over?

2007-03-19 11:40:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you like in a good kisser? what do they do?

:)

2007-03-19 11:39:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 33 years old, single, and have never had kids. Whenever I tell someone this, or meet up with old friends from highschool, they say, "Ohh, you never had kids or got married? Is there someone special in your life? You live all alone?" They act like they feel sorry for me, and like I am some kind of freak. I have spent a lot of time on my education and creating a future for myself. Also, unlike them I know what birth control is, and use it! Why do people do this?

2007-03-19 11:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by jabegall 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friends parents split up a few months ago. [I cant remember if it was this year or just before christmas. i think her dad moved out this jan]
My friend is not happy about loads of things atm. College work, problems with friends and slight depression are just some of the things she's upset about.
Now her mother is becoming too dependant and its too much for her to cope with. I just told her i wanted to helped her and she said 'I know you do, but i cant talk to ppl easily Tenji; even you and since my mums been leaning on me more iv locked myself away more. i dont no how to be helped because i dont no how to talk about how i truely feel'
She wont talk to her mum and i think councelling is too soon. she's got to tell her mum her dad has a new gf soon so that will have a big toll on things.
other than being there for her, what else can i do or say? Even if its just a little thing. I've exhausted everything atm and I hate seein her like this. I just want to show her i care.

2007-03-19 11:38:49 · 11 answers · asked by tablesalt 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been friends for over 20 years and dated off and on our entire young adult life. We married 5 years ago and had a Son but divorced one year later. We were both very stubborn and selfish and unwilling to make changes to make our marriage work. We went through the typical hate, anger, and dissappointment that comes swith divorce but we are both now much more mature. We have a WONDERFUL relationship with each other and are now best of friends again however, we have slept together a couuple of times in the the last few months. I know, I know, it's a terrible thing to do. It's just that we have a connection and I still think I'm in love with him and he has said the same to me. Are there any success stories out there in this situation. Please don't pass judgement...

Additional Details

3 hours ago
okay, to those of you who think I'm a horrible person I can understand but I'm not looking for judgement from the 2nd wives out there who are appalled at the thought of their husband reconciling with his ex wife, just looking for an answer as to what the **** can I be thinking. Maybe I should have added that my ex and his now wife were co-workers and she was conveniently a shoulder for him to cry on in the early stages of the seperation. We had no chance of reconciling then as she moved herself into our house within a couple of months of seperating. I'm not looking for justification here, just heart broken and confused.

2 hours ago
as to the "****" comment, We have been divorced for 3 years and I have not slept with another man since. Don't get me wrong, I am a very attractive successful woman with plenty of opportunity to "****" around but sex has ALWAYS been something that I've never entered into (no pun intended) lightly. I've NEVER had sex outside of a committed relastionship until now. Not a ****, just someone who knows she made huge mistakes in a marriage in love with someone who admits he made huge mmistakes.

2007-03-19 11:38:41 · 14 answers · asked by Lea Anit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-19 11:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 11:37:50 · 7 answers · asked by bahjij6 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i am meeting this girl ina specific location downtown toronto and i am thinking of being spontaneous the whole date like chooseing a spot for lunch on the first date buying her a rose from a local flower shop

2007-03-19 11:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-19 11:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by duel madness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 11:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by act as if no one is watching 1 in Singles & Dating

She is even said we had to go see a councilor because she believes that he has something physically/mentally wrong with him. We did and the Dr said he is just unsure of himself and shy. My mom says as long as I am happy, but this is really upsetting me a causing a lot of issues between not only me and my mom but me and my finance too I am very upset. Any advice?

2007-03-19 11:35:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've never had a boyfriend and i rarely get crushes because it takes alot for a guy to catch my interest... so this one scares me... i first noticed him a few months ago... and i just wanted to get to know him.. because he's one of my close friend's best friend... but now its gotten SOO out of control... i mean... he walks by.. i smile so big its not funny.. when i catch him looking at me.. i like.. just turn red and have to hide my face to keep from laughing and smiling..everything about his is like.. amazing and he's a really nice guy to top it all off.. but there are a billion reasons to get over this.. because most of all.. he's taken!!! they have a wierd, wierd relationship thats long distance.. but withought the distance (they never see each other, never hang out, only talk on the phone once every few days... even though she lives one county over... but they are still like.. a couple) and another is that.. noone that sexy would ever like me.. and he'd make a really good friend!

2007-03-19 11:35:51 · 6 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i get my man to go down on me

2007-03-19 11:35:50 · 16 answers · asked by j z 1 in Singles & Dating

im bored!!:o

2007-03-19 11:35:37 · 2 answers · asked by Carly 1 in Singles & Dating

My nana is the sort of person who loves to talk and likes to know everything! However I don't really like to talk! We need help! If she stays quiet, she gets upset! And if I talk to my nana, I get annoyed! Please help me and my nana work something out!

2007-03-19 11:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by LittleLucy 2 in Friends

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Am I red-flagued as a psycho because of the way I answered the questions?

Or do they discriminate agains certain religeous / ethnic groups?

2007-03-19 11:35:29 · 3 answers · asked by the secret is in the pudding 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at the movies last weekend when my bf's sister (who is bi) told me she has a crus on my and his twin brother has a crush on me too OMG what should i do about all ths I'm sooo confused.BTW I'm also bi and she knows it.

2007-03-19 11:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by Tes 1 in Singles & Dating

Are these statements correct?

Find me a wealthy man with an unattractive wife. Or find me an attractive woman with a poor, unattractive man.

Every woman is a prostitute to some extent. No attractive woman is going to date a bum. They're going to date the guy with the Bentley.

Take an attractive woman on a date, if you don't have money to spend on her for dinner or drinks.....consider it your last date

2007-03-19 11:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wers! plz help! i have 2 get them in 3hrs. I agreed 2 it cause she said that if i won, she wood pay 2 get hour nailz done GOD HELP!~~!

2007-03-19 11:34:41 · 9 answers · asked by Booky524 2 in Singles & Dating