I do not have any boyfriend....all of my friends do...how can i find one..is there any easy way/place...to look for guys...? Please advice...
2007-03-19 11:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie,it will happen when it is meant to happen.You cant force it,and you cant push it away.When it happens,great...but you will see its alot of work to maintain a real relationship.
Having a boyfriend,isnt all there is to being young.Just live your life everyday,and dont worry about it.There is no rule that says you have to have a boyfriend,nor does it say that just because your friends have one you have to have one too.Just enjoy being young.Enjoy those years,and dont waste them wishing for something that isnt there yet.They go by so fast,and once they are gone,they do not come back.Embrace them and enjoy them while they are here and you can,and let what you cant control happen when it will.Good luck hun and have a good day!!
2007-03-19 11:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you are beautiful and unique and wonderful and you do not need a guy to be happy. Be happy with you and a guy will see your inner peace and be drawn to you.
Good places to look for guys.... Student lounge at college. Church. Parts store - I bought a lot of windshield wipers when I was single. Take up a hobby that is popular with both sexes and join a club that focuses on that - kickboxing, running. Get a second job at a guys' clothing store.
Then just be yourself and initiate conversations.
Good luck! The guy for you is out there some place.
2007-03-19 18:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tired Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is nothing wrong with being single. There is nothing wrong with you just because you don't have a bf. Women that feel they must have a bf normally have self esteem issues. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. Its not wise to be with the wrong person, rather than be alone. When the time is right, and the person is right, you'll know it...and so will he. Be patient. The surest way not to find love is to go looking for it.
2007-03-19 18:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by aerowrite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but this is kinda a strange question. You say it like u want to use a guy just so u can be like ur friends. Wow, maybe u should rethink ur thoughts about guys and maybe consider them too lol
2007-03-19 18:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by random bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should jus wait 4 the rite guy because it sounds to me like u jus want a bf because all ur friends have one. u r rushing into a relationship and this would rly be the wrong way to go about
2007-03-19 18:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rdy4Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on how old you are, a great place to meet many cool people is at the dance clubs.
2007-03-19 18:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find me(nice guys) guys like me at.
Wal-mart
Basketball courts(best time is 4-7 around sun down)
Gamestop(or any video game store)
2007-03-19 18:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea we are every where!! like me but right now i am in the desert?? but dont be scared to talk to guys we have a hard enought time talking to girls you shouldnt be scared to go and just start talking to a guy!!
2007-03-19 18:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by dovera1c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are u? had any bf in the past? just be yourself talk to guys and hangout with them...
2007-03-19 18:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juist be yourself...there is probably a guy who likes you right now and you don't know it!! just be patient and wait!
2007-03-19 18:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋