My husband and I became pregnant and for the first 4 months, he was supportive and kind. It was a surprise, and not under the best circumstances; but really, when is it? The first time he felt the baby move, he stopped touching my stomach and refused to speak of the baby. I finally got it out of him by 20 weeks that he wanted me to get rid of the baby, he wanted an abortion, but when I explained that it was late term abortion and would be dangerous and (wrong) in my eyes, he switched to insisting that we give the baby up.
I am now 37 weeks. My husband has made it abundantly clear that he will leave if I keep the baby. He wants me to give her up for adoption. His reasoning is that babies break up marriages and that we can't buy everything for her that he wants.
We aren't rich, but we definitely aren't poor. I do not want to loose my husband of 3 years, and I will not give up my child.
What can I possibly do?
2007-03-18
08:23:12
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