My wife says yes. I say NO! I don't want her talkin to her exes. Not cause of her but because of them. What do you say? I know men and anything we have screwed, we feel we can screw again and will always try. If she stays friends with him, means I must be his friend. What will we talk about, how we both did my lady?
2007-03-18 08:24:00 · 10 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely! Are you so insecure that you can't trust in your wife's love for you? If she wanted to be with them, she would be. She must have had the opportunity. And it doesn't mean that you have to be his friend - although if you love your wife, you should at least be polite. I know quite a few of my wife's exes - she's still good friends with them, and I have become friends with some as well. Next month, she's going to meet some of mine. I trust her - and she trusts me. If we wanted someone else, we shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.
Just because you will try to screw anyone you've screwed before, it doesn't mean that she would. In fact, I think she should be more worried about you, if that's your attitude.
2007-03-18 08:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doubtful.... I'm not married but I am friends with guys that I've been with. But you just don't want to make your spouse suspicious of anything. So the best thing is not to be friends with any former lover.
2007-03-18 08:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by dfs_berthies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exes could be acquaintances as long as they are acquaintances i.e. no flirting or talking approximately 'old situations'. I quite have an ex who's a chum - my husband does not get in the slightest degree upset approximately it in any respect - he knows of my heart is with him, no longer my ex. to boot, my ex knows of that if he ever tried even hinting at beginning something with me - he does not see me returned! Any friendship is high quality as long as you're one hundred% unswerving on your better half.
2016-10-02 08:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a bad idea to tell your wife who she should or shouldn' talk to. Do you trust her? Who cares if dudes want to do her as long as she won't do it?!
Empower those you love! Give them the benefit of the doubt! Get off knowing that this fox has guy friends but only wants to come home to you!
2007-03-18 08:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, its tasteless and ridiculous and careless... he is the past and you are the future, or at least it's supposed to be that way. As a woman, I'm skeptical that that's all to her story. Sorry my friend, just my intuition.
2007-03-18 08:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on their history. Did he not marry her because she wasn't good enough? Would your lady be willing to put out for a guy with that attitude? If she wanted to cheat; why would it be with someoneshe already had? If this guy gives you reason to think he is stealing your lady then knock him out.
2007-03-18 08:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tim O 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are good enough to be friends they have obviously figured out that things didn't work between them, and that's why she is your wife and not theres.
2007-03-18 08:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by kristywork127 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
former lovers should never be friends after marriage, it almost always means sex is involved!
2007-03-18 08:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to trust her judgment in friends. if she trusts them you should trust them. if they eventually give you a reason not to then i'm sure she will understand. trust is key to a good marriage.
2007-03-18 08:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO NO.
2007-03-18 08:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋