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Me and my girlfriend, both 13 almost 14, went to the movies the other day. Halfway through the film, we were cuddling, and she put her hand on my leg and sorta started to rub it, and then she put my hand on hers, fairly close to the top of her legs, and pretty inward. Why did she do this =.=

2007-03-18 08:27:44 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.Right 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

i've always thought it was a good idea to date someone who you can talk about anything to. if you aren't comfortable with this, and she does it again feel free to let her know. she should respect your decisions just as you should respect hers. don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to, but remember that communication is the key. she could've just wanted you to touch her more. as a girl, i love being touched by guys and i hate feeling that i always have to touch them. it's nice to have a guy put his hand on your leg as a sign of affection. either way, be fair to yourself AND to her and discover what you're comfortable with. don't let anyone push you out of your comfort zone after they are aware of your boundaries.

2007-03-18 14:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She's just getting comfortable.
You guys are a little young.
Cuddling is fine, even hands on legs or whatever, just make it clear that you don't want anything further. If she's a respectable girl she'll respect that you make that desicion.

Unless she was just putting her hand on your leg. :-)

2007-03-18 08:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Dude, just stop doing it. Thats wrong. really. grow up a little. anything sexual is off limits.

2007-03-18 08:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0 0

Tell your mother about this imediately

2007-03-18 08:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0 1

She is looking to explore sexually. If it makes you uncomfortable, say no.

2007-03-18 08:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by All Things Zen 3 · 0 1

becuase she wanted you to do the same rub her leg duh

2007-03-18 08:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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