this dude that I talked to a few times has like a huge crush on me but I don't like him and he is not recieving my backoff signals. He even followed me to my house t see where I lived. I don't want to be rude but I don't want him hitting on me anymore or following me around school waiting outside my classes.
2007-03-18 08:26:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start off by telling him exactly what you wrote above. If he continues to follow you, track you, etc. Then you should report him to the police. Don't delay in reporting because you think it may be harmless...it may also be dangerous not to report him. In either event, the police will start keeping good records of the repeated incidents and that will help you when/if you finally need to get him charged and prosecuted.
2007-03-18 08:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Gary D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a safe problem you can just wish away. Girls, and Women have been murdered by these types of people. Call the police and make a report, preferably while he is following you, that way they have a chance to tell him to back off or else, go to jail.
2007-03-18 15:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really bothering you in school you can always ask a respectable teacher or principal to take care of it. If he just sits outside your house go to the police, and if you are near a relationship you can find a descent boyfriend who will take care of you and this would probably turn him off thinking your taken. You can even get a guy friend to talk to him and that might discourage him to. Talk to your parents ask them what they think.
2007-03-18 15:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by tripp j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times in life you have to be a little mean. Thats why God gave us the ability, for moments like this. If you have exhuasted ever other means.....you are going to have to straight tell him off.. Stalking can become very dangerous, and emotionally draining. You have to squash it now before it goes way out of control. Good luck
2007-03-18 15:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm suggesting to never be alone, always keep a cellphone and maybe some sort of object to protect yourself, like pepper spray. If the problem gets worse, call the police.
Oh yeah, never go into public restrooms alone.
2007-03-18 15:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact local law enforcement and get a restraining order through the courts.
2007-03-18 15:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start stalking him and that will weird him out. Then It will be him that is trying to get away from you. I am just playing. You can talk to him and ask let him know ther he does not have a chance or you can do stuff that will make him not like you.
2007-03-18 15:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Cool 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First if you are attractive you should be able to get some other dude to give him the beat down. If you are not hire someone.
2007-03-18 15:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
phone the police or call 911 run to a store till he is gone run a way from him never try to find him.
2007-03-18 15:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is start to go out with someone. Or talk to him about a guy you like or think is cute. He will definatly be driven away.
2007-03-18 15:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋