He will tell me he's coming to drop off dinner for me at work, and no one will see or hear from him for hours on end. If he's at home and I call, he won't answer the phone. He swears he cares and he wants to make things work, but he makes no effort. He wants to be out with his friends for hours without having to be accountable for anything, he doesn't do anything around the house, and I'm just plain frustrated. It's not drugs, it's not alcohol, and it's not another woman - he at least doesn't lie to me about where he's been and who he's been with afterward. I don't believe in divorce - I believe one marriage is plenty for anyone, and if you love someone so much to marry them, then you make it work - but I don't know what to do anymore. I am so frustrated I'm in tears! We've been together for 6 1/2 years, but just got married last summer (we were living together before that, so it's not that)... I just don't know what to do anymore.
2007-03-18
15:08:57
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jhostman
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Marriage & Divorce