do guys actaully mean it like if ur going out w/ some guy for more than a month and they tell u i love you do they actaullly mean it?
2007-03-18 15:03:27 · 25 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have been with this guy since dec. of 06
2007-03-18 15:24:10 · update #1
you can say i love you to anyone, they are just words. what the show you makes the words true or false.
2007-03-18 16:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by wndylark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not usually. A month is too soon to tell someone u love them, u're just getting to know them during that time. U have to be friends first & let that friendship develope & grow. The more u know about a person, the more u either like them or don't. Some boys will say that to get a girl to go to bed w/him, then drop her like a hot potato! Give it another 6 months, then another 6 months, get to know him REALLY well, then give it another 6 months. In other words, don't rush into anything & don't let him talk u into anything. Kids ur age try to rush into things, think they're in love when it's only heat. Think about it.
2007-03-18 15:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by louise b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is hard to tell for me love takes more time then a month some guys and girl fall into love at first sight i do not believe that happens but love is a mix of respect trust and communication. Most guys that i know say they love a girl only to get her in bed and i think that is why i don't say it till i feel it but some guy really do mean it i guess it just depends on the guy and the girl
2007-03-18 15:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfreind is 27 when we met he replaced into 26 and that i replaced into 18. Im now turning 19 and we stay at the same time. Age isn't a element as long as you adore someone, even if if i replaced into below 16 it should be a finished no. yet the position i stay 16 is the age of consent, and 18 you're allowed to drink and so on and are an grownup so it does no longer count number
2016-11-26 21:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could say the "proof is in the pudding". What I mean by that is anyone can say I Love You but to see if it is for real the person had to treat you like they love you. It is possible for the guy to love you.....it is also possible for a guy to say things that are not really what they mean. See how the relationship goes and you'll know right away if he's really in love with you.
2007-03-18 15:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sara M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes some guys can be just saying it to get sex, and some have never had a serious relationship, so they feel like they are supposed to say it, and then you have some guys who just fall in love easily.
2007-03-18 15:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ... Many say it to get what they want. Age has nothing to do with it ... From your writing/spelling abilities it is clear you are young and with this, so would be the guy. Don't take his words seriously. He probably doesn't know the meaning of the word.
2007-03-18 15:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this guy i was dating for like a month dumped me because "he didn't love me" i was like what the heck.. you are expecting LOVE in a month's time..... so i don't know.. some guys view things like that.. i think it has something to do with their past relationships as to how Fast they Want to fall in love and think they Should just all of a sudden like in a month sometimes... and my guy wasn't just looking for sex either... so you never know.. it depends, but your guy could be something like what my guy did.. he could and he could not.. if he's trustworthy and a good guy then probably he does (or Thinks he does) if not.. he could just want sex.. just watch out and be cautious.. but don't over-analyze and take things for granted either!
2007-03-18 15:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do mean it, some guys dont, the ones who dont are called players. And say the same thing to every girl they meet.
Use your best judgement or you get very hurt..
2007-03-18 15:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jetglam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe after 6 months
2007-03-18 15:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friend experienced that. maybe yes maybe not. What my friend experienced is the guy that told her doesn't had a girlfriend and he desperately need someone to be his girlfriend. What a loser. after that, he always say something hurt to my friend. so , you cannot easily trust a guy. maybe today he can say that and you don't know what will happen by tomorrow. so be careful especiallly with the guy that you recently know.
2007-03-18 15:14:37 · answer #11 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋