Family & Relationships - 2 March 2007

Our relationship is online,and we have never met in person,but been seing each other online for abt a yr now.but he still wont leave me cos he thinks he wont find anyone else.And on my part,i stayed with him cos i am very lonely.I live in a foreign country all by myself,and i hardly have friends,and i donot like the guys of the foreign country,so i found it hard to find a relationship here.I am of a race diff from the country i am living with now,so though i like thier cultureand other stuff,i do not like thier attitude towards dating,so i wont date any of them,but i respect them.Everytime i threaten to leave him,he threatens suicide,but i know all the love i felt for him is gone.i know if i leave him i will be very lonely,but i dont love him anymore,and i cant even be nice to him these days,but when i talk of breakup,he accuses me of seeing a new guy,which isnt true.I once did,but thats was then,and i know he never got over that.I am really confused,shd i lleave him and be lonely?

2007-03-02 21:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by traces 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not have any family out here and my friends have been long gone for ten years.

2007-03-02 21:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

that i already told you that a boy i loved and he insulted me i can able to forget him at the time i proposed he told that he also loved me but now he doesnt want to marry a middle class girl only he wants rich , i too attempted for suicide he knows everything but still hurting and making me to cry

2007-03-02 21:22:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

SEXY OR SWEET GIRLS?
oh yeah no rude jokes please !

2007-03-02 21:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plzzz be honest: Do you still love it if other gorgious person makes some gestures to have sex with you. If your boyfnd has no issue would you like to utilize the opportunity:

2007-03-02 21:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is is always that I'm trying to help people out, but I can never get a break myself. Why am I always broke even though there's so much opportunity arround me? Why are girls always telling me to get lost even thoug I'm the only guy who's ever done anything good for them? What's wrong with people who are telling me to just be myself, when that's all I've been trying to do my whole life. Why is it that I've been putting so much effort trying to make the world a better place and yet things have still ended up the same way they always were and I'm still alone and misereable?

2007-03-02 21:15:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked my husband if he ever wakes up in the middle of the night horny and desire to make love to me, he promptly replied with a "no"? His reasons being: he doesnt wake up, although he wakes up to go to the bathroom, or wakes up to come looking for his wife should she not be in bed with him, he says he is tired alot and needs his sleep, that is why we never have had sex in the middle of the night unless i come to bed and initiate it. It doesnt even happen on the weekends when he doesnt have to get up to go to work. btw...we have been married for almost 4yrs.We have only made love 3 times in the afternoon, and twice in the morning. and i had to talk him into quickies, says he doesnt like them cuz he wants to let the feeling last as long as he can? i told him well if we had more it wouldnt b an issue.as long as i go to bed with him at 10pm everynight then he is pefectly happy but when i do he rarely initates anything his idea of romance is rolling over and sticking his thumb up my ..?

2007-03-02 21:15:32 · 14 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I give them the present at the start or end of my visit?

2007-03-02 21:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by anchorman 2 in Friends

2007-03-02 21:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by Dumbass 1 in Singles & Dating

any suggestions? subtle ones if possible lol

2007-03-02 21:10:15 · 7 answers · asked by Wilson J 4 in Singles & Dating

We are roughly the same age, and in similar situations as far as family. I know she has two daughters, I have two as well about the same age. When I mentioned that I was extemely unhappy in my marriage and planned a divorce in a couple of years, she made a definite point of telling me she was unhappy in hers as well. We just started working together, by the way, but different shifts entirely, unless we have a meeting, I never see her. Well, I was attracted to her, and thought I felt the same from her, though she could have been being nice. Our main way of communicating would be through our work's email, and that is easily read, and saved, so I don't think she would be comfortable with anything personal sent that way. I've thought of sending her my private email, along with the suggestion that if she ever wanted to discuss "family" issues, she'd be more than welcome. Any ideas of that being a good idea, or suggestions would be helpful!

2007-03-02 21:10:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what subjects do u find u like to talk about with the
person your attracked to

2007-03-02 21:09:11 · 7 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-02 21:08:06 · 17 answers · asked by thestendfactor 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You wake up today to find out someone has paid off all or any personal debt you have,the catch you will NEVER again be allowed a loan ,overdraft or credit card.Would or could you and youre family survive.My husband and i have a reasonable income not rich,not hard up yet at end of every month i find myself using a credit card to buy food shopping ect.It got me thinking if we had to live on exactly what we earn could we and would it change youre life for the worse or better.?

2007-03-02 21:06:59 · 20 answers · asked by smiler 4 in Family

how do you feel about that? It's NOT true in my life. the people who I put in my life (friends) are much closer to me then my family. but is it ture for you? or do you frown every time someone says that like I do?

2007-03-02 21:06:42 · 5 answers · asked by JenGem 2 in Friends

okay.. this is the problem, my bf never makes time for me.. and i mean MAKES time.. When i ask him what are you doing saterday.. he's like "well i am free... i think" meaning he has nothing planned but if someone comes allong and ask him.. he will go with them instead of saying, i have time and we can hang out or do something and when someone comes allong say he cant, because he is seeing his gf...

Do you get where i am going.. its like i am the last thing on his list and when he is bored and cant find anything else... than he has time for me!!! He never makes time!

and the only thing we ever do is hang infont of the tv and make out, so i want to go and do things.. then he says "sure we can... what do you want to do... i cant think of anything!" It like he cant even put in the effort to think of something.. i can, again...

Do you say my problem? i am right? Are all guys like this? What can i do? should i tell him how i feel? I really want him to realise without telling him.

2007-03-02 21:02:25 · 12 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my wifes brest cancer, I have had an increasing problem making love to her. She used to have beautiful breast, but now there is only scare tissue. For a long time I didn't tell her how I felt about it. I guess I should have kept my mouth shut, but she asked me why we always do it doggie style and I confessed what a turn off the frontal view it is for me. She says I'm insensitive. I reminded her of all the years I tried to get her to stop smoking. She did finally quit after being diagnosed. Now she says she doesn't want to have sex with me unless I can face her with the lights on. It's like it has to be her way or no way. I feel that if she cared about our relationship, she wouldn't be so stubborn and would want to work around this problem. Should I divorce? We havn't touched each other for almost three months.

2007-03-02 21:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Just to be enlightened LOL

2007-03-02 21:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

about the age difference between a 16 and 25 year old? im in that position

2007-03-02 20:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by bubbly_child 2 in Singles & Dating

During horizontal gymnastics, I like to follow the lady, as closly as possible, of course.

2007-03-02 20:58:38 · 18 answers · asked by lulu 6 in Singles & Dating

would you think that a gril went way to far when she called you to tell you that she liked you and then talked to you for about and hour?

2007-03-02 20:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are all men do same things or its depends. Whether moaning increse tle pleasure of eigther partner. pls expaline me as much as possible

2007-03-02 20:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by corporate_boy2002 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-02 20:46:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Having lost both my parents over the last 3 years i need to ask this question-I am not after sympathy i just need to know if anyone else feels the same.I sat and watched both parents die and was devastated when they died,but even now sometimes i feel like i have not excepted this.When i look at my mums photo,who died 14 months ago its like i want to push to the back of my mind,or i couldnt cope with it.My dads photo is the same,with dad died earlier by 12 months.i feel comfort from him but still feel like i havent excepted all thats happened.even just writing this has me in tears.Its not like i am a young person i am in my 50s

2007-03-02 20:46:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please describe the hug a guy gives a girl he is interested in but hasn't admitted it yet.


My friend throws his arm around my neck and pulls me toward him with his elbow crook. Facing each other.

2007-03-02 20:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a brother that goes to the same school as me and he is on the football team...i wanna know why is it that dudes on the team dont try to talk to me because of my bro?

2007-03-02 20:45:58 · 4 answers · asked by Im.An.Allstar 2 in Singles & Dating

He is in love with me, that's what he said yesterday... he is from another country, another belief, customs and traditions. He told me that he loves me and gonna prove it by any means ... he asked to learn my language and is getting deeper in my religion. Do I have to trust him and his love to be sincere or will he change in the future? Are these signs of deep love and sacrifice?!

2007-03-02 20:33:26 · 2 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my wifes brest cancer, I have had an increasing problem making love to her. She used to have beautiful breast, but now there is only scare tissue. For a long time I didn't tell her how I felt about it. I guess I should have kept my mouth shut, but she asked me why we always do it doggie style and I confessed what a turn off the frontal view it is for me. She says I'm insensitive. I reminded her of all the years I tried to get her to stop smoking. She did finally quit after being diagnosed. Now she says she doesn't want to have sex with me unless I can face her with the lights on. It's like it has to be her way or no way. I feel that if she cared about our relationship, she wouldn't be so stubborn and would want to work around this problem. Should I divorce? We havn't touched each other for almost three months.

2007-03-02 20:32:39 · 12 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-02 20:32:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for the last 4 and a half years ive been severly depressed and suicidal for no reason, i have tried most of the antidepressent meds and non of them work,ive been through counciling, i dont drink, dont take drugs, dont smoke i have a very supporting family, friends,why do i feel like this when i have pritty much have everything i want.
non of my friends and family know i feel like this all the i tend to hide it really well.
HOW DO I STOP FEELIG LIKE HIS.

2007-03-02 20:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by shane m 1 in Friends