Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Me and my fiance are quite young (he's 20 and I'm 18) He has joined the Army and we are very much in love are we to young to get married?

2007-02-26 13:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't know.Is this her way of trying to be my friend?I'll let you make the decisions.When we're walking in the hallway,she stays on my butt.I can't make a turn without me seeing her right there. When I walk with someone,she tries to get in front of then just to talk to me.When she does she tries to get right by my lips.I really wonder.Wait,thats now all,she even tries to sit my of behing be in all of the classes that we have together.When she has to walk by me she tries to stick her rear out in my face.I've asked her whats wrong with her but she just laughs. She also does this wierd thing like she will try to grab me when I walk by.I don't know why she does this,I don't think that it's funny at all.I know that I'm very attractive but everyone can't have me.Is of me of does she go that way?

2007-02-26 13:26:21 · 8 answers · asked by G 3 in Friends

There is this senior at my high school that I REALLY like! I'm a sophomore. And we always "flirt with our eyes." I met him twice before on the bus, and we clicked right away. BUT...he has a girlfriend and is engaged. But he and I are always, "flirting with our eyes." And I'm constantly thinking about him. I really need to know where to go from here. The funny thing is that we are always "following" each other at lunch, not really trying to be obvious, but I think we both know that were doing it. It's stupid, I know. Please help if you can. Some advice please! Thank you!

2007-02-26 13:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by The Random Blonde 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u have sex?

2007-02-26 13:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by princessvirgo_109 2 in Singles & Dating

. My father is and abusive alcoholic and to be honest I dont know how to deal with it. I have two older brothers whom I am VERY close to, the were beat a lot and I had to watch. My sister and I were emotionally abused a lot, and it still goes on today. I also watched my mom get hit. My dad is my brothers step-dad , and because they weren't his real kids and I was I always felt that it should have been me who got hit instead of them. This past summer we found out my dad was cheating on my mother. (yes more bad news and he left.) He is now behind on all his bills and is still drinking heavily and is on drugs. I haven't seen or talked to him in 6 months. I guess what I really need help with is I am the kind of person who keeps everything inside and because of it now I cut and I am on major depression medication, just to be able to be a normal person.... advice?

Please if your just going to say i'm stupid for cutting or just want attention I really don't want to hear from you.

2007-02-26 13:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Every day, I get out of class for lunch before him, and I wait for him, and when we walk together, I dunno. I know I get a weird feeling-- The good kind-- but I NEED to know, does he love me? How can I tell? He is my best friend (ugh...) and he (as I have said before) sat by me in our first business seminar, in the gym cause the room is being fumigated... anyway, he put his foot under my leg, I got a feeling, but did he? Also, he commented on my eyes, and told me how they look. Just, how can I tell if he loves me??????

2007-02-26 13:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 13:25:07 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 13:24:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl who has a bf n we talk n theres another girl im talkin 2 who doesnt n we talk jus as much. wat should i do?

2007-02-26 13:24:38 · 1 answers · asked by paolo g 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so ive moved on from my ex-crush but now i have one on the meanest guy in our school literally. I dont want anyone 2 no and i think i might REALLY like this guy. it seems like he might like me 2 but i cant tell 4 sure. Has this ever happened 2 u B4??

2007-02-26 13:24:24 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

The guy I thought was the nicest guy I'd ever know has turned into biggest jerk I've ever known and I'm wondering why. Maybe the nice guy was all an act or he decided he needed to be nice like that to get me to like him? And now rather than tell me goodbye he acts like this so I'll tell him to get lost?

Do guys do this alot? Is it because they don't have the nerve to break up with the girl or they don't want to hurt the girl? Do they think it is easier for the girl if they are such a jerk the girl starts to hate them?

2007-02-26 13:22:39 · 9 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do women think that skinny chicks are attractive? Most men know that women with meat on their bones are sexy (big boobs, big butts, thick thighs ect) - but why do women think that only scrawny girls with no curves are pretty?

2007-02-26 13:22:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but he dont want to

2007-02-26 13:22:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my husband of 6 years left for 3 days usually we spend every second together ! I'm only 23 and it was like when he was gone and i was bored i was thinking what should i do with my time i thought i wanted to be just like him and do things that he usally does i felt weird for thinking that! I realized when he was gone how much i love this man it hurts so bad to love someone this much and i don't know why it would actually hurt emotionally to love him so! Is that weird too? I guess maybe i'm scared of losing him? I even love looking at his facial expression he makes or even the way he stands and walks is this normal ? i want to be around him all the time i'm a very depressed person naturally and he's like a natural anti depressant to me. I just love him so much and couldn't even bare the thought of loosing him to anything!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 13:22:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 13:21:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've had this said to me several times, "i respect you" when i would like to make out with a guy.... now, what does it really mean? "i respect you" is a meaning for im not attract to you, or i don't like you that way? i want to be friends? what????? i personal would like for them to kiss me or something... but what the hell?? is it that they really respect me a lot and don't want to hurt my feelings and they go for a whatever girl to mess around with her??? hmm.. i'm just wondering, i'm not up set or anything, but its just interesting... 3 guys said that to me...

2007-02-26 13:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

imainly i spose cos i cant decide whether i want to be in this relationship. ive been thinking for all this time but i cant decide. We have stopped having sex and i sometimes feel suffocated and i feel anxious a lot of the time. I really love him but half of me wants to just be independent and live by myself and only have to worry about myself..and this relationship makes me feel tired ...like i always have to be the strong one leading everything and i would just like him to take charge. also i wonder (this sounds horrible) if i couldnt do better and be happier on my own. i guess what im asking is i hve been thinking about moving out for just a month and he could go on living here like normal and i will pay my share..but just to have a chance to be me and not worry about someone else. if he wanted i wouldnt sleep with anyone else. Is this normal way to feel? am i being unreasonable? do you think he should go along with me doing this? it just feels wrong to break up.

2007-02-26 13:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Marriage & Divorce

okay there is this one boy he acts as if he likes me, and laughs at all of my jokes. i kinda like him , all he has to do is just smile and i laugh. and we blush when we see each other .but hes sending mixed messages.his friends and him say that he likes someone else and... i know that but i just dont understand this . does he heve a crush on her AND me? and do i actually like him?

2007-02-26 13:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by maria 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm not a tomboy at all!
but i don't want a boyfriend at all either.
how can i stay single...and make a lot of male friends?

2007-02-26 13:20:35 · 5 answers · asked by b'sbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

I would never ask a short guy "Hey, how short are you, anyway?" yet the short guys in the bars always come up to me with some line about how tall I am. I am 5'11 and love my height, and I appreciate guys of all sizes. So what's the big deal?

2007-02-26 13:19:37 · 17 answers · asked by shannon72072 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a senior who has liked this boy since the 9th grade. Everyone tells him that I like him. When he walks into a room I am in it gets awkward, and we both know it. I dont know what to do about it so what should I do. Keep in mind about how long i have liked him, and people tell him that I am obsessed with him when im not. Not take this as an obsessive move either!! Kthanx bye!

2007-02-26 13:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by blah 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i get one????

2007-02-26 13:18:59 · 42 answers · asked by sailorsoccer07 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend tells me everything but she wont tell me who she likes...i kno that it is her bussiness but i want to kno because that shows that she trusts me...now i feel like she doesnt...what do i Do??

2007-02-26 13:18:56 · 9 answers · asked by brookezimmermann 1 in Friends

most of my friends have kissed guys but im like the only one who hasnt. i just havent really had a serious boyfriend. should i try to speed up to their level. im 13 and havent had my 1st kiss. is that weird. GUYS: do you think its weird i havent? GIRLS: should i wait for the right guy?

2007-02-26 13:17:49 · 6 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

both over 40 yrs

2007-02-26 13:17:41 · 7 answers · asked by pitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm geting married in October by a judge and unfortunatley we can not afford to have any kind of big reception. I thought we could take our families and witnesses out to dinner or whatever, I want to know if it would be appropriate to wear a wedding gown to get married by a judge. I'm 40 and this is my first wedding,I always wanted to wear a wedding dress. Your opinions please?

2007-02-26 13:17:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well i like this guy and he hangs out with me all the time and he is always telling me i have a nice body and alot of people tell me that i need to ask him out but he still has feeling for this girl who keeps turning him down so i dont know what to do please help me

2007-02-26 13:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by soccersam522 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not that much of a talker I mean I'll say somthing and try to carry on a coversation but I always fail to do that. But a lot of my friends talk to each other and other people and all that and they always seem to keep a conversation going. So whats the secret? Its been freakin me out because last year I could do all that but now this year meaning school year I can't. This year a lot of the kids I talked too stayed back or moved.

2007-02-26 13:16:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 19 years old and a senior in High School about ready to graduate. I have a fiancee that I live with. I left my mom's house because she was too abusive. I moved in with my best friend and she turned me into something I really didn't want to be (a druggie) I really didn't want to be that type of person so I thought it was best to get out of there. So, my boyfriend told me I could come and stay with him and his dad, his grandma, and his cousin. I've been living here for the past 9 months and we're engaged to be married. You see, the reason I'm asking this question is because I've been around babies my whole life. I watched them grow up and I helped raised some of them and I really want a baby. I love to take care of them and I love to watch them grow up and become young adults. My family keeps asking me when is there gonna be another addition to the family and I keep telling when they least expect it. But the truth is I don't know. I really want a baby. What do you think will be best?

2007-02-26 13:16:17 · 20 answers · asked by crystlehart05_06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend ( that ive known since Pre-K)has a crush on me but i dont no how to tell him im taken and that we will most likely stay that way for a long time

2007-02-26 13:16:08 · 3 answers · asked by soccerstar101 1 in Friends