The guy I thought was the nicest guy I'd ever know has turned into biggest jerk I've ever known and I'm wondering why. Maybe the nice guy was all an act or he decided he needed to be nice like that to get me to like him? And now rather than tell me goodbye he acts like this so I'll tell him to get lost?
Do guys do this alot? Is it because they don't have the nerve to break up with the girl or they don't want to hurt the girl? Do they think it is easier for the girl if they are such a jerk the girl starts to hate them?
2007-02-26 13:22:39 · 9 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, I have been known to be a jerk to make a girl leave. Its a cowards way out, and I was young. But its just easier to have someone want to leave, than dealing with the guilt of totally breaking their heart.... Sad but true sometimes
2007-02-26 13:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by ucfmanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know some guys act that way, but over many years I find that some guys don't want the battle that they are sure will take place.That may be part the way she deals with things in general,
Life is a crapshoot.
2007-02-26 13:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such guys don't have the guts, and yeah, they don't want to hurt u by being upfront. They look for indirect ways out so they are not laden with *guilt*.
2007-02-26 13:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you! okey thats real even though it could have in basic terms began while he became into dating the different lady and that could desire to be why they broke up hes seeing you in yet otherwise and is not any longer advantageous what to do. So the real is question do you like him that way or is he in basic terms a chum?
2016-10-02 01:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason most guys do that is because most guys dont like to break up with girls because they dont like to hurt the girls feelings guys usually only do that when they dont want the person to change because they broke up with that girl!
2007-02-26 13:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tevin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this keeps us froming looking stupid but in the process it does. See we have the voice in our head that says she doesn't like you, she'll just laugh if you tell her you want to move on. So we being male find alternative solutions, which crash and burn in our face......
2007-02-26 13:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Theoretically Speaking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't worry ... there not all like that, and the one's that are usually grow out of it in their late 20's.
2007-02-26 13:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not the type that like confrontation.
2007-02-26 13:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how odd, i suggest that you ignore him from now on
2007-02-26 13:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋