Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

I think this girl may like but im not sure but here best friend likes me alot I dont like her best friend i like her but how can i tell. I see here staring at me during class She laughs at my jokes and she gets shy when i talk to her and sit next to her doing baskeball games. we talk alot me and her best friend and she thinks that I like her but i dont but what she doesnt know its about her and she seems really shy.

2007-02-10 14:52:28 · 9 answers · asked by tanktank 1 in Singles & Dating

what did he say? and how did you feel afterwards??

2007-02-10 14:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men seem to want the ' whole package ' . Are you more interested in a woman who is attractive with a beautiful soul or a woman that you find attractive and you ache to have sex with her very soon in the dating scenerio ?

A woman is found to be attractive, has a beautiful soul, interesting, fun to be with . . . Yet, so many blow it by seeking to have sex with her too soon. Then he goes around wondering...Where can I find a woman of my dreams. . . him not realizing she was right there in front of him and he did'nt nuture coming to know her soulfully, respectfully as he kept encouraging the sharing of sex...so she parted ways with him and walked. If he had ' behaved ' himself, he would have that woman with the beautiful soul that would be joyed to share in a sexual relationship...when the time was more right.

Why do guys have a great woman right in front of them and mess up the developing of a relationship by keep encouraging to have sex after only a few or several dates ?

2007-02-10 14:50:55 · 20 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

last year my boyfriend made stupid decisions and did some stupid things. I knew about these before dating him, and in doing so I knew what I could be getting myself into. However, he's clean now, and he's so respectful and sweet, and nice to me. My mom just found out about his past: sex, drugs, blah blah lah. She doesnt know we're dating, and she's forbidden me to. what do i do?I know what I'm doing, and he knows my boundaries and morals and has never tried to push them. It bothers me that she thinks im a naive 13 year old or something. I like him so much, i want to say i love him. ill do anything to make 'us' work

2007-02-10 14:50:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ericka 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to locate my estranged husband so I can get my divorace done but don't have a clue where he is. I do however have his socialsecurity#. If anyone knows how to locate someone please let me know I want to move on and have my name back.

2007-02-10 14:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by sweetangel0613 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy and his daughter have moved in. Yay! But she completely ignores me, like I have no authority over her. She's 16, and fairly mature for her age, but still does nothing I ask of her. She won't lift a finger to help around the house, sits in her caravan (which she had to have because the room in the house that was hers was too small for the poor dear), and does nothing, expects me to feed the calf she had to have, and the horse she had to have but now never goes near. I've tried to be her friend, helping her out, teaching her to cook etc, buying her the clothes she needed which my man's ex would never let her have, talking her dad into letting her have a mobile phone. And yet simple requests like "please leave the drinking glasses inside so they don't get broken" are ignored and treated with scorn. She comments on me when I argue with her dad, and has abused me because I wouldn't lend her MY camera. What can I do?

2007-02-10 14:49:52 · 11 answers · asked by CheeseFest 2 in Family

My wife and I are having real problems and after 14 years I'm not going to give up that easy. Dose anyone know of a free service that can help me understand things better.

2007-02-10 14:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by SA41TX 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We'll be getting married on the 28th of July and we don't need gifts. However, not having a great deal of money we could use assistance on a downpayment for a house. Any ideas how we could address that? Just sending out regular cards but only having a fund set up on our wedding web site and not being registered at any stores for gifts?

2007-02-10 14:49:39 · 21 answers · asked by Locke15 2 in Weddings

hi i like a girl who is younger then me,I never felt love before, but now i have, now ive seen her, but people say shes too young for me,how young is to young for a 20 year old boy, dont worrie she not a kid, plz help me

2007-02-10 14:48:47 · 56 answers · asked by me n you 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 14:48:40 · 15 answers · asked by ABY_LSU 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My little sister acts like my parent. Tells me what to do - wash the dishes, get the clothes from the dryer. If I complain, she tells my parents and I have to do it anyway. I have told them how this makes me feel, and she doesn't listen ( she says she does but she really doesn't). What can I do? Tonight I said that some friends were coming over and she got mad. I told her that it was my house too, not just hers and that she's not mom or dad. What can I do about this? Talking doesn't seem to be getting through. She acts like the bigger sister ( a teacher at our school even picked up on it). But I am! I'm three years older than she is. It's so frustrating!

2007-02-10 14:48:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I both work. I am happy with this, and am more than happy to contribute to our finances and towards our future. But I am not my husbands only wife. His other wife does not work and does not contribute anything. She is not even in this country, but we are responsible for her bills. She has 2 kids by my husband and they are both in school. She says she cannot work becasue of the kids, but they are in school for 8 hours a day and she sits at home when they are there. All of the money my husband and I do not spend on bills goes to her, so we are not able to save money towards our future. I have spoken to my husband about this, but when he speaks with her, she says it is her only job as a Muslim woman to stay home and raise the kids. I am a Muslim woman and I work along side my husband with no problems. I cannot even have a child because we have no money since she takes it all. We send her my whole paycheck every month.

My question is, who is right in this situation?

2007-02-10 14:47:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my aunt is such a *****!!!to put it in the nicest way.When I have the smallest disagreement with my parents shes on my case.Yelling at me and making me feel guilty for nothing.She says shes religous but does being religous mean allowing her sons and their friends to stay up late and get drunk all night long till dawn?I think not.Shes a retired teacher now and lemme tell you a little something about her career.She worked at my middle school for almost 10 years and when I was going to 4th grade(middle school),she moved to another district.and just retired.her excuse was"money is the problem.In 5th grade she took me to get a haircut cause my parents were busy and while we were waiting all she did was talk about how bad I am in school and how bad of a son I am.I am in 8th grade now and am sick of her hypocritical ways.hypothetically saying,could I protest outside her property and post signs saying shes a hypocrite?just wondering how far I can take this.Thanks

P.S.My parents wont help me

2007-02-10 14:47:01 · 5 answers · asked by Aces747 2 in Family

My daughter is a very smart girl, and we have financial trouble at times, and I am always trying to pinch pennies, but whenever I spend money, like today upgrading my cell phone after 2 years, my daughter says WHY are you spending money, she does this all the time, and I get onto her, is there a good come back, because it makes me VERY angry that she does this...

2007-02-10 14:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by whattheheck 4 in Family

2007-02-10 14:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by Eagle Pilot 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl in my highschool that i really like but Im afraid that she likes someone else. I don't really know for sure. So I want to act fast before the other guy swooops in. I really haven't talked to this girl so i think ill need some advice to start a conversation with her. V Day is ssoon so do you think i should do anything for her(send flowers etc.). I've liked this girl for a while but never made a move or an attempt. I'm not really an asertive person but I think in this cercumstance I am going to have to be. Your Thoughts Please.

2007-02-10 14:44:41 · 9 answers · asked by John J 1 in Singles & Dating

When you have a fight with your husband, wife, partner or friend do you tend to just let it go in seconds, minutes or weeks later. I can have a strong disagreement with my hubby and a second or two later forget all about it. My friend on the other hand would not speak to hers for weeks and weeks. What about you?

2007-02-10 14:42:51 · 18 answers · asked by mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and dont just say "no" tell me what you honestly think! becuz im very unhappy with my body, especially my hips :/ WHAT DO U THINK?

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and yeah I know i need to clean up muh room!

2007-02-10 14:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He's my friend's friend and also my cousin...My friend and him sometimes talk about me...my cousin lots of times has asked her "Does Karen loves me alot?" (and ofcourse my friend hates this question!)and sometines my friend answers him madly ''I don't know" then my cousin stop talking and go thinking...
when we see eachother at a party he smiles at me (with a little shy)...or when I'm talking about a boy he suddenly pay attention to me....I don't like him ,but I think he loves me.by the way we were child hood friends before,but not now....Is he in love with me or not?

2007-02-10 14:42:32 · 16 answers · asked by Provirus 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 13 yrs. and always had a great sex life, but lately he has been going to bed early and not been interested in making love. He holds me and assures me its only because hes tired or he says it is because I never give him the chance to want me FIRST. Are there others out there with this same problem? and does it last a long time?

2007-02-10 14:42:05 · 17 answers · asked by HappyGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like thie boy people go crazy i pass him note i said can you get with me he said i m with my neighbor i know he is a joking he just don t like me and lunch he was other girl my best friend got with him he draw a cute drawing what should i do? i want him? his name is edgar

2007-02-10 14:41:39 · 6 answers · asked by c_h_h_a 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u get rid of *** after sex? i mean so it won't get on ur underwear?

2007-02-10 14:41:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 14:41:22 · 6 answers · asked by kyle k 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in love with my bf and he loves me to we talk all the time on the phone but in person i get so nurvis around him what should i do? HELP

2007-02-10 14:40:47 · 2 answers · asked by kimmy 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy i like alot told me he liked me alot too...and then we kissed last night! but he flirts with this one girl alot!! do u think he likes me or her??

2007-02-10 14:40:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are in year 9 by the way...

2007-02-10 14:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by ddzaszcxascs 2 in Singles & Dating

That happened to me a I want to get back with my baby.He is is so hot and sexy.He is my best friends brother I am in 5th grade and he is in 7th grade and his girl friend is in 6th.He is going to get back together with me and go out with his other girl friend but she doesn't know,his other girl friend.Wat should I do?Um....he is 12 and she is 12 she got held back in 5th grade.and I am 10 years old.So what do you guys and girls think I should do?

2007-02-10 14:39:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If my crush says "no" when i ask him out WHAT SOULD I DO??

2007-02-10 14:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in a girl? cause most guys like just like looks...is that true?

2007-02-10 14:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with this girl 600 miles away. She told me she loved me. She said that she wasn't in love with me and didn't love me like I love her. Is there anything I can do to change her feelings about me? I mean, I told her she was beautiful, that I loved her, that she was amazing. I wrote poems for her and did everything sweet and nice that I could think of. I even bought her a ring that I've yet to give to her. Did I do something wrong?

2007-02-10 14:38:30 · 17 answers · asked by Ducky 2 in Singles & Dating