and dont just say "no" tell me what you honestly think! becuz im very unhappy with my body, especially my hips :/ WHAT DO U THINK?
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and yeah I know i need to clean up muh room!
2007-02-10 14:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is this a ploy to get attention??
2007-02-10 15:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darlin pretty girl......you are absolutely perfect and I am extremely envious!!
You know...hating something about your body is just not okay. Like everyone says...if you lost any more weight...you would look sickly and anorexic.
But us telling you you are fine...is not really going to help you. You must accept yourself as you are honeycakes. You need to put your hands on your hips and love your hips. Hating something only puts energy into your "big hips" (which they are NOT at all!!!!!!)...and you keep running with it and it escalates into an eating disorder...low self-esteem etc.
It may not make sense...but if you took your focus off your hips...and into something that you feel good about in your life...you would hopefully forget all about your distorted body image.
What do you love to do?? Is there anything you are passionate about? Are there others who need your help? This is what I am talking about.
Please...if you have curves...that is a GIFT from above. Your gorgeous body will carry you through life. You must feel you are a beautiful person inside.
Please consider getting a book on body image. There is something called "body dismorphic disorder"...which is that you hate something about your body so much it completely takes over your life....and the sad part is...you do not see what others do. You are a knock-out!!!!! Honestly. The disorder would make you feel like when you look in the mirror if you had a 30 inch waist for example...you would think it was 38 inches...that sort of thing.
Focus on what you want out of life...and not what you don't want. Be grateful for what you have...even if you don't feel like it...and love your body....even if you don't feel like it....soon your perceptions will change.
Give yourself a hug ok? I hope you find peace within.
Cheers.
2007-02-10 15:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by kallie m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really, truly believe that you DON'T need to lose weight. i would tell you if you did (i've done it many times in the past on yahoo). i think you've got a great figure and if you lost any more weight you'd start to look sick. be happy with the way you look. and having some hips is better than being built looking like a boy or a young girl. men love women with some curves!
2007-02-10 14:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, are you serious. The only thing you need to do is tone. Get those muscles going in your calves, abs, and a little definition in your arms and you will have to beat em off with a stick. I would get taeboamped or something like that ....a knockout.....
2007-02-10 15:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Luchiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to get your carpet cleaned before you think about loosing weight. Hygiene comes before weight loss. Get your carpet cleaned-it looks terrible!!!
2007-02-10 19:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are beautiful...I am not just saying this because I want you to feel better...There is no reason for you to lose weight...Lol and yes, you do need to clean up your room
2007-02-10 15:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kayle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that you need to lose weight?You look okay to me.Most men like a woman with curves and hips.Your not fat at all.
2007-02-10 15:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine!! Are you trying to become anorexic or something. I mean seriously there is absolutely nothing wrong with you no one comes perfect.
2007-02-10 15:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wearing too much clothes and limiting your poses too much for me to give an informed answer.
2007-02-10 14:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋