Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

2007-02-09 17:25:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?

2007-02-09 17:23:59 · 20 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and hes a sweetheart. how do itell him. but he sits near me in class would that be a promblem.HELP

2007-02-09 17:22:47 · 5 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell that you love someone, not just like them a lot?

2007-02-09 17:21:44 · 23 answers · asked by Randomperson 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure what's going on with him.. but he hasn't wanted any for a whole month. I have initiated it three times and he has 'finished' in like five minutes all three times. Other than that he only kisses me before work and that's it. He's not really acting any different otherwise, he's just not interested in bed. Now, he did start third shift recently and I don't really bother him through the week, but on friday and saturday nights he is wide awake and not tired and he still doesn't want to do anything- after the baby is asleep. I'm so stressed out about this, and when I mention to him that sex is an important part of a marriage (esp at 24) he says "you watch too damn much Oprah" and just blows me off. I'm scared our marriage is just falling apart and he's just not interested in me anymore. :( I've made us an appt with a marriage counselor for a few weeks from now, but what can I do to make the situation better right now? We used to have a great love life, and now it's just GONE.

2007-02-09 17:20:50 · 31 answers · asked by Dying inside 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 17:20:49 · 22 answers · asked by mida-mida 2 in Singles & Dating

what does this make u think of? remember...best answer gets 10 points! and im looking for something ummmm well you figure it out!

2007-02-09 17:20:39 · 4 answers · asked by curiousandhopefulsearchinglife 3 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that i sort of like. The thing is is shes one of my friends' sister. So one day we decided it would be funny to pretend like we were going out to make him mad. It was funny for awhile, then we told him that it was a joke. Problem is I actually do like her now, and she continues to flirt and joke around with me. She's sending all sorts of mixed messages, is she contuning pretending about her brother or could she legit like me. WHat should I do. BTW her brother now thinks its fine if we go out, he dosent find it to be a problem

2007-02-09 17:20:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Singles & Dating

so this birth i decidef to give her $600.so she pay what ever she like. for 27 birthday
today one of girlfriend, she took her out, her girlfriend she rent out a lamason , when to a dinner, ,, her girlfriend she spent $900 for my wife..... now i am think, is samething going on behide my back, or is normal this?

2007-02-09 17:19:17 · 8 answers · asked by krazysilk 1 in Singles & Dating

On of my best friends just moved to my city last year.While ive been living in this city for 7 years.Evrytime im we're at the mall people are always sayin hi to her.some of them ive known before she moved here run up to my friend and give her a hug while they just say hi to me. Both are parents barely let us go out much!
So i dont even know where she met all this people. my city is small so it seems like evry time where at the mall evryone knows evryone.at skool Evryone always hugs her and just say hi to me. Or some ppl say hi to her and nothin to me. Im not a loner i hav lots of friends in school. And five real close ones.Dis gurl is one. i get lots of hugs to but not like her.i aint mad at her.were real tight and i luv her to death.I just want to no how?
I know this isnt really a qeustion but i just need a place to store everthin and see if oder ppl are goin thru kind off the same thing.If you r can you pls answer this qeustion with ur story or even ways to help!thanx.luv ya guys!

2007-02-09 17:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by Bianca 2 in Friends

2007-02-09 17:18:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been fighting this long enough. I have been having serious problems with my ex and her drug dealing boyfriend moving in with my 10 & 5 yearl old kids. He has no job, no vehicle and been arrested last Febuary on 5 counts of drug charges and a firearm charge which he has not been to trial yet. She thinks he has straightened up and does'nt do any drugs anymore. I have been getting myself in trouble trying to explain to her the dangers of having this guy around with my kids present. I finally had to qiut handling this on my own. She will be getting papers served any day now, i am having a restraining order put on this guy from being around my kids, along with copies of his arrest and his drug charges and what they have found. This guy has lied to her about the drugs and they were not his, well it's all stated in the actual arrest papers of him admitting to the drugs and that they were his except the lortabs they found. I prayed she would wake up, I hope i did the right thing. $$$$$$

2007-02-09 17:17:55 · 16 answers · asked by take-it 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He will take benefits early.
He is one year older than me, but I made more money.
My yearly, estimate says, I will get more than him.

2007-02-09 17:17:20 · 3 answers · asked by jackpot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl, we talk as if we were best friends and people have backstabbed her and I have always been there for her and IDK what should I do, IDK if I should buy her a Valentines gift? Can you please tell me a really great gift to give, please and Thank-You

2007-02-09 17:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by thesubwayguy500 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 years old, and wear a size 10-12. Would you consider me fat? If you had no idea what I looked like, and read what i told you about my life, would you give me a chance?
And do you think it's always the truth that "beauty is on the inside"? Be brutally honest.

2007-02-09 17:16:36 · 11 answers · asked by zomgxbrie91 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was with my ex he was a c**t to put it politely&was cheating on me with his ex through most of our3year relationship(I found out towards the end)he threaten me all the time pushed me around(literally)because of this I became very close to his best friend who I though was very caring,kind&everything my ex wasn't.we ended becoming good friends&having an affair.I broke up with my ex&him.His friend ended up going to prison for rape he denied it&i believed him.But a part of me always had a small doubt over his innocence as I knew first hand how forceful he could be when it came to sex.For a while kept in contact with him,wrote all the time for just over a year until we started to fall out as I felt he was taking advantage of my vulnerability&kindness.I havent spoken to him now in over2year.My now fiancée knows what went on in my past.I received a letter from this guy the other day saying his being released.My fiancée wants me to write to him to say stay away&say I think his sick&I despise him.although I dont want to see him again Im not a mean person&hate hurting people feelings.my fiancée wants to read me letter when I send it!

2007-02-09 17:16:25 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-09 17:15:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"settle down" get married and have a family

2007-02-09 17:14:50 · 7 answers · asked by texastycoon 2 in Singles & Dating

I am wondering if there are loopholes in a relationship that allows others to infringe on feelings which the other person involuntarily cheat. Cheating has “get-out” or loopholes?

2007-02-09 17:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-09 17:12:52 · 4 answers · asked by swami_nath01 1 in Friends

theres a girl i really like, she does intense flirting with me, we talk on the phone a lot for long periods of time, be she ignores me a lot... she kissed me on the cheek once but shes changed since the day i told her i liked her and she responded I think your cute. Thats the spark notes version

i need help

2007-02-09 17:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by brillohead 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 17:12:03 · 7 answers · asked by swami_nath01 1 in Friends

I have a girlfriend who has been really depressed for a while. She doesn't think wshee looks good, when in fact she looksgreat, and she had some boy problems like half a year ago and she's still lingering on it. They only went out for like two months too. She doesn't even like the guy anymore, she's just still lingering on it. I want to help her but everytime I ask about it it's something new and I have to argue for a while to find out what it is. It makes me feel like she thinks she's more jaded than me and I'm not worthy to hear her problems. Any advice? For any questions regarding this just e-mail the questions to my other e-mail, matttheepimp@yaho.com and I'll try to get in contact with you. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-09 17:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 17:11:05 · 1 answers · asked by dreiko 1 in Singles & Dating

So here is the situation, My soon to be ex wife moved 100 miles away from me with our 2 boys (3 1/2 and 1 1/2). We have joint custody of the kids and I see them 3 weekends per month. I also pay her $1000.00 in court ordered child support. She also got the Lincoln Navigator in the separation (gas guzzler) We had an arraignment that we meet half way to drop off and pick up the kids. Now she said that she spends $100 on gas just to drop off and pick up the kids so she said that if I want to see them I need to meet her closer to her new house. The site that she wants to meet at is 17 miles from her house and 83 from mine. While I miss and love my kids very much and look forward to our time together I do feel that this is unfair. This weekend will be the first weekend for this type of arraignment. Now I can agree to go pick them up and then say if she wants them back she needs to drive 80 miles and get them. Or do I bite the bullet and agree to her terms?

Thanks in advance.

2007-02-09 17:10:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it is like, when i am with my friend, guys come but just want to talk to her and im like unnoticed or something

2007-02-09 17:10:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok. It's Friday night. When the cute guy left work tonight, he said...
See ya Sunday.
Does that mean MORE than that he will be seeing me Sunday?
Is that the way ppl tell you they will miss you until Sunday?
He always tells me exactly what day he will see me again. I've never heard him say it to anyone else.
Also last night , he told me I matter more to him than Miss Running-Behind-Him-All-Damned-Day matters. She monolpoizes his day, but he asks me to stop by his work station on my way home. Tonight he left before me and stopped off to see me.
Is he "digging" me or are we just friends?
Read it for me! Please!

2007-02-09 17:09:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i started talking to this guy january 23rd. well there was another girl on his my space. i started leaving comment for him and she started competeing with me...well need less to say the girl and i had a chat and i found out the day before he left her to start talking to me.. he told her he loved her (i have proof) .. and i asked him today if he still talks to her he says some times but not very often... what do i do? i have been screwed over to many times. he told me he really didnt love her.... but how do i really know that.. he is in iraq and comes home in 3 weeks and is coming to see me... should i be aware . and dont let my gaurd down or should i give it a chance. so dose him still talking to her means he really dose love her or am i just a fool for believeing..

2007-02-09 17:09:43 · 3 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this one guy that I've known for about 2 years now [almost 3] and we're really close friends. I want to tell him, but the thing is, I know for a fact that he likes my friend, and my friend likes him back because they both trust me and they talk about each other all the time to me.
He's a really great guy. He's super cute, extremely nice, an amazing musician, smart [but doesn't try], and athletic. The thing is, he's a tad bit emo(ish) and has had a hard life.

What should I do?

~Tell him I like him.

~Don't tell him and be happy for the both of them because they're both my friends.

~Or anything else you guys can think of.

Please help.

<333

2007-02-09 17:09:38 · 11 answers · asked by lilazngrl36 2 in Friends

2007-02-09 17:08:31 · 4 answers · asked by Riley L 1 in Marriage & Divorce