I am wondering if there are loopholes in a relationship that allows others to infringe on feelings which the other person involuntarily cheat. Cheating has “get-out” or loopholes?
2007-02-09 17:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, cheating is cheating; unless you have an open relationship and you both openly date other people. Which I don't understand. But, if you consider yourself a couple, and are exclusive, then no way. Cheating in any form, is still cheating.
2007-02-09 17:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Involuntary cheating? What does that mean? How is that possible outside of rape or coercive actions?
Also, if a person is cheating on you, that does not give you any excuse to be abusive in any way. Hurt feelings are normal and saying what you need to say for closure is also normal. However, you should either forgive the person and move on or break up with the person and move on. It wouldn't say good things about you if you stayed with the person who cheated on you and then you perpetually used that as an excuse to bully them or further put distance between you. Healing requires forgiveness and time. Trust obviously has to be earned back if that is even possible (only you would know), yet you aren't going to motivate the cheating partner to stay faithful or stay with you by making them feel like the situation would have been better off if you had just both gone your separate ways after the incident.
2007-02-09 17:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of there are any loopholes. the rule is: Behaving in a fashion with somebody which you does no longer behave in in the adventure that your companion became good there, then you are cheating. occasion: in case you're only being truly flirty and having a stable time with a woman, yet no longer something actual, this is cheating except you will act the precise comparable way in the adventure that your lady pal became status next to you. in case you have some thing to conceal you're cheating.
2016-09-28 22:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you cheat in the first place? It also depend on the definition between the two people in the relationship.
2007-02-09 17:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question at all. Some couples have "open" relationships and allow the other to cheat but its not really cheating because they have agreed to it in advance...like swingers but otherwise it is cheating.
2007-02-09 17:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no. You have to be a man and accept responsibility for your actions or else not cheat.
2007-02-09 17:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating on someone you actually love will make your life misrable.
you will regret it for the rest of your entire life,
i highly recomend you be completely honest,
you lose the one, and you will not value your own life very much.
2007-02-09 17:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What?
cheating is cheating
2007-02-09 17:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alls fair in love & war.
2007-02-09 21:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever works for you and the other person!
2007-02-09 17:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋