it is like, when i am with my friend, guys come but just want to talk to her and im like unnoticed or something
2007-02-09 17:10:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is just going along with it (taking to the guys), but still i feel kind of sad, cuz of that
2007-02-09 17:17:24 · update #1
Aww...yeah, that's sad. Don't you worry about it. Sooner you'll get the attention you want. Hey, you shouldn't care anyways. It's better for you to be yourself than to be someone you're not, right? From all you know, those guys might be a buch of horn-dogs, just trying to get with your homegirl for her figure. I'm sure you would want to wait later to meet a gentleman, than getting a wave of jerk-offs following you everyday, right? So, don't be sad or envious of your homegirl, ok? You just be you. Then you'll find a guy that likes you for who you are. Just go out there and smile. Good Luck!
2007-02-09 17:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem in high school. My best friend was beautiful, inside and out and she was always getting dates. I on the other hand wasn't. To this day I'm still not sure why. But I got over it and didn't let it bother me. I was confident about who I was and that's all that mattered to me at the time.
2007-02-10 01:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my friends. In fact, not only with them and guys, but they began to not even include me on things! So you know what? I broke away, and did my own thing. To this day, I still can grab a dude's attention. How 'bout that?!?
2007-02-10 01:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mudbug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that situation, and it definitely hurts. But, you have to realize that in life, there is always going to be someone prettier or nicer or luckier than you, and also someone less pretty, less attractive or less lucky. Just be yourself and bring your own charm to the conversations when you are with them. By being genuine you project self-confidence and will feel more attractive.
2007-02-10 02:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by wildrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg im going thru the samething! except thers two of em. i luv my friends and they are the best ppl in the world!! but i hate how the guys are drawn to them. everytime im out with them and i get bck home i get this sad feeling in the bottom of my heart. the only times the guys tlk to me is to ask me one of my friends names or to help them get with one of them i hate. Like why cant they try to get with me!!!! wow its gay and i hate it. But just hang in there we'll make it together! and the guys will soon realize what their missin!!:P much luv
2007-02-10 01:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bianca 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if she's dressed sluttier than thats her problem..but maybe you shud talk when the boys come and just hav a little conversation with everyone..
2007-02-10 01:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by bjonas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... that would be wrong whats you're friend doing about it?
Don't worry about it there's someone for all of us! (I still think so for the most of my life!) ^_^
2007-02-10 01:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SUCK IT UP! So, my really good friend said this about me. I'm nice and pretty and fun, but freakin' A! She's prettier, but she has a crappy attitude, and choose to pout because the guys hit on me instead. Because I flirted with them. Because I put myself out there. If the guys ignore you, its YOUR fault. :)
2007-02-10 01:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋