I been fighting this long enough. I have been having serious problems with my ex and her drug dealing boyfriend moving in with my 10 & 5 yearl old kids. He has no job, no vehicle and been arrested last Febuary on 5 counts of drug charges and a firearm charge which he has not been to trial yet. She thinks he has straightened up and does'nt do any drugs anymore. I have been getting myself in trouble trying to explain to her the dangers of having this guy around with my kids present. I finally had to qiut handling this on my own. She will be getting papers served any day now, i am having a restraining order put on this guy from being around my kids, along with copies of his arrest and his drug charges and what they have found. This guy has lied to her about the drugs and they were not his, well it's all stated in the actual arrest papers of him admitting to the drugs and that they were his except the lortabs they found. I prayed she would wake up, I hope i did the right thing. $$$$$$
2007-02-09 17:17:55 · 16 answers · asked by take-it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have done the same thing. When you have children, you have to do everything to protect them from everything that is harmful. With anyone who does drugs, you never know what is going to happen today or tomorrow, so being over protective is in the best interest of your children. My good friend was in a situation with a man who was addicted to heavy drugs, he said he recovered. 2 months later, he molested her young daughter, because he was going through a strange withdrawal. So if putting a order of protection against him to stay away from your kids is something that will help, by all means, do whatever it takes to protect your babies! Always put their safety first.
2007-02-09 17:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by sneekygirl69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times you have to stop being the nice guy and do what is best for your loved ones. I would have done the same thing. While I have not been in the same situation I have been through a similar scenario. It is never easy to take the pro active stance in these situations. You dd the right thing. You are a good Dad doing what is best for his kids. You ex wife is a fool for letting you get away. There should be more men like you in the world.
2007-02-10 07:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by kandisue76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Women in love are often blind ( I say this as a female.) She sounds like she needs a wake up call if she is letting a drug dealer hang with her kids.
2007-02-09 17:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by DDLynn l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are my hero!!!! I have seen to many men not stand up for their rights or those of their children. It doesn't sound like you are jealous. Just a concerned dad doing the RIGHT thing for his kids. Someday your kids will thank you even if your ex never gets it. I would do the same thing if I were you. Bravo!!! Don't give up.
2007-02-09 17:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you done the right thing for the kids. But what you should of done or need to do is file for custody of the kids. They will be safer with you and she could have the visits. GO DAD! I like that in you. a man who will fight for his kids.
2007-02-09 17:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GO GUY! Take this to court and get your kids if you can. This is the kind of garbage that puts kids at risk, and if your ex wants to be around it, fine, but not your kids. Yeah, you're going to spend mucho $$$$$, but hey, they're worth it.
Good luck, God Bless, and keep the faith.
2007-02-09 17:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the luck of meeting my best friend in the world in a park when I was just one year old. I'm a boy and she is a girl. Since we grew up together, I naturally was not afraid of getting "cooties" and many of my friends ended up being girls throughout kindergarten to fourth grade before I moved. Throughout middle school girls became a little more "forbidden" when boyfriends and girlfriends started popping up, and the rest of us stuck with our own genders. Now it is half and half, though I must say most of my "real" friends are girls.
2016-05-24 21:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Make your ex wife understand that you are just protecting your kids. If for any reason she feels that her boyfriend is now clean, let the law tell you that in due process.
2007-02-09 17:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You needed to grow a pair and you did. NOW lets see if you follow through. and KEEP following through. That fuckjob has no business around your kids AND NIETHER DOES THE GUY...good job.
2007-02-09 17:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy Bi Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never doubt that you haven't done the right thing. You need to get your kids away from those people.
2007-02-09 17:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋