On of my best friends just moved to my city last year.While ive been living in this city for 7 years.Evrytime im we're at the mall people are always sayin hi to her.some of them ive known before she moved here run up to my friend and give her a hug while they just say hi to me. Both are parents barely let us go out much!
So i dont even know where she met all this people. my city is small so it seems like evry time where at the mall evryone knows evryone.at skool Evryone always hugs her and just say hi to me. Or some ppl say hi to her and nothin to me. Im not a loner i hav lots of friends in school. And five real close ones.Dis gurl is one. i get lots of hugs to but not like her.i aint mad at her.were real tight and i luv her to death.I just want to no how?
I know this isnt really a qeustion but i just need a place to store everthin and see if oder ppl are goin thru kind off the same thing.If you r can you pls answer this qeustion with ur story or even ways to help!thanx.luv ya guys!
2007-02-09 17:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by Bianca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be patient. She is your friend after all. What is happening is what is called novelty. It will wear off sooner or later.
2007-02-09 17:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Aadel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel left out she's your best friend.
People probably go up to here because she is very open and carefree.
Some people are just more open with their feelings (you can just see and feel it when they hug you , like they haven't seen you in a long time and others hug you for the sake of it) She is probably like the first one I described.
Some people are introverts and others are extroverts (both are as affectionate but you can feel the difference) It's like laughing at a joke. Some have a good laugh and others it sounds like it comes right from the belly)
Some people pat a dog and say he's so cute others will roll around on the floor with them. It's just their nature.
Relax and stop worrying, If we all acted the same way it would be a dull place.
2007-02-10 02:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by harvsterh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing to worry about :P
Even if they don't hug you, and yall are cool,
just hug them first. Make an attempt to show them
that, you're just being friendly :P
They'll return the favor back, hopefully.
2007-02-10 01:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by inevitable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a frewn who knew some girls that i knew before her and now they all like her better. well i got over it because i started talking to the other people that she knew and i also became more talkative so i won't feel so left out. so maybe you shud try that if i doesnt work i'm very sorry.
2007-02-10 01:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by bjonas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u know u can jus tell ur friend how u feel and she`ll understand. just be cool and make more friends!
2007-02-10 01:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋