Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

Recently, I snooped in my best friends personal stuff, and read something I shouldn't have. I found out that she has had sex, something we both promised we would never do until we are married. Now I am feeling miserable, because she has gone and done it and never even told me, and I am kind of jealous too. Do I have the right to feel this way? I know what I did was wrong, what should I do?

2007-02-08 05:56:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to do any damage to my relationship with my son. However he has fallen for a girl who seems to find her friendships with others far more important than his feelings. She openly admits that most of her friends are bi. My son is straight and I don't want to see him have to deal with more crap in a relationship than he has to. Not to mention, possible health risks. He is being used, oh she may like him but when his feelings are weighed against what she wants to do at the moment (gallivant around with her fiends more than him) his importance gets put on the back burner. My gut feeling is that if she were not bi, she would not be as interested in spending more time with women than my son. I think he is spending too much money and energy on someone who is taking advantage of his catering to her and her girlfriends. Needless to say, it is his first relationship he just started driving and has become a taxi cab en route from delivery to pick up between what is supposed to be his girlfriend and what seems to be her girlfriends.

2007-02-08 05:56:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im hanging out with a guy friend i wanna kno what to make bc thats too much to ask of him...dessert too if u got ideas.

2007-02-08 05:55:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:55:13 · 17 answers · asked by larene_lim 1 in Weddings

i have a problem i am like bascially sprung over this guy and he says that he is just wanting sex and i am not that kind of girl at all but there is something that tells me that i just have to be with him so what would yall do if you were me

2007-02-08 05:55:10 · 21 answers · asked by octashiathamoneymaker 2 in Singles & Dating

Help me please?
My husband said he didn’t want to make love to me last night and then I found him playing with him self and he said it was the first time in a long time he did it. But to day I found a play boy sales catalog hidden in his things. So my question is why would he tell me no then go at him self and also should I leave the catalog and not tell him that I found it or should I be mad at him?

2007-02-08 05:54:17 · 21 answers · asked by sexy mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why does it seem that most guys that i've known or dated are jackasses?? where are the nice guys that 'finishes last'? i hardly doubt any exist in this university, but i think i'm going to end up being a old maid if i can't find a decent guy.

there are good guys out there right????

2007-02-08 05:53:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been dating three months, and i think i want to have sex with him but i dont know if it's a good gift or not?

2007-02-08 05:52:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:52:16 · 37 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 10 yrs, and in the past 3 years we bought a house. in the last year we've become foster parents to 3 kids, soon to be licensed. My spouse now want out of the marriage, and may not want to parent anymore either. How do we/I get out of a 30 yr refinanced mortgage, if he's not ready to sell the home. If I move with the kids, what do I stand to lose. He says he want to be alone now. We can't continue much longer like this.

2007-02-08 05:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by Lynda J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I asked him about it, he said that he didn't look at them and he'd take them off if it bothered me. Hell yes it bothered me, I was in tears because of it. He's always talking about his ex and I'm always comparing myself to her and losing a battle in my mind. Like I tell myself she was probably much better in bed than I am. I know that she did some stuff that I don't feel comfortable with. So I feel really inferior.

I felt really bad that I even had to ask him to take those pictures off, you know? Shouldn't he have done it himself once they broke up?

It's weird because it doesn't even bother me that there's other porn and stuff on his computer too.

& I wasn't sneaking around either, he was browsing through files one day and I was looking over his shoulder and the thumbnails went by.

2007-02-08 05:51:40 · 1 answers · asked by cereusthequeen 2 in Singles & Dating

When my hubby and I got married he was a virgin and I was not. He told me that while he was growing up he thought of sex as dirty. This stuck with me. My hubby also says that sex is not as important to him as it it to other men. I have never had this problem with anyone from my past and it bothers me to have this problem with the man I am married to now! He says that he doesn't think that I am dirty. I think I might be having trouble intergrating sex and love. He seems more focused on kissing, touching, hugging and I just want to "get it on". This is creating many problems because we haven't done anything in 6 months. I don't want him touching me because I automatically think of sex and it bugs me because I know that he is not. I hope this makes sense and someone can help.

*****serious answers only - all others will be reported as abuse - thank you****

2007-02-08 05:50:37 · 35 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many of women stay with their good-for-nothing husband just because they are afraid that they won't get any better and do not want to die single?

2007-02-08 05:49:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 05:48:53 · 3 answers · asked by softylegs 1 in Weddings

What are some benefits of getting married and having kids in your late 20's? I come from a small town where the divorce rate is very low (Christianity is major religion) and everyone gets married very young. I'll graduate college next year but my boyfriend will go on to law school so we'll have to wait til he gets done, etc. to have children. (getting married sometime between now & then). Since most of my hs friends are already married and having these cute families, I'm having difficulty remembering why I didn't want to do that. Can anyone help? Thanks.

2007-02-08 05:48:41 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Marriage & Divorce

am 24. what can happen when i'll be having sex for the first time? what problem can i overcome. Tell me?

2007-02-08 05:48:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 11mo.

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2007-02-08 05:47:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Current girl friend with whom i stay 90% of the week with lives in an apartment with her ex-husband and his gay "friend". No body wants to terminate the lease cause it is too much of a hassle. She doesn't want to cause she doesn't want to hurt anyones feelings(she is way too nice). while he doesn't want to cause he is too lazy to go find another place. of course in the dc area rent isn't that cheap either. what to do!?!?!?!?

2007-02-08 05:47:19 · 3 answers · asked by motorockfo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to find Pride Bedding! I have no clue where to look, Maybe a catalog? Or a website? Any help would be great! Thank You

2007-02-08 05:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by spidy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:46:24 · 12 answers · asked by Wendellp 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I Keep having Dreams that my husband is cheating on me.I know he is not.The only thing he dose is go to work and home.What is makeing me dream this..Please help..

2007-02-08 05:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is this normal?

2007-02-08 05:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy im hanging out with him for more than two years now. we used to meet now and then. but recently we relationship got bet changed. well we were friends at the beggining. after little while we got llittle more closer. he kisses me when we meet and we cuddle all the. he's really cute guy. over the time i start having feeling for him but not sure how should i express it. once i asked him whats our relationship, because we are just not friends because we kiss, cuddle, and me touch me everywhere, we replied he's not sure about the relationship, this was 4 months ago when i asked. we still kept meeting. i dont want waste anymore time now, becasue its going beond the friendship, what should i do now, should i ask him what he think about the realtionship again? or how i should tell him that i really love him? or is he jus using me for the time being

2007-02-08 05:46:05 · 3 answers · asked by vancouver_jenna12345 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:45:58 · 3 answers · asked by jess p 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently told a guy that i liked him, and he was really nice about it. didn't turn me down but didn't exactly give me a positive answer either. i only see him once or twice a month, but when i do, i forget everything i wanted to say, so we usually only talk a few minutes. i don't know if he wants to talk to me or not because sometimes he'll come up to me and sometimes he won't. when i call, he'll talk to me, but i always lose my words. i don't know what he is thinking, if he's even thinking at all. and i'm wondering IF i should ask him out, HOW i should ask him out, and if i do, i don't know what to do. What should i do?

2007-02-08 05:45:48 · 8 answers · asked by PennyLoves 2 in Singles & Dating

I had sex with my girl friend ,she was saying i am a virgin but she didnt bleed .when i ask her she said you didnt go anywhere .I must say she is right i didnt put it full inside ,i need to know how far should i go to hit the target !!!!???

2007-02-08 05:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by sina j 1 in Singles & Dating

Women are like cars: we all want a Ferrari, sometimes want a pickup truck, and end up with a station wagon.lol

2007-02-08 05:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 05:44:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a man who is 63 years old, going on 64 in March. I have been divorced for almost 11 years. I love the Lord with all my heart but I am also very much alone and I don't want to feel that way anymore. In Genesis He says that we are not be alone, to have a companion. The dating scene is not for me, too old, but there must be somebody out there as a companion and a friend and a good relationship. I am retired, disables from past illnesses, but I get along just fine. I walked with the help of a caning, rheumatoid arthritis to be exact. I also do not have a car but that didn't matter because I get around just fine. I'm not one of wealth but I get along with what I've got. I have a great smile and a loving heart and a wry sense of humor. I would love and cherish the woman of honor. I would hold her and love her more than life itself. Age is not a factor, it is what that in the heart that counts. There must be somebody out there that has the same situation as I do, lonely!

2007-02-08 05:44:38 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I called one of those gentleman's 900 numbers and was enjoying a pleasant conversation until I said something to upset the beautiful lady on the other end of the phone. Anyway, she hung up on me but I had 1/2 hour coming to me & only received 12 minutes. Got the phone bill today and was charged for 30 minutes.

I called the number to complain but all that happened is I got another lady who thought I was seeking a "good time" conversation. I assume I'll be charged additionally for another 30 minutes now.

What should I do? How do I get in touch with the managers at this 900 number without going through the beautiful girls assuming I'm looking for a "good time" conversation?

2007-02-08 05:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating