Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

2007-02-08 06:21:53 · 11 answers · asked by aleshabooboo 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like the guy but his co-workers are real losers and he's like best friends with them. I don't know anything about his real friends but it's scary that he gets along so well these losers. Would you still pursue or should I take it as an indication that he's a loser too?

2007-02-08 06:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up last april, two weeks later i got with my current bf. Its been impossible for me to still talk to my ex and keep telling myself i dont love him anymore so i stopped talking to him thinking i would stop thinking of him and out of respect for my current bf, who i really do love, but i aparently still love my ex too. he recently contacted me to tell me he understands (finally) that its over and that i wont get back with him and that he really wishes me the best. It was a very genuine and sincere letter and it practically gave me a panic attack to think that he's finally moved on and that it really is final (even though it has been for quite some time). I still think about him way more than i should and maybe i should let him go but i just can't. why can't i? have i been lying to myself trying to be happy with my new bf? unngggghh. any advice?

2007-02-08 06:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by 123456 1 in Singles & Dating

When the boy reaches manhood, how does he learn to be a man?

This would be the case for my husband. His father was a horrible role model or no role model at all.

My husband is financially responsible, but he is absolutely clueless about how to take care of a home or how to take care of a relationship or be an equal partner in a relationship. There is a gross imbalance in the distribution of responsibilities when it comes to running the home and maintaining the physical house itself. I feel I am ALWAYS working while he is mostly playing (computer or outside sports). The result is, I am exhausted, resentful, not much fun to be around and becoming bitter. He is like a happy-go-lucky 15-year-old (unless, of course, I'm bitching at him). I love him very much and I know that he genuinely loves me back, but I am certainly not equipped (no pun intended) to teach him how to be a man. Are there any men's groups out there that maybe address this issue?

2007-02-08 06:21:19 · 4 answers · asked by Independence 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do women think im lying when I advertise on personal ads they think there are no men out there that are goo Im a single guy who treat women with respect who is a true gentleman most women when I advertise think Im gay because Im a sensitive man who shows affection im lookin for a single woman who wants a man who treats them right not like a playa because I am Mr right

2007-02-08 06:21:01 · 9 answers · asked by franke 1 in Singles & Dating

so what are you guys giving to ure love as a present

2007-02-08 06:20:51 · 18 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 06:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by TZJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i'm ready for the jokes, but honestly when i'm around my wife and she's oh so beautiful inside and out. This woman makes my bloodpressure rise just thinking about her. sometimes it's like I want to just rip her clothes off and othertimes it actually happens. My wife wonders why i'm so into her physically, and has recently started questioning if I feel like this around other attractive women. I stated honestly the so women do cause me to feel that passion, but mainly because i'm missing you, and that I can actually apperciate beauty and still respect women for who they are and not just the fact that they're beautiful.

2007-02-08 06:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by chapman_red 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19/female. And constantly find myself some what turned on by young construction workers. Something about them..idk. Anyone else like this.

2007-02-08 06:18:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do...i love a guy and we both dating eachother but he hardly gives me any attention unless when he got nothing to do or bored...he works whole day and that keeps him busy for calling me or texting me, and when his home he either goes roams with his friends or goes to bed early....i am leaving for uk next week and he doesnt value the time for spending with me..i dont know what to do with him

2007-02-08 06:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Singles & Dating

I talk to so many people who say like 22-23 and Im amazed because in this age of careers and everything I expected it to be more 27-30.

2007-02-08 06:18:22 · 22 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 20 and have been on one date, and she lost interest as soon as she got to know me good, even though she initiated the talking between us. i'm terrible around people (my personality shuts down around everyone except for my family). i have no good friends, and i often feel hopeless about being alone.

2007-02-08 06:18:12 · 11 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been dating on and off for 19 months and mostly on. well, anyway, yesterday we were driving around and he said something about this ring that he gave me for my 22nd b-day: the James Avery silver "True Love Waits" on how it is my lucky charm or it brings me luck and i had to think that not necessarily. besides that he gave me the ring in the summer of 2006 while i broke up with him trying to figure things out and such. he and i know the Bible and stuff like everyone and my favorite verse from the Bible is 1 Corinathian(13: 4-8) and he looked at the ring and said that yeah my true love is out there and that " love is patient" he quoted Cotinthians which took me by surprise. then yesterday as well he asked about Romania, my home country and the price of the airfare and when it would be the best time for him to visit it-which turned out to be winter. Last yr.he asked my mom about food prices and such in Romania as though he wanted to come. help

2007-02-08 06:17:53 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

do they talk about you all of the time, are they competitive, are they mean to you, do they backstab you, do they copy off of you, do they try to steal whatever good things you have, do they pick on you, or all of the above? or are most people passive toward the person(s) they are jealous of-meaning do they treat them like they treat everyone else and hide the way that they really feel? how do people usually act when they are jealous? how can you tell?

2007-02-08 06:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Friends

I've been with my b for 2 years.he gave me a ring 3 mths ago. However, I discovered he's been flirting extensively with a female co-worker for the past 4 mths. they've met several times at her place for hrs. he'd tell me he's going to his friends but he'd go hang out with her. She tried made 3 passes at him but he pushed her away he told me. He says he's just very comfortable around her, they think alike and he likes her. says he was flattered by the attention she gave him and never wanted to do anything sexual with her.yet I feel cheated, I'm hurt and I can't trust him anymore.He says he loves me and that is why he is with me. he promised to stop the flirt and avoid that girl as much as hecan. The girl has not given up on him. she still email him and behaves as if she owns him.He never clearly told her to bakc down because he wants to maintain good work relationship. they work in the same room and chat all day long and i'm afraid the flirting will resume.. i dont know if i should go?

2007-02-08 06:16:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is a high maintenance female really that attractive mentally? Sure she is attractive physically!!

2007-02-08 06:16:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 06:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for a month and 1 week... I really love him!What to do?

2007-02-08 06:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by xBlue_Eyed_Angelx 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you cheat again? Did the urges go away? Is it different from one person to another?

2007-02-08 06:15:29 · 2 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

Every one says iam in love with this new guy iam with but is love an absolute thing u know for sure. i hear all the time people saying " i think iam in love" Others say i am because of my actions and words. But i always look at the glass half empty. But if iam and i never see or hear from him again, can't time heal anything?

2007-02-08 06:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by Big Red 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this mean that if you have cheated then you will never be a trustworthy spouse?

2007-02-08 06:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you get married because you love each other or because it is the right thing to do?

2007-02-08 06:13:46 · 30 answers · asked by LostinLove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a bad breakup with my ex gf. I love her so much and care, but I don't feel like I had that in return. She found someone else, but recently cheated on her new gf with ME! She told me recently she just wants to be friends cuz she's trying to respect her gf, so I said fine..she said that b4, so I didn't really believe it, but now, we don't talk at all. I use to give her so much damn attention, but now, I don't bother not even with one text. I'm so tempted to contact her, and I'm strong enough not to call or text her, but when she texts me, I'm a bit weak! Yesterday she texts me telling me her mom had a stroke, and I said sorry, but left it at that...no more replies after that, I thought maybe it's cuz she wanted me to feel sorry for her. I've deleted her number, but it's obvious she hasn't gotten rid of my number. Am I only someone she'll come to at her own convenience? When is it that ex's come back? I don't want to hope for anything, nor do I want to be back w/ her.

2007-02-08 06:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 06:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriends mom recently got evicted, so her,her son and her boyfriend are staying with us until they find a house to rent. That's not my problem, my problem is that her boyfriend wil yell and scream at her son ALL THE TIME!! And I come from a loud family, but this is ridiculas.All he does is call the kid a liar, and the mom does nothing! I really don't know what wo do. I don't like that he's always yelling in our house, I don't yell and neither does my boyfriend. I told my boyfriend that I didn't like the fact that his brother was always getting yelled at, but he did nothing. So my real question is...would you say something to the mom? Or just decide to leave it be??

Sorry this was so confusing, I didn't wanna use names :)

2007-02-08 06:11:58 · 20 answers · asked by giggles for breakfast :) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he has no idea she has bad habbits, lately she has been hitting me up for money . she tells me she cant pay it back but will pay me with b l o w j o b s .i want to tell my friend about the drug use but dont want him to find out about the sex. so my question is should i tell him anything?

2007-02-08 06:11:53 · 11 answers · asked by THE EVIL TROLL 1 in Friends

your man? Clean shaven, stubble, beard?

Tall and toned, short and round or other?

Rich, poor or average?

Any special traits you look for?

IF YOU CHOOSE THE BEST OF ALL THE ABOVE...what makes you worthy of him?

2007-02-08 06:10:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at school, and i have like her a LOT. i liked her at the beginning of the year when she first moved here, and i was one of the first guys to talk to her... she seemed to finally open up to me, and one of my dumb friends told her i liked her, and she didn't like me, because she already liked a guy from the summer, (who was at the school) they went out, and he cheated on her and stuff and was a jerk to her so she broke up with him. then i started to like her again... i know a girl that is her best friend and she said that she said that she didn't like anyone, but she was looking for a nice guy, and i was always nice to her. i'm kinda debating if i should ask her out her not... if i do, how should i ask her? should i send a note or just staight up ask her.

ps... were both 14. she seems kinda shy of me sometimes but shes really getting better. she is just a naturally shy girl, she doesn't talk to very many people other than close friends.

2007-02-08 06:10:47 · 7 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 06:10:46 · 16 answers · asked by nabeel a 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it Men don't have as many problems dating females with children as women do dating men with children??
Can women really handle the drama of a man with kids??

Do men just not care about the drama of dating a female with kids???

2007-02-08 06:10:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating